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Dalby (m)
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Mavis is sick of the thread I see. Too may blows I say. But it is all one love now!  Ah-ah? Sweet sis-in-law, I was only teasing ke!  You no trust me again? I no fit marry anybody from Edo State. We are all related.  No fights either. I do not like Michael Jackson, so when my worthy opponent mentioned him, I had a sick feeling in ma stomach. But all is well now. We are great over here. Enjoy life to the fullest as always. I trust the handsome little one is doing great. WOW!!!! Love your pic!!! You are looking too pretty and rested. I think it is time for another little one. Hurry up please--I can't wait! Mavis get well soon, was hoping we could do more than 8 pages on the thread  I no fit marry from EDO, na wa for you o, the last time I checked the average EDO man was not leprous  "Worthy opponent", sure hope that was a compliment o, or there will be no need to take the glooves off just yet  Looking pretty and rested, who are we talking about, did someone give birth resently  |
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almondjoy (f)
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Mavis get well soon, was hoping we could do more than 8 pages on the thread I no fit marry from EDO, na wa for you o, the last time I checked the average EDO man was not leprous "Worthy opponent", sure hope that was a compliment o, or there will be no need to take the glooves off just yet Looking pretty and rested, who are we talking about, did someone give birth resently No, I cannot marry from Edo state. We are all related I think. Of course it was a compliment. As for someone giving birth recently,---look around you.  |
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efuah (f)
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Enjoy life to the fullest as always. I trust the handsome little one is doing great. WOW!!!! Love your pic!!! You are looking too pretty and rested. I think it is time for another little one. Hurry up please--I can't wait! Am enjoying life o The Lord has been good. . . . the little handsome stubborn one is doing great, as per another little one, hmmmm. . . dnt tell me u're a prophetess o!. . . i no fit cry take kia |
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efuah (f)
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Looking pretty and rested, who are we talking about, did someone give birth resently your wife. . . or? |
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almondjoy (f)
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Am enjoying life o The Lord has been good. . . . the little handsome stubborn one is doing great, as per another little one, hmmmm. . . dnt tell me u're a prophetess o!. . . i no fit cry take kia I usually can tell the signs and they are highly contagious--as all other women's businesses---- so get far, far,far away from me please! Next time we would appreciate a fun sized "photo shoot" to confirm all rumours!  |
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Dalby (m)
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No, I cannot marry from Edo state. We are all related I think. Of course it was a compliment. As for someone giving birth recently,---look around you. A lot of waters have passed under the bridge that I am standing on, and I did not notice . Maybe its my glasses thats in need of an extreme makeover. |
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Dalby (m)
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your wife. . . or? No expose am now  |
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efuah (f)
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I usually can tell the signs and they are highly contagious--as all other women's businesses---- so get far, far,far away from me please! Next time we would appreciate a fun sized "photo shoot" to confirm all rumours! Satisfying long inquisitive throats is not important darl. . . what's important is knowing myself that i aint deceiving anybody. hehehehehe some hassles are simply not worth it. No expose am now u fit seal my mouth? |
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amguud (f)
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a jobles man is stil the head of the family, aldo he is more like becomin a liabilty to the house,. |
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almondjoy (f)
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No expose am now Dalby, how far na? Any prospects yet? Satisfying long inquisitive throats is not important darl. . . what's important is knowing myself that i aint deceiving anybody. hehehehehe some hassles are simply not worth it. u fit seal my mouth? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! I understand.a jobles man is stil the head of the family, aldo he is more like becomin a
liabilty to the house,. That is a very nice way of putting it. |
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Dalby (m)
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Dalby, how far na? Any prospects yet?
Just keeping our fingers crossed How is work? dearie Almondo? Almondo Jr.s and the free world am sure you all are doing great. Have a fun filled day @Efuah Yeah you guys won Nigeria  , we are all one and the same, woven from the same cloth. We are all winners anyhow. How work now, you guys have been running away from our jobless head of house at his moment of trial That is not fair o |
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almondjoy (f)
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Just keeping our fingers crossed How is work? dearie Almondo? Almondo Jr.s and the free world am sure you all are doing great. Have a fun filled day @Efuah Yeah you guys won Nigeria , we are all one and the same, woven from the same cloth. We are all winners anyhow. How work now, you guys have been running away from our jobless head of house at his moment of trial That is not fair o Oh, thank you! Work is fine. All the members of the "Almondo" household are sound asleep I hope. Off to school i the morning before I get home. Ma lazy co-workers are all fighting sleep too. I refuse to be caught in that kind of trap tonight so I got to keep typing away. Well, see you around and keep your fingers crossed for the chosen one. Off to the cafeteria for some hot cocoa! |
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efuah (f)
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Militia unseal your mouth abeg . . . errr. . . please hit me on my YIM whenever u're online! Dalby |
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iykstein (m)
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Well, the lazy man dey rely on wetin dey for bible/tradition dey take cover, hmmmmmmmmmm, e get as e be.
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debson (m)
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A man is the head of his family -- TRUE.
If he is jobless, for no fault of his then the above is still true for him, but
If he chooses to be lazy in his joblessness, then he will soon lose that respect.
You can be jobless and still be hard working. I have seen people who have no means of livehood, but are very good community workers and are always ready to help with chores in the compounds, streets etc. They try to make one buck or the other from menial jobs around the community.
Likewise you see people with jobs that are very lazy and lousy at their work, and they soon lose the jobs.
Bottom line is LOVE. If there is love in the family, The wife will continue to respect the man regardless of his economic status.
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Dalby (m)
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Militia unseal your mouth abeg . . . errr. . . please hit me on my YIM whenever u're online! Dalby Whats up, missed you. Its like you have gone underground for a while. Hope work ain't too stressfull??? You've been off yahoo msg. Have a swell week ahead Meanwhile tell am say I dey greet am o |
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efuah (f)
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Whats up, missed you. Its like you have gone underground for a while. Hope work ain't too stressfull??? You've been off yahoo msg. Have a swell week ahead Meanwhile tell am say I dey greet am o awww missed u too! saw ya offlines. . . was damn busy! Yeah, i went undeground it's more fun down there Stress?? hmm, don't go there o! This company is using me like a camel. . . i enjoy working thou, that makes me a complete woman. . the HIM understands . Buzz me when online. Have a blessed week too.  @debson. . . good point u have there! Well, the lazy man dey rely on wetin dey for bible/tradition dey take cover, hmmmmmmmmmm, e get as e be.
Nice one, make him rely on tradition. . . it will put food for his table! |
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ufofex (m)
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The man is, and will always be the head of the family. If he is jobless, then the word 'jobless' becomes an adjective qualifying his headship. If he is lazy, he becomes a lazy head,. If he is proud he becomes a proud head, and so on. I wish every woman has a husband with a job, that way there will be less friction in the family.
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ifele
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Be careful my brothers with women especially Yoruba women I have not met any kind of woman more wicked on earth. Because a man cannot take care of his family for a while does that mean he is less a man. These Yoruba women they are never ashamed to remove their wrapper and expose their undies in public. But some of them are compassionate and humble.
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doggyall
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@nigeria1
that was very emotional posting
and, like you said , God almighty should lift up, and blessed any realman that might be going through this kind of suituation. Amen
But, woman respect your man, even if they can't provide now
for they were your reason to be created by God.
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efuah (f)
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The man is, and will always be the head of the family. If he is jobless, then the word 'jobless' becomes an adjective qualifying his headship. If he is lazy, he becomes a lazy head,. If he is proud he becomes a proud head, and so on. I wish every woman has a husband with a job, that way there will be less friction in the family.
Amen! Be careful my brothers with women especially Yoruba women I have not met any kind of woman more wicked on earth. Because a man cannot take care of his family for a while does that mean he is less a man. These Yoruba women they are never ashamed to remove their wrapper and expose their undies in public. But some of them are compassionate and humble. are u personalising? pray u don't get some kicks here But, woman respect your man, even if they can't provide now
for they were your reason to be created by God.
Thank you! But some are rational, others are real pain! |
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oluomok (m)
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The head is the Head simple! What the Lord has ordain,
It's just that a jobless man who is lazy is a 'Mee' goat not man.
But an hard working man who suddenly lost his job should be respected and loved, yes he still mentain his manhood right has the head of the family,
but he should note that gradualy he is loosing his right, because it takes a responsiblities to be respected at by wife at home.
So get something doing young man, and i also undersatand that god does not bless an empty alter, so as a man we need a little thing as a seed to plant believe God to bless for devine havest. "For it takes a seed to become vegetation and it takes vegitation to become a forest" that it it takes a little biz to start and be great in life.
Thank u all
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chikibaybi (f)
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If the guy is serious and keeps looking for job instead of sitting at home and waiting for his wife to feed him, i'll say YES, he's still the head of the family
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ronkybaby (f)
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yes ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh, even if the woman is the breadwinner of the family, the man is still the head of the family because he paid the bride price and they are meant to assit each other
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almondjoy (f)
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@topic Yes! Only if the woman is also jobless! |
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efuah (f)
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Yeah, AJ. . . that makes more sense now! |
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