She Was Meant To Be My Bootycall!

@ poster,
is she the only girl in your life? go after other girls, thats the only way you can confirm actually if you can't live without her ,hopefully when she comes around and sees another sweeter chick in your crib, then it will dawn on her you have both yam and knife, obviously she knows you are more in love now, be a man never allow love lust for a woman to becloud good judgements.

@ poster,
that ya love no be real love o!,
move on if you feel she 's cheating,
according to the yorubas, a lady who shares you with someone else could also kill you o!
Take care.

Shit happens.
I'll just advice you do what you feel is right and be careful about your decisions too.Gdluck

@ apache . . . notin dey happen.
you've had fun, you've exploited the girl and she has also smartly exploited you too. Back for ground cash for hand, in a certain way you both have had a nice come rough symbiotic relationship . . . but i guess like most guys ur age you are begining unconsciously to look for a wife in the women you date.
This girl has been fun but she is not the type i would suggest for a long term relationship . . . she is yet to start school . . . forget it when she gets into school she will find richer, closer guys and she will dump you.

how to get over her? that wont be easy because she stays very close to you. I don't know about other guys but when i lose interest in a woman its the end of the road even if she lived under my nose. Restrict how often she can come to ur home. Talk to her, encourage her to leave, stop giving her money . . . pretty soon she will take the hint and leave u alone.

Besides you bros shld get busy. At 28 u shld be with a woman you see yourself marrying not with small girls.

@ poster, Since she's not a potential wife, I guess you just have to give her the cold treatment as davidylan offered. You've already spoiled her rotten with money and you've been an ATM machine for a while, when the money stops coming, that would definitely catch her attention .

_{Not all Igbo girls are about "bling bling"}

@ poster:
u seem like a preety good guy . well spoken, confident and financially stable. u don't need this!!!
i don't think u have  a real problem if u think its not going eniwer dump her don't be afraid. and don't forget AIDS is real before ure contently sharing her with sumone else. if shes too money concious and u can't handle it make a move. don't go and wreck because of woman ohh.

or better yet confront her and tell her u know aBOUT THJE OTHER GUY and its hightime she made a choice. ask her if what he gives her is more important than ure relationship either shes in or out.
gudluck!!!!

A LOVE STORY: What Do You Think?
BECAUSE YOU OPENED THIS YOU NOW HAVE INCREDIBLY GOOD LUCK THIS MONTH!!! YOU WILL GET A BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND OR IF YOU HAVE ONE YOU WILL GET KISSED AND BE TOLD THAT THEY LOVE YOU!!! YOU HAVE TO READ THIS WHOLE THING AND don't SKIP ANYTHING OR YOU WILL HAVE THE WORST LUCK!! GOOD LUCK!


Boy: baby we need to talk

Girl: kyle, what do u mean?

Boy: sumthin has come up, 

Girl: what? Wuts wrong? Is it bad?

Boy: i don't want to hurt u baby

Girl: *thinks* omg i hope he doesnt break up with me,  I love him so much

Boy: baby are you there??

Girl: yea I'm here what is so important??

Boy: I'm not sure if i should say

Girl: well u already brought it up, so please just tell me.

Boy: I'm leaving, 

Girl: baby what are u talking about?? I don't want u to leave me, i love you

Boy: not like that, i mean I'm moving far away

Girl: why? All of ur famliy lives over here.

Boy: well my father is sending me away to a boarding school far away.

Girl: i can't believe this.

[FATHER: (picks up tha other phone, interrupts & yells furiously) ERiKA, what did i tell you about talking to boys?!!!!!, Get off the d*** phone!! (And hangs up)]

Boy: wow ur father sounds really mad

Girl: u know how he gets, but anywayz i don't want you to go

Boy: would you run away with me?

Girl: baby, u know i would, i would do anything for u, but i can't,  U don't know what would happen if i did. My dad would kill me !!

Boy: *sad* its ok i understand i guess, 

Girl: *thinking* i can't believe wuts going on

Boy: i need to give u something 2nite b/c i am leaving on flight 1-80 in tha morning, so i need to see you now.

Girl: ok i will sneak out & meet u at tha park

Boy: ok ill meet u there in 20min

[They meet at a nearby park, they both hug eachother. And he gives her a note.]

Boy: here u go, this is for you i gotta go.

Girl: *tear* (begins to cry)

Boy: baby don't cry, u know i love you, but i have 2 go

Girl: ok (begins to walk away)

[They both go back home. And erika begins to read tha letter he gave her]

It says, 

Erika,

U probably already know that I'm leaving, i knew this would be better if i wrote a letter explaining tha truth about how much i care about you. The truth is, is that i never loved you, i hated you so much, u are my b**** and don't u ever forget that. I never cared about you, and never wanted to talk to you, n be around u. U really have no clue how much i hate you. Now that I'm leaving i thought u should know that i hate you b****, u never did tha right thing, and u were never there. I didnt think i could hate someone as much as i hate you. And i never want to see you, for the rest of my life, i will never miss kissing you like before, i never want to cuddle up, how we used to. I will not miss you and thats a promise. U never had my love, and i want you to remember that. B**** u keep this letter bcuz this may be tha last thing u have from me. I hate you so much. i will not talk to you soon b****,  Goodbye
- Kyle

[ erika begins to cry, she throws tha paper in tha garbage & crys for hours ]

, A day passes, she is sad, depressed and she feels so lonely,  Then she gets a phone call, 

Friend: how are u feeling?

Girl: i just can't believe this happend i thought he loved me.

Friend: o, about that. Kyle left me a msg. A few days ago. He told me to tell u to look in ur jacket pocket or something, 

Girl: ummm ok

[She finds a piece of paper in tha jacket, It says, ]

Baby i hope u find this before u read my letter. I knew ur dad might read it, so i switched a few words, 

Hate = Love

Never = Alwayz

B**** = Baby

Will not= will

,  I hope u didnt take that seriously because i love you with all my heart, and it was so hard to let you go thats y i wanted u to run away with me, 

-Kyle]


Girl: omg its a letter, Kyle does love me!!, he must of slipped it into my pocket when he hugged me. I can't believe how stupid I am!!

Friend: lol ok but i g2g,  Call me later

Girl: *happy*ok bye, i'll be at home waiting for my baby to call me !!

,  Erika turns tha T.V. on, 

[Breaking news] "An airplane has crashed. Over 47 young boys died, we are still searching for Survivors, This is a tragedy we will never forget, this plane was flight 1-80, it was on its way to an all boys boarding school, " Reporter says.

[ she turns off the tv, 3 days later, she kills herself, because of tha fact that Kyle was dead & she had nothing to Live for,  ]

, A day after that the phone rings. Nobody answers. It was Kyle, he called to leave a msg. "Its Kyle, i guess ur not home so, I called 2 let u know that I'm alive, i missed my flight b/c i had 2 see u one last time. So i hope ur not worried. I am staying for good. Sorry if u got scared, i promise 2 make it up 2 u everything will be a be ok i love you so much, call me asap bye!
**~~NOW MAKE A WISH ABOUT SOMEONE YOU LOVE~~**
 
 

the saga continues!!

"RRRRRRRRRRIIIIIIIIIIINNNNNGGG GGGGG!!!!!!"

the old alarm clock besides her bed went off jarring her awake, wide-eyed and groping frantically in the dark. pushing back the sweat soaked mass of her bedsheet, Erika jerked up from her sleep, involuntarily letting off a half shriek, reminiscent of the dying scream of a bush rat just as the venom from the fangs of a copperhead hits its little heart, abruptly cutting it off!

her heart was beating a staccato in her chest, and the veins on the sides of her temple were turgid with pounding blood, " O God! so it was a dream",  she began to cry softly, her slender shoulders heaving in self misery.

then she remembered the alarm clock. she stretched her arm towards it and pushed the old, rusting button. immediate silence followed. she brought the clock closer to see what time it was, peering closely at the victorian styled, short hands. this clock was a gift from her late mother of blessed memory, who had gotten it from her parents on her 16th birthday some 30 odd years ago.
she remembered stories her mum used to tell her about how famous her alarm clock used to be back when she was in boarding school.
"they used to call me 'alarm blow' back then", her mothers voice seemed to reverberate in her head. she also remembered laughing so hard when she'D heard that, she could only manage a ruefull smile now. clutching the worn out clock close to her breast, she whispered a silent "God bless you ma" and then let her mind wander to the events of the previous day. the time was 4:00am.

she thought of Kyle and their last meeting just before he announced his travel plans, and the 'coded' letter he had given her. her luscious lips parted in a slow grin, displaying perfect rows of small, white teeth,  "how ingenious of him" she thought, stiffling a giggle as she remembered her near heart attack on reading the note the first time. then she remembered her dream and her spine stiffened instinctively at the ugly memory. "thank God it was only a dream,  plane crash is not his portion in Jesus name, Amen", she silently prayed, closing her eyes.
Kyle was her first and only love, her heartbeat, her soulmate. she didn't know what she would do if she lost him,  no! she wouldn't, couldn't think of that! he was only going abroad for a few years to further his education, and besides, he'D come back to see her every summer holidays and christmas. she'll miss him, but she was also determined to get into the university and graduate as a banker thus making him proud of her,  then they could get married and have 3 kids-two girls and one boy, she smiled again.
her father hadn't warmed up to Kyle yet, he thought all young boys wanted only one thing from young girls like his daughter. "if only he knows that Kyle hasn't slept with me yet", she mused. her dad'll come around soon enough, she decided. once he gets to know Kyle better, he'll see that he's different from the others. Kyle was a perfect gentleman, plus he knew her so well. he had found her at a time she was experiencing a psychological downslide, following her mothers death. he had shown her true love, and restored her hope in life. she had drawn emotional strenght from him, and he never failed to encourage her and raise back her self esteem. her thoughts wandered to the time she'D seen him talking intimately to another girl and she threw up a tantrum, only to find out later that the other girl was his cousin. he hadn't rubbed it in then, just smiled and called her 'jealousee',  she remembered feeling hot in her cheeks that time.
"Dear God, please don't take him away from me!", she prayed out loud this time, looking up at the ceiling.

BEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
that was her fathers N2000 seiko digital alarm clock, with fm and calendar. he'D be awake now and start getting ready for work. she had to hurry and make breakfast for him and her kid brother Kenny, who was still fast asleep.
she glanced again at her clock, still clutched to her chest. it was 5:30am.



, (to be continued)

Guess she wasn't meant to be your bootycall baby,

Try another girl.

Why are you advising him to leave her alone? The guy still likes her, despite the fact that she has been playing him, and roaming around with some other richer dude. Abeg, leave am o.

 He likes the fact that there is some competition for the girl's attention, and he thinks that somehow he might end up having the upper hand. So wetin come be una own? If he didn't like her, or if he hated the fact that another guy was in the picture, he would have banned her from his house or hooked up with another chic.

Di bobo sabi di thing wey I'm dey do.   He is a player that got played out. . . .by his own cards. Case closed.

I also think posters shld keep it short n conscise,  just go straight to the pt

She was meant to be a booty call, stick to your original plan.