What Do You Hate About Your Partner?

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4real (m)
What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« on: April 16, 2006, 12:54 AM »

well most of us have said something about what we love about our partners, now i really want to know if you had a chance to change something about them that you don't like what would it be
for me she is stuborn and i really hate that about her and she also likes things done her way and at her own time disturb it or question it and you are in soup (but i still love her anyway)
so i have said my mind who is next
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #1 on: April 16, 2006, 01:02 AM »


he stresses tooooo much on one single tin!! Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
curiousNja (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #2 on: April 16, 2006, 01:03 AM »

What is this? Another match between you and Rubby?

I am single, but I hated that my ex would never admit when he was wrong.
4real (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #3 on: April 16, 2006, 01:06 AM »

no this is not between me and rubby oh, things are fine with us (we are crazy )does not mean we don't love each other. Grin
we have got nothing but love for each other.
gigitte (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #4 on: April 16, 2006, 01:46 AM »

 Grin
rubby where are you!
4real (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #5 on: April 16, 2006, 01:58 AM »

ah wetin do rubby now i beg, wetin i talk na bad thing to say i love my wife I LOVE RUBBY I LOVE RUBBY I LOVE RUBBY
bluenubian (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #6 on: April 16, 2006, 05:55 AM »

the fact that anytime we argue, i never win
mide2 (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #7 on: April 16, 2006, 10:57 PM »

I hate it when my BF is pissed about something i did or said and i'm saying i'm sorry with the whole of my heart but he still wants to rub it in more.
nike4luv (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #8 on: April 17, 2006, 12:22 AM »

hate is such a strong word
what about 'dislike'
if u HATE that about the partner why date him/her?

mine, um, nothing really, he makes everything better!, doesnt allow me to take the blame, if i say am sorry he says what for? i dislike that!  Angry Kiss
4real (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #9 on: April 17, 2006, 12:30 AM »

Quote from: nike4luv on April 17, 2006, 12:22 AM
hate is such a strong word
what about 'dislike'
if u HATE that about the partner why date him/her?

mine, um, nothing really, he makes everything better!, doesnt allow me to take the blame, if i say am sorry he says what for? i dislike that!  Angry Kiss

you got me there lol Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
mide2 (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #10 on: April 17, 2006, 01:20 AM »

i believe words carry different feelings within different contexts. The word HATE in this context isn't a strong, can't- stand feeling, if you read the 1st post by 4real. It's just something you wish can change, but if it doesn't  change it's ok cause it doesn't cause any particular harm. Yeah, dislike sounds more like it, but it all bores down to the same thing here. I just personally like flowing on with threads topics.
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #11 on: April 17, 2006, 01:21 AM »

that is very true Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
nike4luv (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #12 on: April 17, 2006, 01:25 AM »

choice of words, very essential!  Tongue
mide2 (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #13 on: April 17, 2006, 01:36 AM »

only 7% of message is sent through words, with remaining 93% sent through nonverbal expressions (depending on author, verbal part goes up to 35%). You are right that the  choice of words are pretty essential but baby, you flow with the rhythm most of the time.


4real (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #14 on: April 17, 2006, 03:11 AM »

ok i hear so what do you dislike about your partner?
rubby (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #15 on: April 18, 2006, 07:19 PM »

am here, don't mind 4real, he is also sturbborn just like him, what i dislike, he does not allow our fights to last 24 hours( that's sweet). maybe that will bring senses to me sometimes, but i love him so much and i know how he feels about me, i hate when i hurt him sometimes Wink love u TEMI!
gigitte (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #16 on: April 18, 2006, 09:07 PM »

lol may i grow old to be like rubby and 4real, you guys give me hope!
4real (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #17 on: April 19, 2006, 01:17 AM »

Quote from: gigitte on April 18, 2006, 09:07 PM
lol may i grow old to be like rubby and 4real, you guys give me hope!
people that have been shouting for rubby sha you happy now, now gigitte to grow old like us you would need to take 5 litres of petrol everyday, believe me you would grow old as quick as possible Grin
and baby boo (rubby) love you to Wink
rubby (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #18 on: April 19, 2006, 07:13 PM »

hi dear, guess u should pray that i should be less sturbborn, and for you all, may you find true love(amen) to that Smiley
SweetnSour (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #19 on: April 19, 2006, 07:44 PM »

well not keeping to his words
like saying we're on 4 soso date
n then cancelling 4 some dumb reasons.
4real (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #20 on: April 20, 2006, 05:35 AM »

i hope he does not cancel on wedding day lol Grin
mekoyo (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #21 on: September 14, 2007, 12:11 PM »

Nothing. Cause i don't have one. Wink Wink
Choco (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #22 on: January 09, 2008, 11:05 AM »

well I'm single now but one thing I hated with my ex was he is "I can do it all by myself" attitude. It was just tiring 
9star (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #23 on: January 09, 2008, 04:52 PM »

Hey please stop allowing 4real and rubby deceive u guys.
Its de same person ooo.
i hereby declare them BAN.(sori tot i was seun)
mopegirl (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #24 on: January 09, 2008, 05:08 PM »

Just too stubborn
almondjoy (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #25 on: January 09, 2008, 05:11 PM »

Temper!!!!! Grin

God have mercy.  Try to keep the kids away from him as much as possible.

Thank God we dey for America.
sleekdot (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #26 on: January 09, 2008, 06:07 PM »

very stubborn girl,she likes having things her way. I love her anyway
lamidebaby (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #27 on: January 10, 2008, 02:09 PM »

 His compelling need to please his sisters. gets to me atimes.
tkb417 (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #28 on: January 11, 2008, 10:56 AM »

ok. can i talk about my ex?

She will use all her money to buy gold. Thats crazy
ufobabe (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #29 on: January 11, 2008, 11:25 AM »

he is work busy!

doesn't have time 2 call.
naijachix (m)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #30 on: January 11, 2008, 11:17 PM »

HER CUNT SMELLS!!!!!!!!!! Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin


jst joking
uspry1 (f)
Re: What Do You Hate About Your Partner?
« #31 on: January 12, 2008, 03:59 AM »

Ok, i am single now. Only things i hate my exhubby were: (at that time we were married in the past)

(1) too stingy refusing to compromise on financial obligations.

(2) refused to admit that he is wrong. (Mr. Know-It-All or Mr. I-Always-Right! type)

(3) money spending recklessly and lavishly unneccessarily. (after my divorice finalized, he confessed me he was gambling addict)

(4) constantly workalochlic, does not have a time for wife/children on his own quality time. Never take his paid vacation leave on his job---i mean never take 10 days vacation off plus two paid days off he still go work on two days off.

(5) refused to listen to me as his wife, always listen to his friends.

(6) never have time to play, talk, spend his time, build strong bond with his own children I raise with.

After my divorce went finalized, eight years later, he now WAKE UP and SMELL THE COFFEE, apologized what he put me through horrible loveless abusive marriage that he wish he could changed long time ago. (marriage counselor does not work well) Because he got 3 cancerous organs spreading around his body THAT IS WHEN HIT HIM HARDER!!!!

He never listen what his family, his doctor, my family, his boss, his supervisor, coworkers, even me tried warning him at all, he don't eat right---eating too much unhealthy food (too many fast food restaurant buying excessive foods (that is enough for 3 people he eat whole himself), he does not sleep right. Always sleep 4 hours or less everyday more than 10 years going to work all the time.

His health now collaspes!!! Sad
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