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babymine (f)
What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« on: April 17, 2006, 09:58 AM »

For the married ones what do you call your spouse and what does your spouse call you? That sweet name he/she calls you that melts you and makes you feel so special. And for those not yet married, what would you call your spouse?

As for me, I think I'll call him Nkem (it means mine). By the way I'm not Igbo but I love that name. It could be Sweetie, or Handsome or Sunshine or Honey.  Undecided  Grin

Anyway, I have so many sweet names I'll choose from.  Grin  Cheesy  Wink

What about you?  Cheesy  Grin   Wink
Zahymaka (m)
Re: What Do/would You Call Your Spouse?
« #1 on: April 17, 2006, 11:45 AM »

It'll be a variant of her name -- and I'm going to make sure we only use it in private. I'm also going to be the only person who calls her that.
ojd (m)
Re: What Do/would You Call Your Spouse?
« #2 on: April 17, 2006, 12:13 PM »

Quote from: Zahymaka on April 17, 2006, 11:45 AM
It'll be a variant of her name -- and I'm going to make sure we only use it in private. I'm also going to be the only person who calls her that.

I agree wit this. My elder brother calls his wife "baby" and his kid {2yrs old} has picked it he now calls his mum "baby" as well.

Zahymaka (m)
Re: What Do/would You Call Your Spouse?
« #3 on: April 17, 2006, 01:50 PM »

Trust kids. That's why some men call their wives "mom".  Cheesy Cheesy
mukina2 (f)
Re: What Do/would You Call Your Spouse?
« #4 on: April 17, 2006, 02:14 PM »

Quote from: Zahymaka on April 17, 2006, 01:50 PM
Trust kids. That's why some men call their wives "mom". Cheesy Cheesy
thats what ma uncle calls his wife and she calls him dad Grin Grin Grin Grin

i'll find a special name that would be his in the entire world Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink Wink
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #5 on: April 17, 2006, 07:07 PM »

honey!!!!
debbieolat (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #6 on: April 17, 2006, 07:50 PM »

I call my boo 'oko mi' meaning my husband and he calls me his princess Wink
Olu Abuja (m)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #7 on: April 17, 2006, 08:38 PM »

I call my wife Mama, Mama T or just her name, Tola depending on the situation. She calls me Temi (My Own) at all times.

Our 5year old daugter has noticed this, so any time she wants to get something from me she calls me Temi  and it makes me laugh when she does that - It means she understands the special attention the nickname draws). At some other times she calls my wife by her name Tola. We try to tell her to call us Mummy and Daddy but i guess its what she hears most of the time that she wants to call us expecially when we are all at home. I also noticed that she will only call us those names right in the house and never outside.

Wink
Zahymaka (m)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #8 on: April 17, 2006, 08:48 PM »

That's cool. Smart little' girl.
babymine (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #9 on: April 18, 2006, 11:49 AM »

Its all good.  Grin
mide2 (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #10 on: April 21, 2006, 12:03 AM »

 Smiley
babymine (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #11 on: April 21, 2006, 10:46 AM »

@ Olu
Temi is in Yoruba what Nkem is in Igbo.

That's cool.  Grin  Cheesy
eveseh (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #12 on: April 27, 2006, 08:05 PM »

darly Kiss Kiss Kiss
ojd (m)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #13 on: May 13, 2006, 11:21 PM »

what ever u choose to call your spouse just be careful, the kids might just pick it up.
chinani (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #14 on: May 14, 2006, 12:01 AM »

Quote from: Zahymaka on April 17, 2006, 11:45 AM
It'll be a variant of her name -- and I'm going to make sure we only use it in private. I'm also going to be the only person who calls her that.
Yes, that's how cults start too.               Only teasing!    Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Wink
 
@Olu Abuja
You daughter must be very clever.

Such sweet stories. As for me, I'D call him "di m" Igbo for "my husband", "Onye mu" Igbo for "My someone" or "Nkem". Nkem is the front running. Do you mind babymine? Undecided I haven't met my husband yet so his personality would decide on what I'D call him. I'D make it something private though as opposed to his name or nickname. I think that'D make us both feel special & loved.
chinani (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #15 on: May 14, 2006, 12:15 AM »

Oh I just thought of something. Abroad everyone goes by their "Christian" name, so I guess I'D call my hubby his Igbo/Yoruba/Hausa/Habesha/Swahili etc. name if we live abroad. Foreigners cannot really pronounce our names so I won't have to worry about someone trying to call him by that name. But then again, maybe I'll have to share the privilege w/ his mother. Embarrassed Gentlemen, what do you think? If I marry a Nigerian should I use his ethnic name - if we live abroad - or a sweetheart name? Which would you prefer? If I don't marry an African Undecided well, refer to my previous post.
ikamefa (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #16 on: May 14, 2006, 12:33 AM »

Grin I'll call him papii. Shocked your lordship sir, Wink bhayette nkosi or better still ma masta  Tongue
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #17 on: May 14, 2006, 12:34 AM »

im loving the ''papii'' one Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
chinani (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #18 on: May 14, 2006, 12:39 AM »

If I may ask, why papi?
ikamefa (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #19 on: May 14, 2006, 12:47 AM »

papii because i love ,respect him and admire him it's just an endearment.it does not take any thing away from me being his equal partner in our relationship Cool
mochafella (m)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #20 on: May 14, 2006, 12:51 AM »

Quote from: ikamefa on May 14, 2006, 12:33 AM
or better still ma masta  Tongue

That sounds slavish.
ikamefa (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #21 on: May 14, 2006, 12:54 AM »

slavish or not na endearment  Cool
chinani (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #22 on: May 14, 2006, 01:03 AM »

Quote from: ikamefa on May 14, 2006, 12:47 AM
papii because i love ,respect him and admire him it's just an endearment.it does not take any thing away from me being his equal partner in our relationship Cool
What I meant was, are you latina/hispanic? What drew you to this name/word/endearment?

Quote from: ikamefa on May 14, 2006, 12:33 AM
Grin I'll call him papii. Shocked your lordship sir, Wink bhayette nkosi or better still ma masta Tongue
Quote from: mochafella on May 14, 2006, 12:51 AM
That sounds slavish.
Quote from: ikamefa on May 14, 2006, 12:54 AM
slavish or not na endearment Cool
Er, I can't feel you on the "masta" part. Undecided
sade511 (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #23 on: May 14, 2006, 01:04 AM »

When I had one it was baby or babe.
chinani (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #24 on: May 14, 2006, 01:06 AM »

@Sade
Oh are you divorced? Don't mean to pry. Smiley
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #25 on: May 14, 2006, 01:07 AM »

thats just what ya doing??? Smiley
sade511 (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #26 on: May 14, 2006, 01:08 AM »

no
It was my ex boyfriend.
mochafella (m)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #27 on: May 14, 2006, 01:10 AM »

Quote from: Rhodalyn on May 14, 2006, 01:07 AM
thats just what ya doing??? Smiley
took the words right out of my mouth  Grin
chinani (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #28 on: May 14, 2006, 01:11 AM »

OIC @ Sade & the ubiquitous Rhodalyn.
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #29 on: May 14, 2006, 01:55 AM »

 Shocked Shocked lol chinani Cheesy Cheesy what big english is that??? Cheesy Cheesy come down to my level Cheesy Cheesy
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #30 on: May 14, 2006, 01:57 AM »

oh yeah!! babe Cheesy Cheesy i just searched for the meaning Cheesy Cheesy

''Being or seeming to be everywhere at the same time'', yeah!! man!! thats Rhodalyn for You Cheesy Cheesy
kimba (m)
Re: What Do/Would You Call Your Spouse?
« #31 on: May 14, 2006, 11:12 AM »

i know a man who calls his wife: baby
the wife calls him: babe
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