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madamkoko
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SASHA4U, hope u've learned that Nigerians are very bitter, cynical, and angry people, lol
Thier country is in need of DIRE HElp with their useless politicians.
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big father (m)
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koko, Which one be your own with Nigerians naa   >: |
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madamkoko
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I have nothing against Nigerians,
Just hoping that people in this forum have more insightful comments than then speaking out of their sh$#$hole.
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PERVERT9
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just talk say you wan make the guy fok you abeg comot here love ko infatuation ni
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wavemasta (m)
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Please my sister forget about all these people telling you that you are evil and need deliverance. I was told that I was possessed with the spirit of jezebel(whatever that is) and lust when my hormones began acting up at puberty, so I feel you.
You are human, hence your feelings, and this dude isnt biologically related to you, so its not wrong IMO, nothing like incest. The only thing "wrong" is how your family might take it and what "people" might say. I cannot tell you what to do except pray about it, and follow your hearts leadings.
What does the guy in question have to say about this?
P.S. Not all xtians judge and all that in the name of telling their version of the "truth"
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assland
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Haba now.how can you give such an advice.can you marry your own step brother?
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PERVERT9
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Haba now.how can you give such an advice.can you marry your own step brother?
where your own advice half apu is beta than none  |
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assland
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My advice is that she lets go of her feeling,most times it better to do what is right not just what is good.don't think dating a step brother is a nice thing to do.if she is patient enough,she will find someone she even loves more and verse versa
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JayFK (m)
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Don't listen to the people who are saying go to your pastor, they are idiots. I'm sure if you want to quote your bible, it says the man and woman shall become one not their children or families.
You guys are not related by blood, I really don't see anything wrong with it. If you are outside Nigeria then I'm sure you're good to go.
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UARESTUPID
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u know guys, i kinna agree with some of u. technically d guy is not her blood brother and they are not doing any thing wrong. biblically, they are very wrong and even thinking about it is a sin. but u know what i can understand your position. do what someone already suggested earlier, speak 2 your parents and think about d advice they give 2 you.
B4 You SPEAK 2 THEM THOUGH, GO AND SPEAK WITH A BLACK PRIEST THAT STILL HAS SOME PRINCIPLES LEFT AND WILL BE ABLE 2 ADVICE You BETTER. BECAUSE D WHITE ONES WILL NEVER SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH MOST THINGS.
I DONT WANT 2 GIVE You ANY ADVICE THAT GOD WILL QUESTION ME ABOUT ON D JUDGEMENT DAY, BUT I WILL STRONGLY URGE You 2 SPEAK TO A PRIEST OR PASTOR, I HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR You. AND DONT MIND D OTHER MEMBERS THAT ARE INSULTING You ON THE GUISE OF ADVISING You, TAKE D GOOD ADVICE, AND IGNORE D INSULTS. IF IT DOES NOT WORK OUT, PRAY AND GOD WILL GIVE You D STRENGTH TO RESIST THE GUY, AND WILL BRING UR MISTER RIGHT TO You. ALSO TRY TO DEVELOP SOME KING OF FEELING 4 ANOTHER GUY THAT IS TRUSTWORTHY (AT LEAST AS CLOSE TO TRUSTWORTHY AS You CAN GET AND TRY NOT TO GET BURNED!), You NEVER CAN TELL, IT COULD LEAD 2 SOMETHING GOOD. BEST WISHES.
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ibkaye (f)
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Please try to have as little contact with him as you possibly can, until these 'feelings' die down.  incest! |
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Eliza704
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Knock it off! Its gross! You shouldnt have been in that situation in the first place.
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frank 3.16 (m)
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can Nairalanders please tell me how these two people are related?
what exactly is the meaning of step brother or sister?
the only problem here is the social aspect of it all, and not the biological or religious aspect.
@poster
since this is causing too much controversy, why don't you just let it go.
yea it could be difficult but, the wrong side of this is the thought his father sleeping with your mother , while him (the son) sleeping with you.
am not comfortable wiith that
but if both of you see nothing wrong with that, who are we to judge, BUT YOU ARE NOT RELATED IN ANY WAY PERIOD!!
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streak (m)
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if u can do this with your step brother, then u can as well do it with your cousin,nephew, and so on,
THIS GIRL DON KOLO OOOO,
u better run comot 4 that house abeg. na him be the only guy wey dey this world??? shuuu.
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Tamedu
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You have no problem babe at least yours is not as complex as this.
Two men met at a bus stop & struck up a conversation. One of them kept complaining of family problems. Finally,the other man said: You think you have family problems?Listen to my situation.
A few years ago I met a young widow with a grown up daughter & we got married.Later my father married my stepdaughter.That made my stepdaughter my stepmother & my father became my stepson.Also,my wife became mother-in-law of her father-in-law.Then the daughter of my wife,my stepmother,had a son.This boy was my half-brother because he was my father's son,but he was also the son of my wife's daughter,which made him my wife's grandson.That made me the grandfather of my half-brother.This was nothing until my wife & i had a son.Now the half-sister of my son,my stepmother,is also the grandmother.This makes my father the brother in law of my child,whose stepsister is my fathers wife,I'm my stepmothers brother-in-law,my wife is her own's aunt,my son is my fathers nephew & my own grandfather.The first manshouted'Stop ther.'I don't have any problem,thank you.
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SAM MILLA (m)
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leave your step brother and start running
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western (m)
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aye se iru e.
to me ki can do it, i have tought of it before. i had a step sister and to me i think and imaging alot.
so girl, you didt want you family to be scartered, that the way i see things. but i can say it wrong, but i can't do that
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sasha4u (f)
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Thank you guys for giving me advice. I'm grateful for those who were supportive as for the others I try to ignore the hurtful things that have been said, i can't help how i feel, People won't understand until they've been in my position, how it feels to have such strong feelings for someone society will never allow you to be with, i think to myself one day ill have to watch him get married, watch some other woman have his kids, I feel like i'll never get over him, no other man will care for me as much as he does. I'm just stuck on him. i just can't explain how it feels,
We are both hurting from this and weve taked about this issue over and over , we both understand how difficult our situation is and what implications it may have, but we are yet to find a solution that doesnt involve immense pain and heartache, so for now we are just leaving it up to fate.
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Abuja1 (m)
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he is your brother, call it what's so ever,quit from that relationship, God no go 4give you, oo
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wendymanda
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How can you be inlove with someone you call brother whether step or half he is still your brother.
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jennykadry (f)
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@poster
even though its not d same blood,but he is your step brother which means he should be family wt u,and u guys should relate like big bro and small sis,or big sis and small bro
Maybe u should go for prayers,because its obvious u need to b separated from d devil that is pushing u to do this thrash
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loffers (m)
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i understand what u mean, but my dear its totally WRONG. just keep your feelings to urselves[ i mean d 2 of u]. people must not hear about it, not to even mention your family members, its an abominable thing to do.
i pray that the lord will help you.
but wait a minute, does your step brother think its a right thing to do
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olrotimi (m)
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no no, burry your pasion, its absolutely wrong
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ariblaze (m)
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i don't see anything wrong with it ooo
as a matter of fact such has happened
in this country,its not morally wrong
neither is it incest,its not a crime,neither
is it bad,its just that in this part of the
world,we have a tendency to go overboard
with issues
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sasha4u (f)
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he is your brother, call it what's so ever,quit from that relationship, God no go 4give you, oo
please do you even read the bible, it is a known fact that abraham and sarah were half siblings, which means they were blood related; so befpre you open your trap you need to get your facts right!! Everyone knows God found favour in Abraham despite this, so i don't understand the problem from a christian point of view. If u want the chapter and verse i go give am to u. |
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sasha4u (f)
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i understand what u mean, but my dear its totally WRONG. just keep your feelings to urselves[ i mean d 2 of u]. people must not hear about it, not to even mention your family members, its an abominable thing to do.
i pray that the lord will help you.
but wait a minute, does your step brother think its a right thing to do
lets leave him out of this, i instigated it, Lol, i don't think he had a chance to say no, not many men can resist me when i set my sights on them, (well ive only had two b/f, so thats another story, ) |
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sasha4u (f)
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SASHA4U, hope u've learned that Nigerians are very bitter, cynical, and angry people, lol
Thier country is in need of DIRE HElp with their useless politicians.
You know i was just thinking that! In london no one would give a shit, but Nigeria, ah, that is another story altogether, just look at all the backlash ive received on this post, imagine if it was face to face, Some Nigerians use their religion as a cloak to just discriminate, which silly because christianity teaches love and acceptance! As for the politicians Nigeria is still developing, come back in 20 years and i know things will have improved, |
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mikkyphp (m)
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@poster
i feel your pain. but have you tried discussing this with both your parents? talking might just help, if it doesn't, i suggest you elope to an island in the far east of the meditteranean.not an easy decision though
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his_grace (m)
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reach for his ding dong di ck and insert it into your slit wide wet oily pussy and rub his di ck in between your big dinghy boobs as you wipe your tongue all over his face and twist his nipples until he screams and then come back here for more advice.
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kola oloye (m)
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@topic,
1 peter 1
13 Wherefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and hope to the end for the grace that is to be brought unto you at the revelation of Jesus Christ;
14 As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance:
15 But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;
16 Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.
17 And if ye call on the Father, who without respect of persons judgeth according to every man's work, pass the time of your sojourning here in fear:
18 Forasmuch as ye know that ye were not redeemed with corruptible things, as silver and gold, from your vain conversation received by tradition from your fathers;
19 But with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot:
20 Who verily was foreordained before the foundation of the world, but was manifest in these last times for you,
21 Who by him do believe in God, that raised him up from the dead, and gave him glory; that your faith and hope might be in God.
22 Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently:
23 Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever.
24 For all flesh is as grass, and all the glory of man as the flower of grass. The grass withereth, and the flower thereof falleth away:
25 But the word of the Lord endureth for ever. And this is the word which by the gospel is preached unto you.
Pray,let God give you the strenght to resist EVIL
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waterworks (f)
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excuse me?? is the entitre nairaland going crazyyyyyyyyyyy? who the hell says the onlt thing wrong is the african point of view? biologically it is ok so? religously it is wrong. morally it is wrong technically he is your brother so technically it is wrong!!! what th hell are ther no other boys out there? please nairalanders don't try to cushion the blow or sweet talk here. it is frowned upon in africa yes but it is morrally wrong. that is unheard of. take a minute to think about it please. you are in love with your step brother DOES THAT MAKE ANY SENSE TO YOU? even if your parents can't bear any children that is now an excuse? so u have feelings for each other what next? will u get married? have kids? what will they be to both of you? brother? sister? son? what will they be to your parents? grandchildren or children? you and your mother will now share the same surname? all that aside it is religously wrong. let me ask you a question did your parents marry in a church? if they are you are related in the eyes of God! (aside the fact that we are all children of God of course). if not you are related in the eyes of the law!!! if the physical elements don't matter to you how about your parents wedding vows. PLEASE IT IS WRONG. DONT NIGERIANS HAVE ANY MORALS ANYMORE??? If u can do that you might as well get married to your step father as well since you are not related eniways! not trying to be stereotypical but we individuals should know were to draw the line. afterall if its not a big deal why is she asking? because she already knows!!! |
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