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sasha4u (f)
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glad to have someone who feels the same as i do, i was starting to think i was some kind of freak lol, im feeling a little better now!!
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sarla (f)
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Hey, no problem! Glad I could help! How are things going for you two? Made any decisions yet? I don't want to pry, but I'm really curious.  |
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sasha4u (f)
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Well im not sure what we're going to do, one thing i do know is if we were going to be together we couldn't be in Nigeria, they'll probably try to stone us or something lol so we are just trying to work things out, 1) how are our parents going to react, 2) where are going to live 3) what's going to happen if our family disown us, there are so many things to consider so its not a decision i can make right now, as frustrating as that is  |
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NubianQ (f)
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I KNOW AM GOING TO CRUCIFIED FOR SAYING THIS BUT I UNDERSTAND!!!  GIRL You IN A TOUGH ONE. WELL, its not wrong but its not right, it's just that its going to be complicated. ask yourself canu handle the heat. if u can,then go ahead. it might just turn out to be purely physical n u might get over it. who knows. he is your bro(technically) so it might feel a little bit akward. atleast u shared it wit us so i would nt want to make it worse for you but i would only say see hw it goes |
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mamaput (f)
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there is no blood relationship.
so whats wrong with it.
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mamaput (f)
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well do not tell your people yet. it may be over before it even starts. but to be on the safe side date other people.
i just hope you are not mistaking "brotherly" love with the other love.
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hni (m)
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well it kind of old stuff now but i must confess to you that when "emotions"come to bear irregardless of the underlining factor, or reason attributed for such things cropping up, its always hard admitting and acknowledging that a dog is way far differnt from a monkey(recall yoruba saying) n pe aja lobo funmi!, girl shut your mind and tell the lover boy to back-out! have a wonderful time +234-080-5473-2185
+234-070-3772-1707
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qekzy (m)
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please stop watching all those home videos because they are begining to mess you up
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Abbygyal (f)
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@poster
some says you need a pastor, some says it is disgusting. I think what most members should understand is to put them self in your shoes and know how it feels. I ve never gone though this before, but its your choice if u want to have a relationship with d guy or not and it depends on how your mum and his dad takes this situation.
Some people are giving their views based on culture. But its your choice to take control of your feelings.
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sheniqua
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This is wrong ho ha
It is dirty and wrong.
Can a man marry and deflower his adopted child afterall they are not blood.
what's the difference here?
an adopted brother,step brother half brother is a brother.
@ poster go out more and meet people who are not family before you open up a thread about sleeping with your uncles.
TUFIAKWA!!!
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omoovie (f)
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1st question:
Are y'all blood related?
If the answer is yes:
You disgust me
If the answer is no:
Then y r u asking us this yeye question? Y'all ain't blood related! Abeg comot 4 here!
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S.U.N.O
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***Playing Devil's Advocate***
Agrees with Omoovie.
You know, if you think about it, he is just your "step-brother." To get really technical, you and dood are not related. Y'all's parents just happened to get married. Now, if he was your "half-brother," I could understand that, that's just disgusting. But in your situation, I personally, do not see nothing wrong with it. One can see it as luck. Your parents being both of y'all's "cupid." All that being said, your parents or family members still wouldn't think so or see it from my perspective. So. . .
. . .bottom lineYou're F*cked!!
Get over these feelings and keep it moving. From a true Nigerian/Biblical (if this is even discussed in the Bible) perspective, "eeeeeeewwwwwww!!!"
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vivaladiva (f)
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i emphathise with your situation, it must be terribly difficult
uve got two uneasy choices, do what your heart says and damn the consequences
or follow your head and live with your loss
personally i don't see any thing wrong after all u are not related
was watching this documentary about people that fall in love with their blood sisters cousins etc having never meet before until they were adults twas very interesting
do what your heart says fcuk, the consequences but don't forget some over zeleous self righteous puritants will never hesitate to stick their filty fingers at you
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mamaput (f)
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Can a man marry and deflower his adopted child afterall they are not blood.
what's the difference here? to this i will answer Woody Allen |
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Trendiest (f)
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@ POSTER, get that out your head,
yes u can hav hot , steamy, butt naked, nasty sex, bt face it,that is all it cud ever b between u guys.its a sexual thing, r u going to go about tellin your friends u datin your step brother, even your folks would kill u if dey found out,
get over each oda mehn, der's blood between u guys , plus that is just nasty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i gatta admit fallin 4 a couple of my cousins tho bt no biggies, der's still a little history between us, abi
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acidrop (f)
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go to church for delivrance oooo
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Trendiest (f)
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SARLA, please come bak 2 earth
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RuuDie (m)
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Re:
« #113 on: May 21, 2008, 08:57 AM » |
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Honey,
"step-brother" is just another english word. . . . . . . Just go ahead & do whady'all feel like doing!
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SENATOR JD (m)
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men sis get that feeling away,its not just an english word, uve got a bit of blood tying u guys.so just take it easy aight i knw it might be difficult because i have once tripped for my cousin but d soonest u can get it out the better for u.would put a word of prayer for u.cheers
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kayowalemi (m)
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Who b d wife 4 cain and even abel. I beg go ahead if u really love and he too really u
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sucess001 (m)
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 @ sasha, u rily need to work on yourself, what i mean is, u ve to start telling yourself, i can't , its not worth it, truth is, no matter the perspective u look at it, morally,ethically,whichever, there re reservations, its still wrong and it will cause your parents heartache, simply try and "fall out of love" or redirect the feelings as a brother u value so much, the road to approval for u two is goin to be long and tortuous, u don't want to go through it, i ve faced something similar, just avoid the rough path, all the best!!
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Outstrip
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. You are not related by blood.
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kola oloye (m)
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with it. You are not related by blood.
IT IS TRADITIONALLY WRONG. |
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mamaput (f)
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whats traditionally wrong, traditionally when the step father dies and it comes to inheritance, the family will ask the step son to go and look for his father.
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SENATOR JD (m)
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IT IS TRADITIONALLY WRONG.
whats traditionally wrong, traditionally when the step father dies and it comes to inheritance, the family will ask the step son to go and look for his father.
so thats a reason for her to sleep with her step or u totally missed what the poster was saying?because i can't see the correlation here |
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kola oloye (m)
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so thats a reason for her to sleep with her step or u totally missed what the poster was saying?because i can't see the correlation here I was asking her to stop loving her step brother in order to avoid future pains. If they should sleep together and pregnancy occurs,how do they handle the traditional wedding? I'm of the opinion that she should try and love someone else,let her leave him alone. |
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702 (m)
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Ah Gees!!!! that's d junior bro of INCEST!!!
Disgustin'!!!
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SENATOR JD (m)
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@Kola oloye i understood your point jare it was mamaputs own that i didnt ,that was why i posted urs 1st since her post was a response to urs.
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