Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex

Good for you, Leilah.

You don't need to do something you don't enjoy, just to please a selfish lover!

Even if, as in this case, the said lover is your husband.

Best solution if he still insists
get help from carvers to carve a DK like object
ask him to try inserting it into his own anus
if it goes freely, then just call off the relationship
hes got alot going that you don't know,
and if it doesnt go straight in, then he should know what pain he is causing you
if still he insists, call the zoo or phsycatric hospital on him
he belongs to either of them,
ANAL SEX MY FOOT.

Thread close! Leilah, you have gotten enough advice or so I think

sorry but this is one of those "laugh out loud" moments, I apologize.

I doubt it's supposed to be that painful though

1. Lots and Lots and Lots of Lube, get good lube though preferably water based lubes.  Like Astroglide or Wet Lubes, you might want to try ordering online
2. Enema
3. Tell him to be gentle, after a few times its supposed to be enjoyable.
4. You might want to consider getting a butt plug, a small one so you can get used it

After all that and you still feel uncomfortable? Forget about anal, might want to consider giving out blow jobs instead.  If he still insists? ask him if you can peg him, that always scares the shit out of me.

4 two years that we married, i always kicked against it and he didn't demand 4 anal sex again but i knew he was cold about it.before, we used to talk about sex ,but he stopped discussing it and when i want 2 raise d issue,he'll change d topic 2 chelsea-football. 4m there, i knew something was wrong.i had always wanted a healthy marriage so he told me oneday. And healthy marriages demonstrate flexibility on d part of both partners. I thought of his words 4 a long time and oneday, i invited him out 4 a weekend,he was surprised. I wanted us 2 leave our home environment.we discussed on our sex lives and was shocked 2my bone marrow when my hubby told me,i've taken over our sex lives and that i dictate to him when and how.4 d first time in almost ten years,he shed tears and my GOOD GOD, i felt bad about d whole thing,seeing my sweetheart shedding tears makes me feel guilty.i thought he understands my busy schedule but i was wrong,he was filing them 4 me 4 future purposes so he said. I knelt down and begged him because he make me feel guilty.he said, although he likes anal sex but not always and he's not addicted and d reason why he stopped discussing it was to prove a point 2 me too that i can't have it my way all d time. Dat weekend trip saved my marriage.it renewed our love. I gave him all my time and everything except that,i still don't give in 2 anal sex,he laughed one night and said, am too stubborn and that was why he loves me,can u imagine that?
A week later, i went personally 2 see my doctor and he prescribed a good lubricant. 4m work, i called him 2 come and pick me up(4 d first time) and before we arrive home, i told him i have gift 2 give him.
I asked if he wanted anal sex,he said no and that,he has erased his mind off that permanently ,i told him,i wanted that and quote him,marriage is flexibility.the statement makes him weak,and he gave in, with d help of d lubricant,it wasn't painful as it used then but i pretended it wasn't still painful.he pampered me.

I pretended to him that despite d prescription,it was still painful.my husband is very intelligent,he knows how 2 get me and vice versa.he said,i can now see u're making an attempt 2 change by even going 2 our doctor to get presciption.he felt loved and adored and he promise me,he will never ask 4 that.even though,within me i knew i'll ask him one more time and which i did before he relocated.
4 three months before he travels, i spoiled him silly with sex,
i no wan london girls  snatch am from me.
So my dear friend,u pampered men in other to make them do what u want.if u don't like that,make him know u would have love 2 do that but it's painful.
When i first told my husband it was painful,he didn't reason with me,he just jump into conclusion that i wasn't enjoying sex with him again and while am giving him audience was 2 have babies.You KNOW,MEN assumes and jump into conclusion alot and they always want 2 have it their way.

i don't understand how females can take the pain, i mean my boyfriend and i have done it a couple tI'mes and still im in pain especially when he trying to insert his p*nis, once he is in its not all that bad, 

how do i bare the pain?i know he is not trying to hurt me, but how else can i take the pain off my mind,

if u don't like anal sex i suggest u don't do it to please any man.  however if u are bent on doin it here are a few tricks
choose to have anal sex on the day u are most keen on it
try and relax if u don't then your anal muscles will tighten
add lots and lots of lubricant ( durex do nice brands) 4 get KY
hold on to your parners privates and guide it towards your anus
start by gently rubbing the tip of your anus
never let go of his privates u need to have full control
comunication also helps
let him insert his privates very slowly about an 1/2 an inch to an inch will do initially
work with that for a moment until u get comfortable then he can insert a bit more
note: it will still be painful but as u relax and get comfortable the pain will ease ( think pain is pleasure no pain no gain)
also note that at the very begining your parner need to stimulate your clitoris, this is what initially converts pain in to pleasure
once u are sexually hightend tru clitoral stimulation u will be surprised to hear your self asking him to go deeper
never leave his privates until u are totally comfortable