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D-reloaded (f)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #96 on: January 29, 2008, 04:56 PM »

amsky, I read that you're in an intertribal marriage. What tribe is your husband?
omoge (f)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #97 on: January 29, 2008, 04:57 PM »

Great idea, next time he wants anal, dial the police number sister. be strict with him.

By their anuses you shall smell them!

 LOL
joshjosh (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #98 on: January 29, 2008, 06:00 PM »

amsky. please please leave this jassie guy alone. you are bigger than this.

@jassie  i hope you have had your day. 
#1. this is a married woman you are talking to here. you don't talk to my brothers wife like that. stop it now. you wont allow any of your sisters to be harassed like you are doing here. please please stop it and apologize as a man.
#2 there is a foreigner on this thread. you are presenting us badly to her. one of our ugly brothers have been stupid to say the least and here you come to contribute your own quota.  i know what i think of young men like you and i am going to plead with you now to in the name of all thing decent leave this matter alone NOW.

if you want to grow old and have a happy life you must never raise your voice against any woman. don't you see those silly good for nothing men around you who thought this is how to behave? don't you see how far they traveled in life? is that what you want to become?  an old man said  insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different result.

stop it dear brother and thanks for your company.

@ poster. sorry this wicked sexual practice is the result of your husband exposure to the ugliness of Europe's pornography. i didn't know people do things like this until i got to Europe.

if you are English or Irish the word no means no.  please don't just leave him when you want to leave him. help get him treatment. the quickest way he can get it is giving him over to the law enforcement agency. who will give some therapy as part of his sentence. don't worry about that because you will be sparing some other person's daughter the nightmare of this man thinking this is a normal habit.

you see what our people are becoming.  we taught they traveled see what they are becoming? God have mercy

oziomatv (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #99 on: January 29, 2008, 06:34 PM »

 nna this tredi ka nokwa na aga on?
+osisi
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #100 on: January 29, 2008, 07:32 PM »

@ spoilt good advice on the dildo part.
You were even being kind.
I'll say the girl should handcuff him romantically and shove  baseball bat into his rectum, let's see how he likes it.

But seriously I blame this girl Leilah for allowing this nonsense to continue for so long.
The first time the man tried this sodomization,is when she should have nicely told him to stop and explained to him,she doesn't like it
Second time she should have quickly plucked out his "abunna" and warned him sternly never to try that again or else!!
Women should learn to expect respect of the men in their lives and demand it if need be.

Leilah dear,you are slowly losing a piece of your self dignity and esteem whenever this animal you call a husband dehumanises you in this way.
I understand some women enjoy this sort of thing,your case is not that.
Make your stand clear and if he doesn't get it,wave him a fast goodbye.
He can get back to that his awkananaw interior for better education on how to treat women.
Don't lose your soul trying to fulfil the fantasies of a perverted man on the down low
He's not worth it.
oziomatv (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #101 on: January 29, 2008, 07:44 PM »

@+osisi
  Adanne obi takwara gi aku ooo
     how you go dey advice make she use baseball bat?
              anyway na wettin he dey look for since he leave expressway wan follow apiamway.
+osisi
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #102 on: January 29, 2008, 07:50 PM »

yes Ozioma my bro,it's good for him to receive sometimes
That man should thank his lucky stars he didn't jam woman like him
His madness would have been cured a long time ago Grin
oziomatv (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #103 on: January 29, 2008, 07:54 PM »

 nwanne nkea anazikwa afu gi anya kee ebe ino?
+osisi
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #104 on: January 29, 2008, 08:01 PM »

I've been busy.
but I've been around too.
jassie
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #105 on: January 29, 2008, 10:18 PM »

@JoshJosh

Word! I feel u man.
Very sorry though, she caused it all.  CASE CLOSED!  Grin

@Amsky

So mussten Sie gehen ruf deinen Mann Bruder zu plädieren, in Ihrem Namen? Was für eine Schande! Wie auch immer, mit den Worten des dude sind wirklich rührend, so werde ich Sie ignorieren, wie Sie waren dünne Luft!  Cheesy

GOETHE Instisut! V.I Lagos, No be small thing!!!
joshjosh (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #106 on: January 30, 2008, 09:40 AM »

i thank you kind sir.
check how close ANGER  & DANGER looks.

God bless and have a very good day.
jassie
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #107 on: January 30, 2008, 09:44 AM »

Ah! Herr JoshJosh!

Wilkommen!!  Cheesy Guten Morgen!!
amsky (f)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #108 on: January 30, 2008, 10:16 AM »

ahhhhhhhh jassie Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy   goethe institute??? i hope it's not google o.anyway sha  SMALL respect for that.but only small o!!! oya open another thread let's continue form there. Wink willkommen sie aus osterrich. ind ihnen. meine mann ist avocat. Grin Grin Grin Grin.
horren sie bitte,ich wiederholle. Grin Grin

rolling on the floor laughing
 
your own na goethe,me na my 1st degree(2nd class upper) Cool

haben sie caffe nachmittag.
amsky (f)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #109 on: January 30, 2008, 10:20 AM »

D reloaded.how are you?

yea you got that right,i'm igbo and my husband is from ikot abasi. Cheesy
jassie
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #110 on: January 30, 2008, 10:56 AM »

Why shall i Goggle it!!!  Grin Did you Google yours?  Kiss

2 years in German language  and through!!!  Wink Never knew your hubby is a lawyer! I dey fear o Cheesy

Was? Wollen Sie mir ein Thread zu eröffnen, so können wir auch weiterhin in deutscher Sprache?
Nun, ich kann das tun, sind Sie sicher, dass Sie bewältigen können? Nun ja, mit google auf Ihrer Seite, können Sie alle Dinge ,  hier kommen
amsky (f)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #111 on: January 30, 2008, 11:10 AM »

ehen!!!!! are you planning to sell me? i can hardly make out what you are trying to say.

4yrs for french and international relations no be moi moi. Cool ich musten arbeit maintenant.j'ai beaucoup des choses a faire. i've mixed and jumbled it all up for you to decode. haben sie eine gut tag und umbeiten. Grin Grin Grin

ich bin zwolf uhr. arbeiten sie hier? Cool  Feeling like a linguist
je vous laisse monsieur jassie. bonne journee et a bientot Wink
papine (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #112 on: January 30, 2008, 12:09 PM »

GUYS LISTEN UP.
THE ONLY WAY FOR ,JASSIE AND AMSKY IS TO HOOK UP WITH EACH ORDER Grin
COME ON NOW EXCHANG NUMBERS. Grin
TRY AND Settle your differences 
do it for the Nairaland.
or what do u think Smiley
amsky (f)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #113 on: January 30, 2008, 12:17 PM »

@ papine

what was that?HuhHuh mr papine,i am MARRIED. Cool Cool


papine (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #114 on: January 30, 2008, 12:26 PM »

sorry for that, but it's getting out of hand. Embarrassed
let's stop the insult plz. Sad
amsky (f)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #115 on: January 30, 2008, 12:37 PM »

okay mr papine. do you work in united nations peace keeping whatever? Grin
  Jassie is my friend now because he speaks german. so we're good yeah.

enjoy your day. Wink
holythug (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #116 on: January 30, 2008, 06:32 PM »

them force u. . . abeg vermoose for here Angry
+osisi
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #117 on: January 30, 2008, 06:43 PM »

holythug are you referring to the poster?
oziomatv (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #118 on: January 30, 2008, 07:00 PM »

 men are getting confuse day by day.
          someone go just jump to thread don't know what the thread is talking about and he want to make a topic.
jassie
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #119 on: January 30, 2008, 07:33 PM »

   
Amsky, wie Sie Ihre Arbeit ist dort drüben? Was mich betrifft, ich bin cool, so dass das Geld!  Cool
oziomatv (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #120 on: January 30, 2008, 08:04 PM »

ma che cazzo stavi dicendo raggazi?Huh
jassie
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #121 on: January 30, 2008, 08:30 PM »

Italian kolometal!!!  Cheesy Believe me, I have a 6 year old niece who's more articulate, she was born in Milan and now she's back home!!

What The "F" do you want to know anyway  Huh
oziomatv (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #122 on: January 30, 2008, 08:47 PM »

  a kind of idiot talking,
      you're want to be girl will soon land then you guys can go have yourself some dope.
jassie
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #123 on: January 30, 2008, 11:03 PM »

whatever  Embarrassed
alj (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #124 on: January 31, 2008, 04:35 AM »

I cannot understand men that want anal sex.  Its so gay, really if a man was blindfolded cld he tell if he was in a man or a woman?   no he could not it homo erotic. your husband is a pig for making u do this. would he want your daughters husband to inflict such pain on her when she is grown?   

I hope u have the courage to tell him no and if he "forces" u then this is rape. I don't know what your families like ,cld they back u up if u had to leave.
?
You might love him, but does he love u if he makes u do this

waterworks (f)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #125 on: February 03, 2008, 09:21 PM »

the anal act
it hurts im sure it hurts but the key is lubrication loads of lubrication on hes thingie and urs too.
slow and staedy wins the race u got the hint. he can't be going as fast as he will go throu the other hole! thats just inhumane.
it doesnt have to be often too. it takes time to heal if u get hurt.

your relationship

if u think u can't handle this and u are compromising too much then talk to him. make him understand its to much for you to take evn frm your husband.
stand up for yourself! don't be afraid if u say no he will leave u! im sure he loves u but just doesnt understand the gravity f the situation. or he probably thinks it will stop paining u gradually just like beign disvirgined. make him understand. be clear.

your other optionsthis is probably a fetish he just has maybe temporary may be permanent God i hope not
tackle it properly they are other options try new things new games sexual fantacies who knows there may be something else that catches hes attention!
examples include dressing up in different outfits, sex in different places, surprise sexual advances ie waiting behind the door when he comes home with nothing but tights and heels! talking during sex telling him how hot u think he is and how what hes doing turns u on at the time, uses of different things such as ice, chocolate, honey, icecream. stripping, private dances to hes favourite slow jams. try doing this often and he will soon notice tell him anal hurts and ure ready to explore other things im sure he will be willing to give anal up for all these other thigns he will gain in return.

 don't think he doesnt love because he demands this people are different and men can be selfish don't thik of leaveing him becasuse of this either! you are a strong woman and we women do not quit theres alwys a wqay around you just have to figure out what it is!
hope i helped gudluk!
tpia
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #126 on: February 04, 2008, 03:36 AM »

na wa.
Consistent (m)
Re: Please Help Me, I Cant Take The Pain Of Anal Sex
« #127 on: February 04, 2008, 08:21 AM »


LMAO! Hahahahahahaha

Sorry for laughing, couldn't help it. Anywayz,

Lol I'm into anal. I don't force females though lol, nah not me. I ask, if she says no, I try to persuade her, if she still says no, lol I move on Sad , besides pussy is just as good (if it is not loose), right? Funny thing though, 93% of the girls I've had sex with all told me to f*ck'em in the ass. And I gladly obliged Grin

But on to your situation, now if you've told him that it hurts and he still wants to? That's up to you sister, can you handle it? I have brought quite a few females into the world of anal sex, and to be honest, they all went quite well. They end up throwing that booty back at me 5mins after insertion like they've done it before LOL. Quite amazing. But this is what I do when performing anal on first timers,

- I AM ASSUMING IT WILL BE DOGGY STYLE -


1- Get some lubricant
2- Either you or him, preferably him. Put some lubricant on his p*nis, and rub some on your booty hole
3- Tell him, TELL HIM to be gentle. NOT to ram it in.
4- But here is the thing, as he's inserting, he should reach for your vagina and play with your clit
5- He shouldn't stop once he's in, every now and then, reach for the clit and rub it.
6- That way it keeps your mind off the pain, not fully but then you feel good because he's playing with your clit.

*WARNING: THE AFTERMATH MIGHT NOT BE VERY COMFORTING. BUT YOU'LL BE FINE*

Though this would've been better if I told your husband, and not you lol. Because, now you know what to expect (which can be good) but, I have a feeling you'll just be there waiting for the feel good part lol.
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