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Abu-Maryam (m)
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Hola to Gurus
After every successeful marriage most of the couple forget to project between Life Economy balance and number of children to be born. Which one is the must important to consider first, strenghten you're Economy or bunch of children.
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tosinadeda (m)
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it depends
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almondjoy (f)
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I will go with money please! A bunch of children and live in a shoe?  Are they for sale? Or am I carrying them to the grave with me when I croak?  A bunch of children? In 2008? No thanks! With money you can get children even if you cannot have them biologically. Many have children and no money. Fine! I would rather have money please!!!!!!  As for money not buying happiness, Yeah! Children do not bring happiness all the time either!  |
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Isis_ (f)
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your nickname suggests you might have already made the choice to have children Abu-Maryam  I think the parents are responsible to make sure that they have enough to provide for their children, before they bring the children to the world on the other hand, it also depends, and strengthening your economy is a relative term, so if a couple is in their mid-late thirties for example, then it would be very unwise of them to say they need to be millionaires before they start their family. |
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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Money for Sure.
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uspry1 (f)
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I go with money from my job to defray the cost of living expense as well as to meet my children needs: school supplies, school clothes, personal hygienes, and favorite hobbies they love to play with in the quality of my children's happiness knowing that MOM IS THE BEST IN THE WHOLE WORLD!!!
(sorry i am single divorced mother, my children understood about single hardship despite of my deafness)
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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Of course the money, i need to have the money to take care of the children. ain't bringing any child to this world to suffer.
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amsky (f)
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them dey think am? na money na.shoooooo. having children is expensive you know.if you do not have the money,then why have kids?how will you feed and clothe them? this is 2008 o. things have changed drastically. when you have money,you can take good care of your kids, provide good housing, feed them appropriately et tout ca. so,money before kids okay.  |
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