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choicehome (f)
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WIVWS, DO YOU PUNISH YOUR HUSBAND WITH SEX? Two things draw a husband close to the wife, namely, good food and good sex. When a wife is able to perform very well in this areas, she has automatically won the heart of her husband. There is nothing wrong in attending seminars, counseling sessions or even reading books that will enhance or build their sex lives. The attitude of complaining about poor sex life may be due to fatigue as a result of the nature of their jobs or the businesses they do. Firstly, women should learn to do a lot of exercises that relax or develop their vaginal muscle before engaging in sex. Exercises generally will enrich and prepare them adequately for a good and satisfying sex and this will enable them to satisfy their husbands properly during sexual act, this will also motivate the husbands to always want to come back for more whenever the need arises. Secondly, women should learn different positioning of lovemaking, they shouldn’t be tied to one particular position, the woman on her back, why the man on top of her. Different positioning enriches and renews your love making always. You can also exploit new ideas on how to satisfy your husband sexually in order to keep him away from the mistress outside Thanks. laura@choicehome-ng.orgwww.choicehome-ng.org |
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almondjoy (f)
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No I just lay there and watch Tru TV till it is all over--reach for the kleenex and dust myself off!  No need to punish at all. God does not like that kind of thing!  |
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adeboo (f)
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Thats true sha.
Even if you arent interested, the fact that he is your husband and its for better for poorer for sweeter for bitterness - then u better lay there and think of England.
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slavia (m)
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what u just said might not sound very pleasant to the ear because of our "our so-called morals" but it is honestly the truth.
it is my belief that a man being a true son of Adam is bound to look at other ladies especially if they are damn too beautiful and sexy. the thing is this; women come in different shapes and sizes, there is bound to be a lady outside there prettier and sexier than u are.
like chichi said (this goes for both sexes);
1. any body can get married and stay married in this country mostly because of our religion, but how happy are u in your marriage? have ever been tempted to beyond your marriage?
2. you need to keep your marriage alive; if u are a man, try sometimes to suprise your wife owith gifts even if u earn peanuts as salary.if u are a woman sometimes send the kids to a relative's and prepare a good costly meal for your husband and later on give hot sizzling sex.
these and indeed lots help to spice up your marriage and keep u guys together without the temptation of going else where (trust me no person is perfect, its just in every human, we tend to be bored of monotonous activities.
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ifyalways (f)
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No I just lay there and watch Tru TV till it is all over--reach for the kleenex and dust myself off! No need to punish at all. God does not like that kind of thing! haha hehe.AJ again ! @topic,NO i wont ever starve my hubby of sex.i would rather think of over feeding/stuffing him with it.  |
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almondjoy (f)
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haha hehe.AJ again ! @topic,NO i wont ever starve my hubby of sex.i would rather think of over feeding/stuffing him with it. There are several ways to make a man feel unwelcome you know!  Some punishments are better than others!  |
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I-man (m)
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All this is pointless talk.As long as either partner is not hideous,they will always find sexual satisfaction outside the relationship.So all the talk of "punishing" your partner sounds ridiculous. Unless you are intentionally nudging your partner into an open relationship.
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almondjoy (f)
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All the pointless talk.As long as either partner is not hideous, they will always find sexual satisfaction outside the relationship.So all the talk of "punishing" your partner sounds ridiculous. Unless you are intentionally nudging your partner into an open relationship.
I beg Mrs I-Man-----open up and let him in! The man don vesssssssssssssssssssssssss! This one has already found a healthy solution to the problem! No try this dude oooooooooooooooooooooh! This matter is very important to him! |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Lmao. 4Play Iman is always frustrated.
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michelin89 (f)
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That's too stupid. why do you want to punish yourself unnecessarily.
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debosky (m)
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Punishment is wrong, but their commitment to each other is also faulty if the so called 'sexual satisfaction' can be conveniently detached from your spouse and from your marriage relationship In my opinion, they should be one and the same, no sexual satisfaction without your spouse  But then againmaybe I am idealistic/naive/an altar boy |
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I-man (m)
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@D-reloaded I'm not as emotionally incontinent as you @almondjoy Statistically,almost every man cheats in a marriage,right? So what's the point of "punishing" men who are desperate to find an excuse. . . . .its like manna from heaven. I guess women want to believe they can "punish" in that manner. . . . .by giving your man the best excuse he ever needs.Like I said,unless you both want an open relationship,what's the point?  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Good to know. As a male, I would hope not.
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pahtahkee
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Wives punishing their Partner with Sex? Wishful thinking. |
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+osisi
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This is a funny thread.
why should sex be a tool for punishment if the 2 people involved get their needs met ?
on a lighter note,I don't always agree with almondjoy but here I do agree
No need to punish anyone just serve him the dish while listening to Suze Orman give tips on saving money
everyone is happy at the end of the day.
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I-man (m)
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No need to punish anyone just serve him the dish while listening to Suze Orman give tips on saving money
everyone is happy at the end of the day.
There is an alternative. What if during marriage,a former stud pre-marriage resorts to simply mounting his woman,thrusting like a dog and screaming like a rhesus monkey after 30 seconds of intercourse and then collapsing into sleep. You see,it works both ways. I don't have plans to continue pleasing my wife after I turn 40.With work stress and kids,she would be lucky if I lasted 60 seconds.She can then promptly go back to listening to "Suze Orman" while I catch up on some sleep. |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Your mates are still having children and girlfriends at 80, you are talking about becoming a min man at 40. Poor Coco.  |
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michelin89 (f)
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Viagra plenty for market!
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almondjoy (f)
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Viagra plenty for market!
I don't think Viagra and a sex-starved man should be on the same street not to talk of the same room! To do what with it? This is a funny thread.
why should sex be a tool for punishment if the 2 people involved get their needs met ?
on a lighter note,I don't always agree with almondjoy but here I do agree
No need to punish anyone just serve him the dish while listening to Suze Orman give tips on saving money
everyone is happy at the end of the day. Exactly ma dear! When I know that he can just jump on the nanny like I-man in a heart beat! Just let him do his rubbish without participation and turn him lose abeg! I don't have to be mentally present! @D-reloaded I'm not as emotionally incontinent as you @almondjoy Statistically,almost every man cheats in a marriage,right? So what's the point of "punishing" men who are desperate to find an excuse. . . . .its like manna from heaven. I guess women want to believe they can "punish" in that manner. . . . .by giving your man the best excuse he ever needs.Like I said,unless you both want an open relationship,what's the point? Hmmmm! Lmao. 4Play Iman is always frustrated. @D-reloaded I'm not as emotionally incontinent as you Fanning myself! I feel the heat from you guys--please take it easy abeg! |
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I-man (m)
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Your mates are still having children and girlfriends at 80, you are talking about becoming a min man at 40.
Easy for you to say.You women don't put more than 10% of the physical energy exerted during sex. Abeg,so make I dey stress myself into my 40s? |
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uspry1 (f)
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Hiliarious thread. No need to be punish my own husband with sex!!! I have no problem for my husband (if i have one) rush get home from work---"honey, what is the dessert for?"! You know what I mean!!! |
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I-man (m)
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Exactly ma dear! When I know that he can just jump on the nanny like I-man in a heart beat! J ust let him do his rubbish without participation and turn him lose abeg! I don't have to be mentally present! Is it that bad? Sex with Mr Almondjoy . You should be as eager as him to do the "rubbish". If you were a man having crap sex,my advice would have been to explore further afield. . . . . .but you know you women have your dignity as women to maintain Hiliarious thread. No need to be punish my own husband with sex!!! I have no problem for my husband (if i have one) rush get home from work---"honey, what is the dessert for?"! You know what I mean!!! You see,all you women with crappy lays-probably should try and get your hands on uspry1's man. |
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michelin89 (f)
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@ AJ
That was for Imam-Viagras do miracles!
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I-man (m)
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@michelin89
What most men really really want is to mount their woman,pump away and come within seconds.Its not about maintaining erection.Sex can be hard work if you are a man,women pretty much lie there and moan endlessly.
So when I hit 40,with all the work and kids stress,do you expect me to be having sex like a mid-20s dude? No way,I'm not going to die of heart attack while in the act just to please my woman when all I really need is a quick pump and even quicker nap.
Do you know how many men die during sex? There are probably millions of men that have collapsed during sex,how many times have you ever heard of a woman kicking the bucket while in the act?
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debosky (m)
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What most men really really want is to mount their woman,pump away and come within seconds.Its not about maintaining erection.Sex can be hard work if you are a man,women pretty much lie there and moan endlessly.
Me I no be that kain man abeg, I need the entire exercise as my daily dose of 20-30 minutes of cardio |
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I-man (m)
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Me I no be that kain man abeg, I need the entire exercise as my daily dose of 20-30 minutes of cardio You never hear of press-ups or lifting weights? Why don't you just jog up and down the stairs?You are just trying to score brownie points. You be weirdo jare. Rubbish,did our forefathers even know what cunnilingus was.In the good old days,you just climb on top of your woman,whether she is ready or not,and pump away.We need to get back to our roots and reclaim the centuries old tradition of 1minute action. Imagine,these women even expect foreplay What is this world turning into? There used to be a time you can clobber a woman with a big stick,drag her into your cave and have your wicked way.Now they expect candle lit dinners and flowers,nonsense!  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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lmao 4play you jackass take your traditional sex and shove it. you already have leilah, a poor Irish woman who is unfortunately married to a Nigerian asking whether forcing anal sex on a woman is the African way, you shameless people. |
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debosky (m)
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You never hear of press-ups or lifting weights? Why don't you just jog up and down the stairs?You are just trying to score brownie points. You be weirdo jare. Rubbish,did our forefathers even know what cunnilingus was.In the good old days,you just climb on top of your woman,whether she is ready or not,and pump away.We need to get back to our roots and reclaim the centuries old tradition of 1minute action. Imagine,these women even expect foreplay What is this world turning into? There used to be a time you can clobber a woman with a big stick,drag her into your cave and have your wicked way.Now they expect candle lit dinners and flowers,nonsense! Lift gini? what did our forefathers know about weight? They remained fit by constant congo shining ;Dour ancestors could still satisfy a woman in their 60's so that is what I am aiming for. Make I go pay money to carry weights inside gym when I can do a pleasurable form of exercise on top my wife? naaah I heard about one of your cavemen brothers in another thread, he said 'if you ask her for sex and she says no, drug her with 5 tabs of valium, then start pumping, and if she wakes up you just apologise'  |
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I-man (m)
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I heard about one of your cavemen brothers in another thread, he said 'if you ask her for sex and she says no, drug her with 5 tabs of valium, then start pumping, and if she wakes up you just apologise' That's a bloody Neanderthal right there.Perhaps we should get some anthropologists to examine him! Make I go pay money to carry weights inside gym when I can do a pleasurable form of exercise on top my wife? naaah Sex and exercise is an oxymoron.Sex is supposed to be about hedonistic self-gratification.Full stop. Don't mind the feminists who say sex is a good form of exercise.Lenny Kravitz hasn't had sex for 3 years and he is as fit as a fiddle.OBJ gets laid daily,whether with G.Nnaji or his daughter,and look how he is |
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debosky (m)
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wetin do my man Lenny? abi pesin don amputate his yekini?  |
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