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FELORE (f)
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my twin sis needs advice , she had sex for the first time with her boiifriend last moth now SHES PREGNANT our parents don't kno , she wants to kno what to do , she also want to kno if giving birth hurths , right now shes in her room crying her eyes out cause her boiifriend doesnt want the baby !!!
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D-reloaded (f)
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let her have it removed? Abi, what kind of ridiculous question is this?
seriously are condoms expensive where you/your twin is? Cos I personally don't get it.
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slimtoney (m)
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She is obviously not ready for it now, she eats it when it's so hot now she got her tongue burnt.
Now she knows better,let her go do d & c now that it is still fresh,she should not wait till it go beyonds a month or two,it is a price she has to pay for being careless,she should not go on self medication for that will be suicidal
She can ask for forgiveness there after and go to sin no more.
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jassie
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Are you sure it's not you this is happening to?  If she's up to 18, then I think the best think is for her to see a specialist and get an abortion, the pregnancy is still early  She should also inform the Boyfriend that got her pregnant because they are both involved. If she's in her 20's then having a baby might not be wrong afterall. Having babies depends on how prepared you are. The pains might be lesser if she exercises well. Pelvic exercises such as Judo, Karate (very mild) in the latter stages of the pregnancy will help release synovial fluid to the cavities which will in turn help as a lubricant during child birth!  |
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uspry1 (f)
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@poster How come your twin sister have unprotected sex with her boyfriend she barely know him only ONE MONTH and told him about your pregnant? He does not want her baby!!!  Dumb situation like this---without a condom or contraceptions!!!! What if he has any disease exposure without her knowledge? Either you as her brother or her boyfriend should help paying for your twin sister's abortion. I don't support abortion in the name of God's children!!! Your twin sister is the one fully responsible to open her legs for WHAT FOR!!!! SEX IS NOT A LOVE!!! |
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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@poster
First off; get her to the hospital to get checked properly. there no need giving yourselves unnecessary headache!
Second; by the sounds of it you guys are quite young so i don't think the guy will be coming round to the 'good news' anytime soon. So there's no need for her to hope and pray that he'll be there for her should she decide to keep the pregnancy.
Third; YES BIRTH HURTS LIKE HELL ESPECIALLY IF YOUR STILL YOUNG AND YOUR PELVIS HAS NOT FULLY DEVELOPED!!!!!
Fourth and most importantly; PLEASE TELL YOUR PARENTS before you do anything rash. this is not the end of the world. your parents will be very angry and may say they are disappointed in you. ******which will hurt like hell******** but in the future you both will be grateful you had guidance.
P.S if you find it hard approaching your parents then find some one they will listen to and tell them. either way they need to know.
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FELORE (f)
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`right thanxs , she doesnt want to abort it but shes keeping it and she told our parents an hour ago , they were surprisely calm but disapionted in her , our parents r fussing over her now and her going to the boii house 2morrow to tell his parents !!!!!!!!!!!!!
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D-reloaded (f)
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Dont know why people put themselves in unnecessary mess. I guess calling the boy could lead to forcing him to marry her, what a way to live
How old is this your twin
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FELORE (f)
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19 years old !!! i kno its her fault for not using condom but shes ma twin sis , i can't help but to feel for her u kno !!!!!
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D-reloaded (f)
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People must enjoy the horrors of motherhood at such young ages because I know I wouldnt have traded my freedom at 19 to be caring for some unwanted rugrat.
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jassie
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19 Years!!! She's a naughty girl for not even using a condom at that age? What is she? A toddler?
Well, your parents meeting the boy would definitely not solve the long-terms effect of the matter! The love might get sour later and they might end up breaking up!! Problems start from there and she becomes a single mother!!!
The best solution is still abortion!! That'll make her get on with her life without getting hooked!!!!
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D-reloaded (f)
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I agree with you jassie
Lmao @ love. What love sef? The boy sef denied the pregnancy. That alone shows how poor the relationship is.
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zignor (m)
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right now shes in her room crying her eyes out cause her boiifriend doesnt want the baby !!! please, I need the baby . . .how can I locate your twin sister?  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Is meat now that expensive in Nigeria?
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saucekid (m)
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she just had white fudge sundae
no harm in that
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FELORE (f)
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zignor what do u mean u want the baby ?? or is your manhood not working proparly enouf to give u a child , abi what is wrong with u ??  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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He's hungry. meat is expensive
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FELORE (f)
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he has problems SERIOUS ONES TOO !!!!!! MA SIS WILL KILL You , RIGHT now SHE HATES MEN !!!!!! because a man put the baby in her , well thats what she says
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drrionelli (m)
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@FELORE:
No, I must respectfully disagree with your sister. A man did not put a baby in her. That careless act was done by some uncaring, inconsiderate, immature male, but not a true man. A true man would have taken shared responsibility for the act and its outcome.
Allow your sister to be angry, but not for too long. She needs to sort out her emotions and her feelings, but she must not become bitter. She has much on her mind, so be there for her. Encourage her, help her, smile with her, laugh with her and cry with her. Give her time to herself, but always be there to support her. This is a difficult time for your entire family, so be strong together.
@D-reloaded:
Isn't your use of "some unwanted rugrat" a bit harsh?
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D-reloaded (f)
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well the baby isnt wanted and "rugrat" is a slang for babies/toddlers so what's the problem again?
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debosky (m)
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@ D
i don't think people love it, they simply are unaware of the consequences/ignore them till its too late and they have no choice but to bear the burden.
Tell your folks! If your sis is not ready to have the child, let her abort (though I do not support that) or give it up for adoption once its born.
Once again, DO NOT have sex unless you are fully prepared for ALL its potential consequences!
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The Sly
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your parent should be the one to take care of this because im sure they r not going to come to land to read replies as they r in a better position to decide on what next to do about the situation on ground. . . . . . . just tell her to take it easy as shes not the first person it has happened to neither would she be the last  . . . . . .zoomin out |
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drrionelli (m)
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@D-reloaded:
I submit the following, with all due respect to both your views and your expression of them:
Given that the mother plans to carry the baby to term and maintain custody, as opposed to either aborting the fetus or putting the newborn up for adoption, it would seem that the baby is "unplanned" (which is clearly the case) rather than "unwanted" (which is clearly not the case).
As to "rugrat," well, yes, I'm aware that the word is a slang term, but it seems to be somewhat pejorative, though I'm sure you weren't intending to appear invidious.
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D-reloaded (f)
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um it's unwanted by the FATHER
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ifyalways (f)
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@poster,tell your parents now.
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Anderline (f)
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firstly inform your parents, d deal has been done already, not all doctors are good in aborting a child, what if she dies while having an abortion, u will be blamed because u were there with her.
The guy is not ready 4 a baby why did he ve sex with her, some guys re very decieving, please don't blame d girl, love is something else nowadays, when u find a solution, your twin must forget that guy in her life because he has disappointed her already so she should think about her life
I pray your parents will listen to u both carefully, though they will be disappointed but Blood is thicker than water because they will always 4give u both.
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opuro (m)
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@poster,
u be boy abi babe?
if you be boy,
HOPE NO BE You GIVE UR SISTER BELLE?
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SPYRO (m)
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I no is hard 4u to say it clear that you're d one because having sex last month and you been d 1st to know means u are the one involve.Anyway,is so simple because u detect on time and hard that u hard it ones and it resulted into that.There r factors involve because d person in question age matters alots,d boyfriend that knows not about condom and his commoent on it.Back to the age isssue,c no real doctor will do d&c 4 an young girl without d parent consent because of d side effect at times which depends on the lady body sysyem and leaving the pregnancy is another issue to tackle because it can affect her schooloing as well.
Point black is this ,tell your parent about it n let them know ist was a mistake so that dey can help you to a doctor and get rid of it,though is not biblical but just alwaz remember to play safe at all time.
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FELORE (f)
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it's not me that got pregnant and i'm a girl why would i get ma sister pregnant ( wierdo ! )  aiight thanks yall for the advice |
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theboy0808 (m)
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he has problems SERIOUS ONES TOO !!!!!! MA SIS WILL KILL You , RIGHT now SHE HATES MEN !!!!!! because a man put the baby in her , well thats what she says
What?!?! A man put the baby in her; is that what she is angry about? Tell her she ought to be angry with herself cause she is the one that opened her legs! |
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Easybaby (f)
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@FELORE
please, leave zignor alone 
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saucekid (m)
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i still say, all she had was a hot fudge sundae that was served from a pipe made of man meat |
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