My Twin's Pregnnant ! Plz Advice !

aiight girls listen up, i feel sorry for ur sister,stuff happens in life,u jst hv to accept faith and destiny
the way dey come at u,but never u look for a shortcut to get a solution to the matter like getting
an abortion,it is easy 4 people to tell give u easy way out when u get into situations like this,
but think about the long term effect this short cut might hv on u latter ,good  thing u are in
a more developed part of the world(ireland)so even if she chooses to take the risk u gettin
rid of this baby ,there are good docs who can handle it,but i still strongly beleive that the
best thing is to keep that child,regardless of wether ur boyfriend accept it or not,because ur feauture
is most important here,what if that the only child ur sister is destined 2 hv,is she going to
throw it away for the simple fact that she doesn,t want to face the wrath of ur parents or
the stigma associated with teenage girls having kids out of wedlock,all of this is still not
measuerd to risk of losing ur life through abortion complication,God forbid,if anything happens
to u do u think ur parent that u,are to scared to let them know now will jump into a dugged
grave and be asked to be burried with their child?hell no,they will probably cry and latter on
move on with their own lifes,all the ridcule that u might think u might face and dissapointment
u might bring to any boby,is not a life long thing,its all for a short period of time.and before u know it
ur child is already grown calling u mama,and that is when u would thank ur stars that u did not throw
away this cute innocent soul,who we don,t know might be the president tommorrow,the best thign
i would advice you to do as an honest bro 2 u is to tell ur parents,let them do whatever dey deemfit,
let anybody say whatever dey want to say,but i advice you not 2 do anything you will end up
saying(had i known)face it,its only going to make u stronger when you overcome it,and moreover
you hv come off the legal age were u are,and entitled to make decision on ur own,i speak everything
i have i hv spoken to you out of experience,only if i had known what i know now then,and on a final
note,always remember that any condition or situation that u think u might be going through which is to
heavy upon ur shoulders,someone out there as gone through 10times worst and survive it,
SO I SAY TO YOU WOMAN STAND UP,DRY UR TEARS AND FIGHT,THE FIGHT OF UR LIFE,because IT IS
URS AND U HV GOTTEN JUST ONE SHOT TO MAKE IT RIGHT,because YOU KNOW WHAT,U ARE NEVER A
FAILURE UNTILL THE DAY U START TO SEE UR SELF AS ONE.goodluck in ur decision woman.

THANKS BROS , long, but truthful advice ,, right now her belly is getting big eh, shes a bit happier that she kept the baby , i haven't been on nairaland for a long while because of her and her baby, we went to the hospital to see the scan , its a boy, i'm so happy for her,

@poster

permit me to ask u,how old is ur twin?

Chinda3 , Ma twin's is 19 years of age,  ( AND SO I'M I )

i don't want to know, probably she might have aids , because no protection

Awwthat's so cute

i kno u mean well, please no come say that [/b]SHIT [b]fo ma side, i hope u dey hear me so, 

 
  @poster,

   i understand d way u feel 4 ur sista,being a twin,but just know that she made a mistakea at 19 2 ave a careless sex,u have 2 learn frm her now 2 be careful with men.
     d same tthing happened 2 my frnd's sista,she gave birth at 20,while still in secondary school,d boy did notaccept d pregnacy,because they are all girls in their family,d mum took reponsibilty of taking care of d child,it turned out 2 be a boy,n they love him so much.please my dear advice her to resist  ABORTION,it might kill her in d process that is u losing her,so let her have d baby,u don't know d blessing he/she is bringing 2 ur family,ur parents will get mad but that will end.other than 4 them 2 hear that she went through a D/C which might lead 2 complications later.all the best.
  God said thou shall not kill.

tell her to commit suicide,
the easiest,
jump into the lagoon,
that way, no shame,no 9 months unplanned disturbance
no parental scolding, d parents re already disappointed
in otherwords, they wont cry or miss u,
don't live with that shame,
it will ruin you and your family, please suicide suicide suicide!!!!!!!!
that is the answer.
see u in hell!!!!!!!!!

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  Re: My Twin's Pregnnant ! Please Advice !
« #41 on: April 09, 2008, 04:32 PM » 

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,     we tested her out , she DOESN'T , thank u very much   shes not in mess, shes quite okay now,, shes happy she kept da baby, and ma parents are starting to be okay with it too

IS TOO EARLY TO DETECT HIV UNDER A MONTH, HAVENT YOU HEARD OF WINDOW PERIOD
DOUBLE STIGMA, U HAVE IT, SUICIDE REMAINS THE SOLUTION, THE WORLD IS TOO POPULATED TO BE ACCOMODATING PEOPLE LIKE YOUR SISTER IF NOT YOU;
please THE LAGOON!!!!!!

please before U JUMP, WHAT TYPE OF SCANNER WAS ABLE TO DECIPHER THE SEX OF A FOETUS A MONTH OLD?