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Life boy
Help Please
« on: January 29, 2008, 04:12 PM »

dear fellow Nairland I really need your advice to this problem please.
A firend of mine a young boy said he is always afriad when he sees a mad man, at times his mind will be telling him you will go mad, crazy, he said this thought that do come to his mind some time is uncontrolable to him, some times when the thought comes to him he will be tired of every thing around him. At times his mind will be telling him kill your self which he as being trying to resist by God's grace, he said this thing has beeing disturbing him he doesn't know what to do, he is  just tired and feel like to die, and some times his mind will be telling him oh boy you will die just kill yourself, and things like that,  how can he be helped out of this problem please.

He further asked me whether this is depression or a spiritual attack that i should please help him out,
please dear friend we need your advice and prayers
uchetobi (f)
Re: Help Please
« #1 on: January 29, 2008, 04:17 PM »

Quote from: Life boy on January 29, 2008, 04:12 PM
dear fellow Nairland I really need your advice to this problem please.
A firend of mine a young boy said he is always afriad when he sees a mad man, at times his mind will be telling him you will go mad, crazy, he said this thought that do come to his mind some time is uncontrolable to him, some times when the thought comes to him he will be tired of every thing around him. At times his mind will be telling him kill your self which he as being trying to resist by God's grace, he said this thing has beeing disturbing him he doesn't know what to do, he is  just tired and feel like to die, and some times his mind will be telling him oh boy you will die just kill yourself, and things like that,  how can he be helped out of this problem please.

He further asked me whether this is depression or a spiritual attack that i should please help him out,
please dear friend we need your advice and prayers

Clearly spiritual, when the voice comes to him he should rebuke it as d voice of the  devil, it will be nice for him to seek counselling in the church as well
vanesa (m)
Re: Help Please
« #2 on: January 29, 2008, 04:52 PM »

My advice is that he should get closer to God if he's not yet born again let him get born again and confess Jesus Christ as his Lord and personal saviour,Because he can only rebuke the devil ''in his case the demon'' when he knows his right in Christ Jesus.

macgozy (m)
Re: Help Please
« #3 on: January 29, 2008, 05:53 PM »

Your friend is been trailed by an evil spirit called MARA and he will only be free if he seeks spiritual intervention

Thanks
ifyalways (f)
Re: Help Please
« #4 on: January 29, 2008, 08:58 PM »

Quote from: Life boy on January 29, 2008, 04:12 PM
dear fellow Nairland I really need your advice to this problem please.
A firend of mine a young boy said he is always afriad when he sees a mad man, at times his mind will be telling him you will go mad, crazy, he said this thought that do come to his mind some time is uncontrolable to him, some times when the thought comes to him he will be tired of every thing around him. At times his mind will be telling him kill your self which he as being trying to resist by God's grace, he said this thing has beeing disturbing him he doesn't know what to do, he is just tired and feel like to die, and some times his mind will be telling him oh boy you will die just kill yourself, and things like that, how can he be helped out of this problem please.

He further asked me whether this is depression or a spiritual attack that i should please help him out,
please dear friend we need your advice and prayers
in as much as it looks like a spiritual problem but still i think it would still be wise to go to the hospital and see first.all the same,get closer to your God,pray and ask for forgiveness of your sins.
what type of family are you coming from?ask questions dear.sometimes the sins of our forefathers might later disturb us.
goodluck
Life boy
Re: Help Please
« #5 on: January 30, 2008, 09:33 AM »


Quote from: macgozy on January 29, 2008, 05:53 PM
Your friend is been trailed by an evil spirit called MARA and he will only be free if he seeks spiritual intervention



please where and how can he get spiritual intervention, he goes to church very well and pray but the thing keep disturbing him.
Gbemyte (f)
Re: Help Please
« #6 on: January 30, 2008, 12:47 PM »

it is devil at work,he should confess possitive things to himself,whenever such thought comes to his heart he should rebuke the spirit with alacrity,finally he should move closer to God and seek for counselling. he should not tarry oooooo
Life boy
Re: Help Please
« #7 on: February 05, 2008, 03:44 PM »

ok Paul smart I will give u a call
jassie
Re: Help Please
« #8 on: February 05, 2008, 07:30 PM »

The boy is possessed with the Spirit of Killo-Mado-Phobia!!!  Grin

The only solution lies with BABA EWENJE!!!  Grin A great spiritualist!
Life boy
Re: Help Please
« #9 on: February 06, 2008, 04:11 PM »

jassie  what did u mean please i don't understand.

please talk more to me at jesusfoundme@yahoo.com
chychy (f)
Re: Help Please
« #10 on: February 08, 2008, 04:25 PM »


I think jessie is just pullin your leg.

Take your friend for spiritual counselling and prayers.
He should invite Christ to take pre-eminence in his life.
Busta (f)
Re: Help Please
« #11 on: February 08, 2008, 04:29 PM »

@topic,
suffering from both depression and spiritual attack.

take him to a good church for deliverance.
elderz
Re: Help Please
« #12 on: February 09, 2008, 10:26 AM »

@poster
many children have suffered from those kind of case so u first of all u gotta tell him the problem is not strange. that does a lot of good for him.
then u gotta see a really good therapist, they might be expensive in naija but it might just be worth it. lastly he's got to see a pastor or sumn.
MsCee (f)
Re: Help Please
« #13 on: February 09, 2008, 05:19 PM »

Well, first of all, i think your friend needs to seek spiritual help, and incase u're mistaken, church-going is not the same as being born-again. your friend also needs to see a psychiatrist. that will help a lot
fsb (m)
Re: Help Please
« #14 on: February 10, 2008, 05:50 AM »

Hi,

POSTER, it's good you have such concerns for your friend. I believe you should consider both the spiritual and the physical. It is not impossible that it might be a spiritual attack after all, we hear stories of it everyday but it may also be a psychological problem. When he says his mind tells him to , , does he actually mean that or is he hearing voices?
Those are two VERY different things.

Hallucination is a false perception and it can happen in either of the 5 senses:

- Visual: It might be that he sees only this one mad man that no one else can see or it may be that the mad man may really exist

-Auditory: Does he hear a voice talking directly to him, or those he hear 2 voices talking about him?

This is just for you to appreciate his problem. Hallucinations by themselves are usually signs of schizophrenia.

The fact that there is a thought of "his dying" MAY suggest nihilistic delusions.

Auditory hallucinations plus nihilistic delusions (I'M NOT SAYING THAT HE IS SUFFERING FROM THOSE THINGS, BUT IT MAY BE) is serious, please see a psychiatrist as soon as possible.

After that, you can talk to your pastor for prayers!!!
Life boy
Re: Help Please
« #15 on: February 11, 2008, 09:58 AM »


Hi dear friends thanks alot for all your contirbutions and suggestions may God richly bless u all, but still confused.
According to the boy his  is not suffering from HALLUCINATIONS  there is no any visual, auditory,  what happend is that his mind always tells him You will go mad, and any times he set his eyes on a mad person or somebody who dressed dirty and unreasonable like a mad man he will start fearing within him., he does not hear any voice, or visualise a mad person, the problem is that he is always afriad of his mind telling him of going crazy, and fear of seening mad people. I always know that this thing have caused hm depressed always, don't know what to do and where to start from. I was suggesting we go through a deliverance church first before going to hospital or wht did u thinks. please advice


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A firend of mine a young boy said he is always afriad when he sees a mad man, at times his mind will be telling him you will go mad, crazy, he does not hear any voice, he said this thought that do come to his mind some time is uncontrolable to him at times
TOYOSI20 (f)
Re: Help Please
« #16 on: February 11, 2008, 07:04 PM »

I think he should avoid "coming across mad men/women as much as possible"

Best of Luck.

(To him of course.)
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