After He Disvirgin Me He Said He Cannot Marry A Christian

i met my boyfriend 2 years ago we both love each other, last time he came back from school before the festive period, he said if i make attempt on cheating him, do a thing i will not like and he also said e loves me so much even if i said am not more interested he will not agree and wait for me to come back to my senses. he went back to school, we call each other and he said i should come to his school but i was waiting for my admission but didnt get through he often says he misses me same as me because i love him so much, i call him every day, whenever he is at home we see each other every day, when he came back he said he was eager to see me but nw he said i dnt entice me him that he doesnt knw why i now said wht does that mean, he now showed me a message on his phne of a girl which says that after all she has done that all he talks about is busola that he shld take care of me and she also wrote love u after the message, last two weeks we had a misunderstanding, and he said he can never marry a christian because he is a muslim, i nw ask him wht does that mean, he said it is the truth,except i turned to a muslim because i was once a muslim, my father a muslim, and my mother a christian and i leave wit my mother  i nw ask him that am a christian that wht will happen, he said he can't marry me because am a christian, i cried, he pet me, then i left him because he said more annoying things, since then we did nt call each other, because most time we quarrel am always the first to apologise because i dnt want to loose him but this one his hurting i think i dnt want to have anything to do wit him anymore, but i still miss him and love him so much he has done many things for me and i will always love him but i think this relationship should end for good, i tried calling him on monday jst to play trick on him i called him that hv been sick bt he cannot even check on me, i off the phone , mmediatly he called back and i said wht happened i tld him that he should not worry, he banged the phone on me he called back again nd i tld him am alright nw, he said thank God and said later, since then no communication. nairalanders please hlp me, should i forget about the relationship for good or continue. and one thing my mother knws him like me knwing most of his family, wenever my mother doesnt see him she ask of him, he is free to enter my house same as me. PLEASE HELP ME, WHAT SHOUL I DO

i can understand how u feel,but all d same just forget about him although is not an easy thing to forget somebody that deflowered u, but life goes on just forget about him, there re thousand of people out there that will love for whom u re.just take heart and forget about him.

Just forget about him and move on with your life. it won't be easy but you really have no choice.

Reachin' out for one of my favorite Nigerian movies:


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Dear poster,

Better luck next time!

no point crying over spilled milk

MOVE ON!!

  i jus tire  
@ Sis B
jus concentrate on your studies ok, because if you do,i can authoritatively tell you that, it is ONE thing no one can take away from you.
u can say that again.

Girl i ve once been in your shoes, but my own case is the case of money i mean my girl i dated for 7 Good solid years
left me because i ve no money, and what did i do i move on with my life, because i know one thing for is that when u re large other thing will be small to you, and now that am fully blessed she is the one now crawing on her knees begging me to accept her even trying to get me through my friends, but weyting i do i bulshit her like a dunk.

take my candid advice face your sudies and up-grade your life i bet u he will be the one begging to wash your plate or even becoming your house help just to see your face again

Welcome to the world of ''non virgins''

hmmmn nairaland,

THE HOME OF ALTERNATIVE THERAPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


dear nairalanders,

 i have stomach probem what should i do?

i need an advice fast so i don't poo on the bed.

THANKS.

B4 the guy shag u ,u no ask 4 advice , but now that the DEEDS have been done , u dey ask 4 advice, You re On Your Own (O. Y. O)

Come on stop crying over spilt milk. Hit town and find another Guy

Your story is a sorry case,
Dear is better to forget about Him 4life,


But if i nust ask you,have  you ever reach a conclusion  of marrying
Each other before tha dumbass started CLARO you .


Maybe yes but you as a xtian,i don't think you should be unequally yolk with an unbeliever
Even to the extent  of  you luving him,
Anyway love is Blind,
You can text me if you need a zoulmate, 08066565532,
XXXpectin YA

@ poster

Everything has been said here-both reasonable and unreasonable ones. the ball is in your court.

i wish you all the best.good luck next time.

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