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haywhy (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #32 on: October 08, 2006, 05:34 PM »

Quote from: chukymoney on October 08, 2006, 05:27 PM
ol boy u don mess zimbabwe girl before,

Ma guy they are mysterious gurls ooo!!! word

Abi london guys se na lie?
segun111 (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #33 on: October 09, 2006, 12:55 AM »

pearl,

Studies have shown that men that masturbate often and excercise takes two or three time longer to climax than average.
However, they are now trying to separate the two but I will bet it has a lot to do with excercise not masturbation,
pearldrops (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #34 on: October 22, 2006, 04:44 AM »

then what happens to the ladies tht masturbates as well?
domwas2 (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #35 on: October 22, 2006, 04:58 PM »

why will it take a man too long to climax while the lady too is willingly to give it to him the same why, sex is sweet while  giving it to each other but hell when one is looking at the clock and the other struggling.  Smiley do i say sometin.
olutomiwa (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #36 on: November 25, 2006, 06:21 PM »

women,na wa o,if you come quick,they will call you a one minute man,if you tey before you come,dem go still complain,what exactly do they want?God you dey try o.
boladonas (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #37 on: November 25, 2006, 10:30 PM »

Edo girls and zimbabwe girls no dey die o
no complains,  no holds barred, their batteries no dey quench
na d bobo go pick raise
u never hear? olomi lo ma re
mgboloyd (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #38 on: November 26, 2006, 06:35 PM »

Put aradite on d gals female orifice & u put your privates back.den try 2 pul it out,u wil pour by force
koolboi (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #39 on: December 02, 2006, 05:16 AM »

i thought ladies were capable of multiple orgasms until,  Undecided
snazzydawn (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #40 on: December 10, 2006, 01:33 PM »

When your man takes too long to climax, do the kegel exercises while he is inside you. Tighten your vaginal muscles and release them; slowly at first, then intermittently.He will feel as if you are trapping him oneminute and then he will swim the next minute, he will be confused and then he will come. Just have fun while doing it, keep tightening and releasing. He will come with the speed of a bullet .
mukina2 (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #41 on: December 11, 2006, 11:59 AM »

Quote from: snazzydawn on December 10, 2006, 01:33 PM
When your man takes too long to climax, do the kegel exercises while he is inside you. Tighten your vaginal muscles and release them; slowly at first, then intermittently.He will feel as if you are trapping him oneminute and then he will swim the next minute, he will be confused and then he will come. Just have fun while doing it, keep tightening and releasing. He will come with the speed of a bullet .

wow . . .girl . .you the bomb can i come for lessons? Wink
trini_girl (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #42 on: December 11, 2006, 02:10 PM »

@ pearldrops

lol!! girl what a problem many women wish they had!

If a woman is becoming sore or feels burning after prolonged sexual intercourse it means she is not properly lubricated.

Most times a woman's lubrication comes when she is sexually aroused, example, during oral sex, and after she orgasms.
Some women even have vaginal ejaculation or "gushing", but not all women know how to do this, or even know what it is.  Durings sex sometimes when you are close to orgasm you feel a contraction of the vaginal walls, but to ejaculate the action is opposite, you feel as if u want to urinate, and your vagina walls begin to push out instead.  These types of orgasms feel different than when your vagina contracts, and causes ejaculation.

Anyway, if she finds that she is becoming sore, keep some water based lubrication handy in the side drawer of your bed, or under a pillow and just "lube up" when that time comes!  KY Liquid jelly is good, and there is also KY self warming liquid jelly.

Cheers!
 
olutomiwa (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #43 on: December 15, 2006, 08:30 PM »

Quote from: trini_girl on December 11, 2006, 02:10 PM
@ pearldrops

lol!! girl what a problem many women wish they had!

If a woman is becoming sore or feels burning after prolonged sexual intercourse it means she is not properly lubricated.

Most times a woman's lubrication comes when she is sexually aroused, example, during oral sex, and after she orgasms.
Some women even have vaginal ejaculation or "gushing", but not all women know how to do this, or even know what it is. Durings sex sometimes when you are close to orgasm you feel a contraction of the vaginal walls, but to ejaculate the action is opposite, you feel as if u want to urinate, and your vagina walls begin to push out instead. These types of orgasms feel different than when your vagina contracts, and causes ejaculation.

Anyway, if she finds that she is becoming sore, keep some water based lubrication handy in the side drawer of your bed, or under a pillow and just "lube up" when that time comes! KY Liquid jelly is good, and there is also KY self warming liquid jelly.

Cheers!
 
una wetin you study for school?na sexology?i bow for you o,you sabi the thing,WELL WELL,i wish you were mine.
tayoccu (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #44 on: December 16, 2006, 02:03 PM »

define "too long" well as 4 me o! Sex is s.tin 2 be enjoyed,regardless of how long it lasts. Good 4play& a variety of positions can help "marathon partners" cum quicker. @pearldrops, maybe u should hook up with sin he seems unable 2 cope d stamina of 9ja babes lol.
bluenubian (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #45 on: December 16, 2006, 02:22 PM »

Lubrication ke?, when u have to stop humping to grab a bottle a KY jelly, then someone has a problem. A woman shud be naturally lubricated except in some cases like pregnant woman, women with out of balance homonal levels or if she is older Or u have been humping too long and the woman has lost interest a little which is very normal.

Lubricant, Where is the fun in that?

Woman : "hold up honey take your peepee out of me, I gotta search the drawer for the Ky Undecided"
 
Anything more than 30mins at a time on a regular night is too long. and that kegel exercise thing does not always work, some guys jus don't have an orgasm that easy no matter what u do to them.
One guy once told me that he thinks of something totally abstract rather then thinking of the girl he is screwing to prevent himself from ejaculating prematurely. He tries to think of like school work or his job, this way he can go for hours, hours? Are u kidding me, that's torture.
Another guy told me that he doesn't have an orgasm because he want to make sure the woman has multiple orgasm, waddahell?.
Quick info guys, not all women have multiple orgasmns like they claim, be lucky if u made her come once. Jus satisfy the girl as best as u can then satisfy yourself cause u killing your ladies punani thinking u are an energizer bunny, pppalease!   Undecided
trini_girl (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #46 on: December 16, 2006, 08:17 PM »

 Shocked  Huh Undecided  *feeling sorry for bluenubian*
bluenubian (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #47 on: December 16, 2006, 09:29 PM »

No sweety sorry for yourself, apparently u too illiterate to understand my original post, after everything I posted all u cud summise was bluenubian needs your empathy, pathetic!. Save urself some trouble jus call me "blue". Its not that hard
trini_girl (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #48 on: December 16, 2006, 09:36 PM »

 *poor thing * Sad it is ok ,  relax
bluenubian (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #49 on: December 16, 2006, 09:43 PM »

Nne gi
olutomiwa (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #50 on: December 20, 2006, 06:41 PM »

Quote from: mukina2 on December 11, 2006, 11:59 AM
wow . . .girl . .you the bomb can i come for lessons? Wink
no don,t go to her,come to me for the lessons,i will teach you better.
mukina2 (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #51 on: December 20, 2006, 06:49 PM »

Quote from: olutomiwa on December 20, 2006, 06:41 PM
no don,t go to her,come to me for the lessons,i will teach you better.

yeah so what kinda degree do you have Wink Grin Grin
Theodora (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #52 on: December 21, 2006, 09:59 AM »

Trini girl,
no need to beef bluenubian"blue" she has not said anything wrong, i think you need to get  real.Its just that most men dont get the balance when a woman says she does not want a one minute man they assume she wants to go for hours ppleasse that of cos will make any girl sore, the problem is that most men do not study the girls they are "with" . They just naturally assume she does not want him to come quick and eventually end up killing the fun.If you study and understand your girl you will know when you need  to pour yourself out.


yea someone said condoms just kill his nerves, I am of that school of thot too.   
ThisDumebi
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #53 on: December 21, 2006, 02:47 PM »

I'll tell for you. All of u!!
koolboi (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #54 on: December 21, 2006, 04:39 PM »

Quote
Lubrication ke?, when u have to stop humping to grab a bottle a KY jelly, then someone has a problem. A woman should be naturally lubricated except in some cases like pregnant woman, women with out of balance homonal levels or if she is older Or u have been humping too long and the woman has lost interest a little which is very normal.

Lubricant, Where is the fun in that?

Woman : "hold up honey take your peepee out of me, I gotta search the drawer for the Ky "
 
Anything more than 30mins at a time on a regular night is too long. and that kegel exercise thing does not always work, some guys jus don't have an orgasm that easy no matter what u do to them.
One guy once told me that he thinks of something totally abstract rather then thinking of the girl he is screwing to prevent himself from ejaculating prematurely. He tries to think of like school work or his job, this way he can go for hours, hours? Are u kidding me, that's torture.
Another guy told me that he doesn't have an orgasm because he want to make sure the woman has multiple orgasm, waddahell?.
Quick info guys, not all women have multiple orgasmns like they claim, be lucky if u made her come once. Jus satisfy the girl as best as u can then satisfy yourself cause u killing your ladies punani thinking u are an energizer bunny, pppalease!   

@ bluebian
what a revelation u have given me by that line i highlighted on your post
but why aren`t all girls capable of multiple orgasm
and can girls have multiple org thru masturbatn
trini_girl (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #55 on: December 21, 2006, 07:27 PM »

good question koolboi.  I did not know such a problem even existed.
chistiana (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #56 on: December 22, 2006, 03:44 PM »

This post is damn intersting,

learn more, but i think those men enjoy it more, wen they are yet to do so, the more they enjoyed, they more the ladies are tired.
trini_girl (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #57 on: December 22, 2006, 04:12 PM »

I don't tire  Grin
pearldrops (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #58 on: December 24, 2006, 03:04 AM »

why u tired? Trini?
is your man taking longer than neccersry
A-40 (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #59 on: January 24, 2007, 02:40 PM »

@ eveseh
A-40 (m)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #60 on: January 24, 2007, 02:41 PM »

@eveseh
iS YOUR BOOTY THAT BIG LIKE ONION BOOTY TYPE ID LOVE TO KNOW HOW YOU WOULD SHAKE THAT BOOTY AND MAKE ME CUM
bluenubian (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #61 on: January 25, 2007, 02:24 AM »

@theodora
God bless your family jare Cheesy

@pearl  Kiss

@trini
u never tire finish *hiss*
pearldrops (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #62 on: February 22, 2007, 05:17 AM »

my man is just d best
hot-angel (f)
Re: When Your Man Takes Too Long To Climax
« #63 on: February 22, 2007, 06:52 AM »

Quote from: pearldrops on February 22, 2007, 05:17 AM
my man is just d best
Thought you were a lesbian. Back to guys? *just curious*


Quote from: koolboi on December 21, 2006, 04:39 PM
@ bluebian
what a revelation u have given me by that line i highlighted on your post
but why aren`t all girls capable of multiple orgasm
and can girls have multiple org through masturbatn
It's possible for every female to have multiple orgasm. But not all of them Actually "have" multiple orgasm. It depends on the guy and his skills, and the mind frame the woman puts herself. "Doing it" longer than neccessary doesn't mean you are trying to give your woman Multiple orgasm. It doesn't have to take eternity for her to get a multiple orgasm.

 Yes Girls can have Multiple orgasm through masturbation.

By the way, it also has to do with the mind. One orgasm can lead to the next and next if the girl is very imaginative. . .
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Ohh, and in reply to the thread: What can you do to a guy who doesn't come when you want him to??
I say MOAN!!! I want to believe that when you are TIRED, and you just want him to come and get off you, you wouldn't mind Faking a moan. Just Moan, and Give him like little breathing. . . Not Ohhh ohhh, i am dying type of MOans oo. That's too fake and it'll give the guy concern, and he will just totally get worried, and that will take him off the mood.

Moan little moans, and do that kegel thing snazzy was talking about.

Another thing is 'talk to him'. Tell him as you are doing those small moans, that he should come with you. Tell him you want to go there with him. . . Even if you've gotten there, make him think you are about to go there again, and you want him with you this time. Talk to him in between those sweet little moans. Tell him that he should 'come with you'. The guy will definitely love this, he wouldn't want to dissappoint and before you know what's up. . .  His mind is focused on 'going there' with you, and BAMmmmm,  . . .  He spills!  Remember what i said about the 'mind'?

His mind might be focused on "giving you yours", thereby forcing himself not to 'get his', so that he can be the hero (energizer bunny), but once you tell him that you want him with you, it's like a go ahead, he changes his mind frame, and  that could lead him to cumming.

ANother one is to change position.

The first two will most likely work anyways, and if they DON'T WORK. Well.  . . . Act like you heard the fire Alarm, and scream OH MY GOD, FIRE ALARM. He will get off you, and You'll be saved from the torture of Thrusting and thrusting without outCUM.
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