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owolabi (m)
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Love at First Sight: Do you believe in it?
Initially I counted this love at first sight [phenomenom] to be madness or infatuation, but I was later trapped in it.
My current girlfriend, I felt in love with her the first day I set my eyes on her and I was forced to tell her, but there was fire. The first thing she said was that I am crazy. To be sincere, I accepted the insult to be the fact. [I agree that] I was being really crazy to tell a girl I was seeing for the first time that I have tender affection for her. She was even the one that bailed me out, because the way she saw me staring at her after what she said to me she came and said we can be ordinary friends but as time goes on she realized I was not joking when I expressed my feelings to her.
Isn't this funny? Please, all guys out there if you find yourself in such situation, do not hinder expressing it!
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nike4luv (f)
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I believe in love at first sight, too. I mean the way de person looks and the perspection of the person you get in your mind worths it. But someone has got to be careful because first appearances might be risk taking.
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tcherokee (m)
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Interesting topic <editor: snip>
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owolabi (m)
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Your reply to this topic will be appreciated. <editor:snip>
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tcherokee (m)
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Personally, I do not believe in Love at first sight. Real love doesn't come at first sight in my opinion. The kind of love that lasts doesn't come at first sight. That kind of love grows the longer you have been with someone. You can love the appearance of someone at first sight, you can get infatuated at first sight but that is it. You are just in love with the appearace. You may find out that in the end you may not like the persons personality. Well maybe if you can tell the persons personality at first glance, but I don't think that is possible. Except when I fell in love with Latoya at first glance, anyway  |
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hot-angel (f)
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I believe in love at first sight. But, in some instances, I don't believe it (instances like when the guy/girl says "gosh, he looks hot, his dressing is the bomb", with so many outwards apperances being the judge of the love.
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twinkledew (f)
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I do not really believe in it. To me it is lust at first sight.
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gina34 (f)
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well to start with u have to know somebody before loving the person. so i do,t believe in love at first sight.
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nike4luv (f)
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guys..let me ask u, if u see beyonce or halle berry for de first time..wot would u say?
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chimanu2000 (m)
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i believe in it. but i know its not for everyone. its life everythings unpredictable
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Tali-Tali (m)
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NO. I BELIEVE IN LOVE AT SECOND SIGHT.
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fataiiyo (m)
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i blieve in love at 1st..........realy.........and..cool
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hot-angel (f)
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guys..let me ask u, if u see beyonce or halle berry for de first time..wot would u say?
i see them almost all the time. web, tv and all.  First sight, might not be real life..could also be Pictures. And i am sure most people have seen their pictures before. |
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Pinky (f)
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No I don't believe in love at first sight. I only believe in infatuation, attraction & lust at first sight.
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nike4luv (f)
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lol..am talking bout de guys and am talkin bout real life as in she comes to meet u
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hot-angel (f)
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mmkay. But if i were a guy, i'd fock them at that point. I wouldn't worry about love. You don't love those kind of people at first sight....u just see them and want to fock them. It's the same with girls. If u see an extremely hot guy that look exactly like your dream man.....you would feel like it's love but then...all u want is fock 'em and have 'em. Love doesn't work in those kind of cases. Like u see "2face" or "usher" |
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nike4luv (f)
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de guy will want to start crying lol..den he'll say..i'm so in love wit u..remember when beyonce gave this guy a lapdance in front of evry1 at de BET
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hot-angel (f)
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BET award was crazy. The guy was like.....drooling, i am sure he "thingy" was so hard. Oh me gosh..he eyes were poping out.
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nddy (m)
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 Love at first sight is real, plz
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Latoya (f)
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Yes i believe in love at first sight.
it depends on the personalities the guy potrays.
First impression matter,i will always remeber the first day i ever set my eyez on him,
what happened and how it all went
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fabian (f)
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Hey guys noooooooooooo! There's nada like love at first sight!  NADA.
Aint real! You can really like a person at first sight, and even have a crush, but believe me, Nigerians under estimate the feeling called love. A Naija guy/babe is soooooo quick to say I love you, even when they don't know the meaning of love!
Na wah for us oh! The real question to ask here is Do Nigerians know the meaning of Love?
Some babes feel that if a guy spends money on you, he loves you, and guys erroneously believe that if a girl gives her body freely to you, she must be in love with you.
I think we should have a rethink. This is not just my opinion, take it from me, i've really asked around! 
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owolabi (m)
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fabian why don't you give us the fulland complete meaning of love
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angela k (f)
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No, i don't believe in love at first sight , but i do believe in s------- l attraction at first sight. I can't fill in the blank space because i don't want problem with the administrator.  |
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Bibi (m)
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I think its LUST at first sight. Usually it sabout how she/he looks and the immediate errotic feelings. Thats not love, but lust. Usually doesnt go the long way.
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gina34 (f)
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@ Bibi
u are right .u can,t love somebody u just met for the first time it is imposicant.
love @ first sight ko love @ first sight Ni.
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DE-KING (m)
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No I don't. I can like someone at first sight but not love because love takes time to grow.
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Remedy (m)
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Get this straight. You cannot Love someone at first sight.
It is likeness at first - Law of attraction.
Then later - Likeness leads to Love. This happens with time.
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WesleyanA (f)
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there's no such thing as love @ first sight. at least i don't think there is.
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