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Suki08 (f)
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Gotta say, in all fairness, it's hard to judge this "girlfriend" from boyfriend's point of view only,
There are hidden "contributions" made by females. such as accommodation/housing and housework etc which should be counted as a genuine contribution. During relationships, work tend to suffer by cutting work hours in order to look after a relationship over weekends and such.
in my case, had a boyfriend (now he's a "former" boyfriend) who wanted me to pay for a lot of things and he paid some towards utility bills and food but whilst he was looking for a place to live he moved in my place and my level of work had suffered whilst "looking after him" and now he moved out because he didn't want to pay for stuff and he has his own place (finally!) after many, many months.
all in all, imho in a relationship, so long as you're working to sort it out amicably it works/may work but usually in my experience, men do start playing games when they feel they're being "watched" for his action. Then obviously one needs to get out and lives better life without complicated love.
in my case, boyfriend just disappeared out of blue and think that is not the best for anyone who had been in love with the man over so many months ,
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