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hotfunmi (f)
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Ladies, Define men?  what do you think about them?  Ask them any question you wish here?  I'll start  
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hotfunmi (f)
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Men to me has no definite definition because of their continous changing characteristics. The are not stable under normal temperature and atmospheric pressure and cannot be seen in the periodic table. They are also highly inflammable.
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Ok, you guys are quick to call us old mama whenever we turn 30 or fat when we can still pass for average; Don't you know you guys don't look as hot as you were in your 20's? I mean, the bald head, the belle, the groans and the heavily reduced bed power, should I continue? Can we get some form of concession from you men and can you also look at yourself before judging her please?
Kudos to good non polygamous dads and men that love their wife's dearly, i throway salute.
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tommyex (m)
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Well the men in my own village look better as dey grow,No bald head till mayb 50,nice tummy and all.
Girls go through lots of changes when they give birth and all so i don't blame them though some grls are so lazy about their body.
The bed power can be regained,that 1 no be problem.
Make i ask 1 q:have u suffered such recently?like your boyfriend says u too fat or something?
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hotfunmi (f)
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Make i ask 1 q:have u suffered such recently?like your boyfriend says u too fat or something? Lol, I knew this question will come and the answer is no! I am not damn hot in theory. Question:What is the factor that makes you guys desire to marry? Do you feel it or do you just do it because your peers are doing it or is it because you want to raise a family? |
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almondjoy (f)
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Men can be defined as the spiritual heads or the "mAusehole"!  |
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hotfunmi (f)
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"mAusehole  |
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hotfunmi (f)
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"mAusehole |
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uspry1 (f)
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To me, man defines different types of categories to fit what woman wants, i cannot answer this one. Every men are different folks!
Just like you go grocery store to make few selections of canned soup with too many different varieties that is exact description of what men are.
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4Him (m)
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Question:
What is the factor that makes you guys desire to marry? Do you feel it or do you just do it because your peers are doing it or is it because you want to raise a family?
i'll be honest here, for me the reasons are: 1. Peer pressure . . . its hard to see most of your mates settling down into stable relationships/marriage and remain nonchallant. 2. At a stage playing around loses its appeal. 3. Kids! Kids! Kids! Just to hear a tiny tot call you dad can be the best feeling in the world. 4. Face it, behind all successful men is a woman with a good head on her shoulders. |
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stillwater (f)
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Define men? Men are babies that don't cry but growl and roar;D  what do you think about them? mmmmmh ???They start having riotous testosterones as soon as they reach puberty . They are very handsome and cute as children  , but atimes turn into something else when they growup  For me they are better as friends to a girl than girl to girl friendships. Fun to be with but stare a lot, geez try and hide it sometimes,mmmh |
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hotfunmi (f)
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By 4him
i'll be honest here, for me the reasons are:
1. Peer pressure . . . its hard to see most of your mates settling down into stable relationships/marriage and remain nonchallant.
2. At a stage playing around loses its appeal.
3. Kids! Kids! Kids! Just to hear a tiny tot call you dad can be the best feeling in the world.
4. Face it, behind all successful men is a woman with a good head on her shoulders. If these factors get men rolling, why are some of them still scared of marriage? Don't they have these factors going for them? |
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buzzgonz (m)
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Wait a min. Are we discussing about "men as a being" or "Askmen as a website" i'm confuss  |
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OMO IBO (m)
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untill u ladies stop trying to make us 'grow up' then u'D still have problems understanding guys. u ladies need to learn that we guys want u to remain 'babe' and not 'wife' even when you're married.
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Beebsyn (m)
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@hotfunmi, girl what your problem about marriage, if you want to marry do so and no body is going to question you, or are short of guys? don't be offended,plz is just a question.
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Busta (f)
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Why do men feel like they own the woman?
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Rebellious (f)
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Why do men feel like they own the woman?
Yeah I really need to know too. Like we are their property or something. It annoyed me a lot when my ex would act that way. |
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Busta (f)
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especially nigeria men . . . a lot of them feel that they married her to make babies, cook their meals, wash the dishes and clean the house.  |
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Busta (f)
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untill u ladies stop trying to make us 'grow up' then u'D still have problems understanding guys. u ladies need to learn that we guys want u to remain 'babe' and not 'wife' even when you're married.
did u know that a 35-40 years old man can be compared to a 25 years old girl? mentally, logically and behaviorism?? tell mewho needs to grow up? |
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debosky (m)
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We men need help, but some of you women (mothers) contribute to this bad mentality as well, by raising their sons to believe the woman is supposed to cook, clean, drop babies and lie down whenever their husbands need sex. Not all men are the same though, you need to be specific about which type of man (i.e upbringing, experiences, stage in life, mental state) you are talking about in each case. Not all men need to 'grow up' some are 'old souls' - matured at an early age. All the ladies here should make sure they train their sons to behave properly and value women |
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Busta (f)
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@debo, u trynna say u different? |
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debosky (m)
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Do I need to say it? you've got the proof already girl |
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Busta (f)
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Keep telling ursef that!
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Rebellious (f)
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He is different, don't ask how I know.
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Busta (f)
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He is different, don't ask how I know.
lol. . . how did u know? |
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tkb417 (m)
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especially nigeria men . . . a lot of them feel that they married her to make babies, cook their meals, wash the dishes and clean the house. some Nigerian men will be berra. Not all |
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4Him (m)
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Why do men feel like they own the woman?
Well maybe its because they truly own the woman. Isnt the purpose of marriage that they shall be 1 (ONE) flesh? |
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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Why do men play silly games when its time to break up with their woman? una no say this kain tin dey lead to all kinds of unnecessary poto poto. . . . but you will still carry ahead misleading the woman
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LDEE
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we are men what do u expect. we conquer |
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4Him (m)
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Why do men play silly games when its time to break up with their woman? una no say this kain tin dey lead to all kinds of unnecessary poto poto. . . . but you will still carry ahead misleading the woman
because we don't want to see you to break our TV set in anger. It costs money u know. |
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Busta (f)
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Well maybe its because they truly own the woman.
Isnt the purpose of marriage that they shall be 1 (ONE) flesh? and that means that they belong together and not that one person owns the other. |
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Rebellious (f)
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Well maybe its because they truly own the woman.
Isnt the purpose of marriage that they shall be 1 (ONE) flesh?
Becoming one flesh means that we BOTH make choices together. We both are the head and followers of the family. You also belong to me as I belong to you. |
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