What's The Remedy For Loneliness?

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IS THE BEST REMEDY

OR SHAGGING!

"banginess?" 

Like bible?

I think some people are begining to see loneliness as a desease. The perverted minds.

They have not been thought the value and significance of being alone. And when they get the "banger" they seek, they start singing a new anthem.

If you love yourself, you can never be lonely!

A very cogent point is made by olanajim.  Indeed, there is something to be said for being alone.  Solitude is, truly, of great significance.  And, remember, being alone does not mean being lonely.  It has been said (with great truth) that one can be lonely in a great crowd of people. 

Time alone allows one to better determine one's self.  Doing so allows a person to better assess what s/he has to bring to any given relationship, whether a casual friendship, a professional acquaintanceship or a romantic relationship.  Too many times, people go from being somebody's child directly to being somebody's spouse and immediately to being somebody's parent, when they have not determined who they, themselves, are.  Ideally, one should be definable in terms of being an individual entity, not in terms of how one is connected to somebody else.

Loneliness is the absence of direction.

Loneliness is not an abnormal humanistic construct. It is not necessarily a condition devoid of "direction" or "love" as a person can possess a loving persona and yet be lonely. Case in point - long distance interpersonal relationships or relationships where the subjects are incompatible. Need i also say that the view that to be alone is to be without direction is highly flawed.

@Oscawilde – Since your quest is for a “babe” who would hopefully relieve you off your lonesome. Pali, I would suggest you shine your eyes well well as you mingle more . ------make woman no take your eye see pepper------

the remedy is up to you, depends on what things are of interest to you, personally i enjoy playing chess online when am feeling lonely, there are a lot of games you can get involved in, you could read books, the bible, visit friends, take up a casual job for the fun of it and not necessarily the pay, it should be something you love to do, watch CNN or SKYNEWS to get the latest on world reports and events,keep yourself busy by initiating what you have learnt that day as discussion points with people you meet, depending on their area of interest though.

you could also just think of any topic and look up on google what details there are, so many things to keep you busy, but i will advise you keep yourself busy with something that will bring you financial gains, you will never be lonely because am sure you wont get tired of seeing your bank account grow.

all the best.

try doing something you enjoy apart from shagging

be  on naira land and u wont be lonely



chi rose please easy on oscar,abeeeeeeeeeegg

Sorry ooooooooooooooooooooooo,u miss the bus stop,because ia lonely too. i just ve to zoom off

define your loniness, what do u think is the cause of your loniness,is it because u are not at the rite place or wit the rite person.it's when u know Y then u will no WHAT.

you may get the babe
and still be lonely
so that is not the solution to loneliness
When u engage in things you enjoy doing,
you can't be lonely
Simply keep yourself occupied

i ned a frd to talk wit,i jst finish my ND prog, ordinarily i wouldnt want 2 go back for HND mymind has been on degree but financial inability has limit to ND prog but now that i ve finish i can''t even get a job to even start a parttime degree. plz what will u advice.