It's My Wedding And I'll Cry If I Want To!

Ok so my parents live in England and have not been to Nigeria in soo long, my fiance and I want to get married in Nigeria and we have a church we would like to get married at.  But my parents want us to get married in a catholic church, even though they/we are not catholics!!  They believe since they attended a catholic church before they left Nigeria and they don't have a home church back home, that's the only option.  My fiance and his family will do no such thing.  I mean if they were muslims, you won't find me marrying in a mosque (no pun intended) because it's not my faith.  And they keep saying if this wedding does not happen how they want it, they would have nothing to do with the wedding or with us in general. Besides that, I just feel like they are taking too much control over this wedding, I mean can a girl breathe or som'ing,  Is it that deep??  I really thought a wedding was about the couple.  Now, I know why a couple of my friends eloped!!!!!!  Anyhow, I want your opinions, what is a girl to do???  I mean It's my wedding!!!!!!

Girl, I say do what they want o
h  just so there's peace.  At the end of the day being with your fiance is what matters. so just suck it up! Atleast they r not trying to pick the date for u. See it as laying low to conquer