The Nigerian Man/Woman And The Single Parent As A Partner?

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britgirlee (f)
The Nigerian Man/Woman And The Single Parent As A Partner?
« on: February 09, 2008, 08:38 AM »

Hi Guys , I'm back with another controversial topic Grin

What are your views on the single parent family.  Would you consider dating or even marrying a woman or a man who has  had a child or children out of wedlock for what ever reason.

Do you think your cuculturalr family beliefs will have a say on your potential partner having a child out ofwedlock do you think it is  social stigma especially to the woman who has had a child from a failed relrelationship_
would you look more favorably the single parent if they were successful their career home worklife.

Then some one who is struggling to make end meet because of no support? kicked out of home by parents etc

would you be able to toltolerate partner who has a child with them all the time or every other weekend. Bearing in mind they can organise child care.

Are you ok looking at being step mum or dad to your partners child.

Do you think the woman is looked at less if she has a child then the man

what are your views good bad in indifferent)

almondjoy (f)
Re: The Nigerian Man/Woman And The Single Parent As A Partner?
« #1 on: February 09, 2008, 09:42 AM »

We have dealt with this topic several times on Nairaland.  It is a matter of choice.  Personally, I would marry a guy with a kid in a heart beat.  He is trusting me with his most prized possession and I do not intend to let him down with that Nigerian "wicked step mother" syndrome.  I am not that kind of person anyway--that will torture an innocent child because of some petty jealousies.

My role is to unite the family not divide it--even if I did not have ma own kids! Kiss

But of course, the typical Nigerian woman is full of games--always wasting her energy where it does not count or resort to all kinds of diabolical means to keep the children away from their father's love.  And who loses? Undecided
britgirlee (f)
Re: The Nigerian Man/Woman And The Single Parent As A Partner?
« #2 on: February 09, 2008, 09:55 AM »

oops should of checked , if the topic had been posted// Undecided

any way true world almondjoy,  Grin
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