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britgirlee (f)
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Hummmmm What are you views on the younger Nigerian man dating an older nNigerianwoman or any woman. Is a social stigma? It is more acceptable for a niNigerianan to marry a younger woman or of like age BUT when it comes to the older woman who is uyupo 3-8 years older then him the tables are turned, If the woman looks half her age and has aged very well it is difficult to decide her age unless told i myself look a good ten years younger!!!!!  And I always have the pause your how old  Never especiallyf the guy looks older then me but turns out to be 6 years younger!!!! But seriously what are your views in our present society do you wonder what the attraction is ?/. what the guy sees in the woman , what the woman sees in the younger guy?? Is she of child bearing age, does she want children or not does he even more so, I wont write much its an open forum your views please |
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almondjoy (f)
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Yes it is stigma in most societies in Nigeria. Everywhere you turn you hear things like "old cargo" mostly from men. The women often spite older ones even if the age difference is that of 2 years--like they are any younger themselves. It is not very common go see a young Nigerian man marry an older Nigerian lady without incurring the wrath of his relatives. Most women lie about their ages go get the men's attention till the truth is eventually revealed when the lady's schoolmates start screaming foul. She was my older sister's mate in secondary school oooooooooooooooh"!  If she is 27, how old am I then? Thanks to women taking better care of themselves and learning to love themselves for whom they are. Most women do not look their ages anymore. Thanks also for getting out of the kitchen and graduating from higher institutions and maintaining their careers. Just living for themselves. It can only take a confident man to appreciates any lady for whom she is without considering her age when it is of no consequence to "matters arising". Not up to 5% in Africa. In the western world, who cares? Go Demi Moore!!! You look good with baby Ashton K!!!  Wow! Britgirleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! I love your profile picture. There is stiff competition on Nairaland now. Too bad, the girls look way better than the guys. Are those real?--If I were a guy--age would not be a factor arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrallll! Hmmmmmmmmmm! What a pair of knockers! |
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britgirlee (f)
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Almond Girleee,
love your write up and views!!!!
Yes I'm all real,,,,and yes im an older woman and proud to be me, I ve fogotten about the pic posted , hahahaha
Any way hope your well
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doyin13 (m)
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Are those real?--If I were a guy--age would not be a factor arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrallll! Hmmmmmmmmmm! What a pair of knockers! KnockersDid I hear knockers. . . Nwanwu pawpaw menmake una show me na Yawwww |
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darfur (m)
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almond joy, that na your picture for ya profile you fine well well oo |
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almondjoy (f)
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almond joy, that na your picture for ya profile you fine well well oo Hmmmmmmmm! Thank you very much! |
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Blatant
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How boys go dey carry old cargo? Na only if the old cargo want give them papers or maybe she get money wey she dey spend for boys. It can only take a confident man to appreciates any lady for whom she is without considering her age when it is of no consequence to "matters arising". Not up to 5% in Africa. In the western world, who cares?[/b] [b]Go Demi Moore!!! You look good with baby Ashton K!!! It takes a desperate man to go with an old cargo lol Besides, why should we do something simply because it is done in the western world? Must we be colomentality fools following without thought? If you don't like it, go and meet men from the western world |
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Blatant
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why the women sef no find them mates?
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almondjoy (f)
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! A see! Just lak a thought. Typical Nigerian mentality. The good news is that more Nigerian guys have wives at home and keep sugar mommies on the side. Desperate or not. Let freedom of choice reign. Some old cargos make better wives than young mules! |
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