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teddydeji
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As much i want to condemn of the wife by the husband i want to also caution the woman from deliberately denying the husband of sex,especially faithful husbands.Sex is God`s commandment between two married couple and they should not deny themselves.
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SENATOR JD (m)
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As much i want to condemn of the wife by the husband i want to also caution the woman from deliberately denying the husband of sex,especially faithful husbands.Sex is God`s commandment between two married couple and they should not deny themselves.
preach on preacher. lol |
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Pip (m)
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you women can never be pleased. after u would say u want to divorce him because he doesn't satisfy u in bed. Any way it's a case of diff strokes for diff folks. One (wo)man's meat is another (wo)man's fish.
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manakins
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Well it can happen but it becomes a breach of trust,and could spoil things,so
my opinion is that there should be an understanding between both partners so as to avoid the breach of trust from the womans perspective
and the mans ego of its my marital rigth so i got to have it anytime i want it because SEX is one of the strongest points in marriage.
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lawma (m)
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so you nairaland guy's and babes,why most a woman deny her husband sex? why did she marry him at the first place? is sex not part of marriage? is she also thinking that as long as she keeps on denying her husband that right , she is also sending him to the outside world. Women are jealous what of your husband refuses you sex what will you lady's call it. we should as well think. sometimes women are favoured in this kind of judgement. It ought to be love all the way thats while you got married to him.
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obagermo
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I think 2-3 years in jail with extensive counseling is ok for any rape case. If there is additional violence involved, you can add another 4-5 years for "battery". If he holds her hostage for an extended period, add another 5-7 years for kidnapping.
The critical issue is not the severity of the punishment but the likelihood of conviction. Nobody wants to spend 6 months in prison, not to talk of 2-3 years. Most women would not testify against their husbands if the punishment is deemed too severe. Afterall, they were lovers. But if the punishment is appropriate to the crime, then they might.
Having said that, I don't see how forcing your wife to have sex with you could be seen as less evil than doing the same to your neighbour or sister or girlfriend, provided you understand that the wife is not your property. Is your wife not a woman, too? Why should a man rape his wife when he won't rape other women? Are other women more deserving of respect than his beloved wife? Is she a slave, animal or piece of property? |
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fathfam (f)
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there is nothin like rape in the matrimonial enviroment as much as we are married he do mi do mi domi anytime, why wuld u refuse your husband oshi niyen now, more so my religion dosent permit such, Islam the way of life, lol
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Ayooluwa_b (f)
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Well as far as am concerned, for no reason should a woman refuse her husband of his sexual right. Even the bible says women should give total submission to their husband, in any case where the woman is not in the mood, her husband should try as much as possible to help her be in the mood e.g soft & low music, forplay, mild romance etc.  , then if it didn't work let her be and few hrs later. Most importantly, they both need it is good for their health  |
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DEJ01 (m)
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abeg where is ajoy i dey feel am ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d
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Tigress
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Hey guys,
let's all take a chill pill, let's seperate the law from the psychological and emotional, because legally-rape is rape and should be treated as such,
But more importantly, refusing sex in marriage could spring from anything (illness, fatigue, migraines, emotional problems etc) it could be anything, hey!, you wonna go humping and grinding on a woman like that, c'mmon guys, you aint dogs, this thing is meant to be enjoyed and with FEELINGS too, if it aint today bro, it definately will be tomorrow or next, do i have a witness in the house?
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Darkaengel (m)
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:oiamtotallyshockedbywhatisgrossirresponsibilityonthepartofth emen.haba,shetheoneweyyoueygetsinceallthisdatsneverdoyou.Whyshouldyoujumpintoparadiseunwelcome.Anymanwhoisnotpatientenoughtowaittillhiswifeisreadytogotople asureislandshouldhavehis'pekus',cutoff.
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Tigress
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are we tallking of a madman?, OF COURSE NOT!!!!
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michelin89 (f)
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I think insanity is gradually sticking in here.
What did nature teach us? What did our fore fathers teach us? Where then is the issue of submission in a woman? This explains why we have more unmarried women now.
If a woman wanted to be left alone, why did she get married? When a woman decides to use sex as a tool of wickedness against a man should that be permitted?
This must be the very reason adultery will never end. Many married women keep saying no and want the man to take it just like that?
Who married who? the man or the woman? Who paid the others bride price? Please, the man bought the woman off her parents, that was why he spent his huge amount of money for the celebration, or did any woman foot those bill?
Please a woman is a mans property once she is married and she totally submits to his will.
How many of us have the opinion to question our nature and then change who we are? Have we gone this blind that we now question life?
Please we should know the world we live in, then we can say something.
Women, if you want your man to cheat on you, then deny him sex and tell us which is better, sharing him with other women or giving it to him yourself?
Why wasn't I surprised to read this dirt from u? *yawn* Keep on crying sexually enslaved beast! |
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tj2000
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I think someone said rape is a grey area, how grey?  ?I think if you ask any rape victim in any situation they will tell you how violated they feel, rape is rape !!!! its when u are violated and thats one of the most demeaning things to happen to a woman on earth, although in marriage the couple should better get counsellling or do some thing about it, a man who uses his strenght to get something he wants from his wife is a beast either raping or beating her up, if she doesn't give u and u can't get her too then get out and find someone else who will do so willing, finish!!!! |
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dbootzy
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Forcing anyone to have sex is called RAPE, no matter the title of the person doing it, thats all i have to say  |
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Tigress
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Michelin or whatever you call yourself, it's obvious you lied in your profile about your sex, according to you a woman is an acquired property, who was bought over by a man, therefore, she is a sex slave and must subject herself to her husbands groins each time his libido is atwitter, great!
All i have to say is that when people don't understand the intricacies/depth of a title/topic, they should go in search of a less intellectually challenging topic or SHUT THE HELL UP!!!!. You really don't have to contribute each time you know, you are screaming dowry dowry, how much do you think your father paid for your mother in the first place, in case you have being lied to, its a coupla dowries, which would drastically reduce in your case as i can see.
Just a little education, rape is not about sex, it is about degradation, humiliation and lack of self esteem, so can never be justified with or without your almighty 'dowry'!!!!! duuuuugh
witnesses please!
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chybius (f)
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lf a woman have a geniue reason,then the man should be considerates.not withstanding is not proper for a wife to starve her husband of that because u might drive Him into the wrong ARMS.
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tj2000
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Tigress i so agree with you, please give michellin whatever a piece of what he deserves, OMG what century is he in? ?!!! the dark ages?? I am so sorry for whoever the partner is, such masochistic chauvnistic comments, must have the psyche of a 2 year old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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nickjj (m)
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if a man force his wife just to have sex with her is totally unfair,but if she continue refusing,the man should better check out what is happening.that is the sweetest aspect of marriage.  |
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danity
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Marital rape should be questioned, punished and more people should be educated about it.
Yes - they are married.
Yes - they belong to each other but how on earth are you forcefully taking what is yours already?
Rape and Sex are two different things - make no mistake about it.
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l.y
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Re:marital rape
it is, as far as i am concerned very wrong for a man to rape his wife.for the fact that they are married does not give him the right to force her when she is tired i mean not ready at it.atleast they understand themselves so he should be able to know when and whennot.rape is very painful for those that have experienced it will agree to what i understand, thereby leaving her with injuries afterwards.please it is totally wrong
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jonjon (f)
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Rape is violence. At the end of the act the woman is left with injuries on various parts of her body, also, her clothes will be torn and she will be crying, she will feel humiliated, she will feel guilty, blaming herself for falling in love with such a person and she will not be able to look the perpetrator in the face at the end. Tell me guys, what on earth can any wife do to her hubby to deserve such from him? The issue is not a funny one at all. |
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rowenagold (f)
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of course a woman duty defined by the bible is to be submissive to her husband with her body and obedience.
what if this woman is ill. or do u all expect that a woman has sex against her will when she is not feeling up to it. Guys u have to put your selfish selfs first in all u do rite?
a woman is not feeling up to anything, and u say she must submit her body to u, all because u are her husband,
i Do know that God did not bring females to slave for men,
i know that the Females are supposed to have feelings too, be able to feel things and react to it.
please can we all be more considerate to the female gende.
I ABHOR VIOLENCE
Final Judgement,
if your wife says no to sex. please just tell her that tomorow u wuld have sex with your secretary, i think your satisfaction should be in the expression on her face and her response in general.
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RedHotChic (f)
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lf a woman have a geniue reason,then the man should be considerates.not withstanding is not proper for a wife to starve her husband of that because u might drive Him into the wrong ARMS. What if she has no genuine reason? |
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