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adurogba (m)
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hello is it really posible, do you think the love will last. whats your view?
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victorian (f)
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In Nigeria, its a terrible error for a girl to toast a guy!
- first, the guy wont take the relationship serious , even if she's so cute
- the relationship will never last , cause deep in the guy's mind he will be feeling like, 'how many guys have this babe toasted? if she can walk up to me boldly and say all these love talk.
For crying out loud, guys want to be the hunters, they are in dire need of such titles. So, babes NEVER TOAST A GUY if you want a true relationship but for a one night stand ,you can go ahead with all the blessings from moi!
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ibkaye (f)
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never in my life sha  |
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earthrealm (m)
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In Nigeria, its a terrible error for a girl to toast a guy!
- first, the guy wont take the relationship serious , even if she's so cute
- the relationship will never last , cause deep in the guy's mind he will be feeling like, 'how many guys have this babe toasted? if she can walk up to me boldly and say all these love talk.
For crying out loud, guys want to be the hunters, they are in dire need of such titles. So, babes NEVER TOAST A GUY if you want a true relationship but for a one night stand ,you can go ahead with all the blessings from moi!
LMFAO!!!   |
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buzzgonz (m)
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whats funny about that comment? |
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bawomolo (m)
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this is 2008. women should be more open with their emotions. no one is asking u to be a leopard but playing hard to get would get u shunned this day and age. nothing bad with a woman initiating the convo.
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Rebellious (f)
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this is 2007. women should be more open with their emotions. no one is asking u to be a leopard but playing hard to get would get u shunned this day and age. nothing bad with a woman initiating the convo.
We are in 2008 not 2007. Not matter how much I like him, I doubt it. Even when he comes to me, I admit, I'll still play hard to get for a while. |
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almondjoy (f)
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I usually prefer to do the chasing now in my life. In ma teens and early 20's I liked to be chased. Now I find it very boring that a guy should chase me--with their mumuscious moves. Kai!  I am way past that phase. I do the chasing since I hit 25!  Gosh! We have a lot of local country peeps on this Nairaland I swear! Villagers! Hmmm!In this day and age of man to women ratio of 1:50? Make una siddon for thia dey wait for who to chase una. You can wear all the mini and midi skirts dey parade for Nairland--ain't gonnnna happen if you do not move your blooming tail! You damn right I am gonnna be doing the chasing--he does not have to respect me. I just need him to co-operate jest a lirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrle!  |
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bawomolo (m)
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Not matter how much I like him, I doubt it. Even when he comes to me, I admit, I'll still play hard to get for a while.
u are right, it's 2008. if u like him a lot, why not show your interest? playing hard to get will u create an opening for another woman. hard to get is just a stupid defensive tactic since most men don't have much of an attention span.
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Rebellious (f)
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Don't get me wrong, I don't, like, totally tune him out. I just want to see his level of interest so that I know that I'm not wasting my time liking him. If we can at least be friends on my compatibility scale, I let him move in for the "kill".
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iice (f)
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AJ LMFAO!!
@Topic. . .when did toasting translate to love
I don't think i can toast if you mean 'woo'. I can ask him out sure, no biggie. His preconceived notions of me will be his undoing not mine
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earthrealm (m)
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I usually prefer to do the chasing now in my life. In ma teens and early 20's I liked to be chased. Now I find it very boring that a guy should chase me--with their mumuscious moves. Kai! I am way past that phase. I do the chasing since I hit 25! Gosh! We have a lot of local country peeps on this Nairaland I swear! Villagers! Hmmm!In this day and age of man to women ratio of 1:50? Make una siddon for thia dey wait for who to chase una. You can wear all the mini and midi skirts dey parade for Nairland--ain't gonnnna happen if you do not move your blooming tail! You damn right I am gonnna be doing the chasing--he does not have to respect me. I just need him to co-operate jest a lirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrle! theoritically this stuf works, @almondjoy, but i bet u, it goona boomerang on u. asking a guy out is quite a diff ball game from chasing a guy, they are worlds apart, don't try the later |
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edatika (m)
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if u dey wait make the guy wey u like come,
u waka up
u waka down
in no see u,
u still dey wait
if u no chase am yasef
u go just tey?, wowo, old,
na the one wey u no like go just dey disturb u,
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arshy (m)
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I don't see anything wrong in u expressing your feelings, but if u keep it to yourself and die with it, u will only have yourself to blame when u see the one u cherish popping the cherry with another chick.
You sure say God no go cane u for not realizing your dreams?
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dellynash (f)
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i have toasted a guy before and it was quite normal to me.
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Pitokwe (m)
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I feel any girl who toast me is cheap ass.just show the sign leave the rest to me |
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micko2007
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almondjoy (f)
Nevada. USA.--Agenegbode.
Posts: 3310
why is it that u don't want us to know each other as i have been requesting?
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babycool (f)
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I usually prefer to do the chasing now in my life. In ma teens and early 20's I liked to be chased. Now I find it very boring that a guy should chase me--with their mumuscious moves. Kai! I am way past that phase. I do the chasing since I hit 25! Gosh! We have a lot of local country peeps on this Nairaland I swear! Villagers! Hmmm!In this day and age of man to women ratio of 1:50? Make una siddon for thia dey wait for who to chase una. You can wear all the mini and midi skirts dey parade for Nairland--ain't gonnnna happen if you do not move your blooming tail! You damn right I am gonnna be doing the chasing--he does not have to respect me. I just need him to co-operate jest a lirrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrle! Lol!! Sis no mind them, na so them go dey do shakara, one sis go collect their guy before their korokoro eyes, them no sabi!!! |
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almondjoy (f)
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almondjoy (f)
Nevada. USA.--Agenegbode.
Posts: 3310
why is it that u don't want us to know each other as i have been requesting?
Because you are going to be "phocked" to death and I would hate for you to leave your wives and children for me to support!  |
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aisha2 (f)
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I never toast before but am an excellent flirt. I can give a killer look and at the same time makeit innocent and sexy. I enjoy the flirting part but when the guy falls for the bait, most time i loose interest
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almondjoy (f)
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theoritically, this stuf works
@almondjoy, i bet you, it gooona boomerang on u.
asking a guy out is quite a diff ball game from chasing a guy they are world apart'
don't try the later
Is that right? Hmmmmmmmmm! Thanks for the advice. If the guy is broke--give him money If the guy is hungry- feed him If the guy is thirsty- quench him If the guy is homeless-shelter him in your "bosom"--two succulent ones if a may add If the guy is cold-warm him up wellu wellu If the guy is weary--rest him wellu wellu If the guy is motorless-ride him. There are many ways to chase a guy ma dear--just play your cards right and before he knows it he is in "love"! |
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earthrealm (m)
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I never toast before but am an excellent flirt. I can give a killer look and at the same time makeit innocent and sexy. I enjoy the flirting part but when the guy falls for the bait, most time i loose interest
word its better 2 be kind of subtle in these issues |
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almondjoy (f)
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if u dey wait make the guy wey u like come,
u waka up
u waka down
in no see u,
u still dey wait
if u no chase am yasef
u go just tey?, wowo, old,
na the one wey u no like go just dey disturb u,
Leave them naaaaaaaa. They would come back to Nairaland in about 10 years to "play hard to get"! Can I Meet Yoooooooooooooooooooooooooooou please!!! Abi na Can I Have Yooooooooooooooooooooooooooooou Please!!!--- for breakfast, lunch, dinner or snack? AJ LMFAO!!
@Topic. . .when did toasting translate to love
I don't think i can toast if you mean 'woo'. I can ask him out sure, no biggie. His preconceived notions of me will be his undoing not mine Na true now. Who wants respect? Just escort me small with ma big belle go altar make we say a do that's all! Lol!! Sis no mind them, na so them go dey do shakara, one sis go collect their guy before their korokoro eyes, them no sabi!!! In 2008? No wonder some women are so bitchy--spend all there time posing and nothing gets done. Na God save you guys say a don pass that stage. A for show una sointin! Use all their energy dey pursue married men all to be 10th wife still chasing the married men ooooooooooooooooooooh!  I never toast before but am an excellent flirt. I can give a killer look and at the same time make it innocent and sexy. I enjoy the flirting part but when the guy falls for the bait, most time i loose interest What a sadist. In about 1 or 2 years you wll be a "wide receiver" of the same goods and services. You better finish the race before you use all your "time outs" wthout one single field goal, not to talk of touch down.
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its better 2 be kind of subtle in these issues
Ah-ah? Is it only men that are supposed to be the "hunters"?  We wan hunt too now. |
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PLC
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You guys are on the verge of spoiling a man of God like PLC.
I quickly jumped into this thread hoping it was for Religion. But I was proven wrong, maybe, my inability to understand simple grammar should be blamed.
Please receive Christ in me, even if it means toasting me to show you the way. I’m very much available. Just try me. You will see extra-ordinary stuff I will display.
Bless you.
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ifedima (f)
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My fellow babes,
When you do the right thing to a matured guy that understands, he will do the right thing, which is, falling in love with you.
Try it, it works naturally.
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Eclairs
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You guys are on the verge of spoiling a man of God like PLC.
I quickly jumped into this thread hoping it was for Religion. But I was proven wrong, maybe, my inability to understand simple grammar should be blamed.
Please receive Christ in me, even if it means toasting me to show you the way. I’m very much available. Just try me. You will see extra-ordinary stuff I will display.
Bless you.
lol @ post Not the best idea. Gs it depends on the age. When the girl's still a teenager/early 20s, she's got the power and if by that age she's not hooked up yet, then, she's got it all to do. Most of them start waitin on the Lord to deliver. Some would turn husslers and start dreamin dreams. I guess this line isnt new to anyone. The Lord minister to me. Dont you think u should think and pray about it? God purnish devil |
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aisha2 (f)
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Almondjoy, my Love, am not a sadist oh, am just taking my time, I no do chewing gum love again. Dont Worry in one or two years as you say, I will be exactly where i want to be and be doing exactly what i want to do. No long thing, no shaking, no Gra gra
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bgees (m)
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its a developing world,girls should 'stand up'  |
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reality4us (m)
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A girl has once toasted me , though indirectly and we eventually dated or 2 good years and she never lost her respect. It all depends sha.
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adeboo (f)
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Nope i don't think i would.
The reason being that most of the nija guys we have are really funny about that - say for instance after u had 'toasted' the guy and u start dating, and something goes wrong - the guy could say 'and its not me that wanted to date u o, it ws u that begged me'.
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