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alexis (m)
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Nothing wrong with a woman initiating the process. Besides, women claim what a man can do, they can do even better - so, toasting is not an exception.
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darkey (m)
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i think the guy should make the MAJOR moves in any scenario. the girl can do what she can to let the guy know her feelings but she should leave the runs to him, for the sake of our ego. we sometimes need a 'push' to see what is in front of us.
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rickii (f)
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Nope i don't think i would.
The reason being that most of the nija guys we have are really funny about that - say for instance after u had 'toasted' the guy and u start dating, and something goes wrong - the guy could say 'and its not me that wanted to date u o, it ws u that begged me'.
dt is sooooooo true, i concur! |
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almondjoy (f)
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Almondjoy, my Love, am not a sadist oh, am just taking my time, I no do chewing gum love again. Dont Worry in one or two years as you say, I will be exactly where i want to be and be doing exactly what i want to do. No long thing, no shaking, no Gra gra I love that! More grease to your elbows and knees ma dear!  Nothing like a confident girl! You are not a woman yet!  |
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Eclairs
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Nope i don't think i would.
The reason being that most of the nija guys we have are really funny about that - say for instance after u had 'toasted' the guy and u start dating, and something goes wrong - the guy could say 'and its not me that wanted to date u o, it ws u that begged me'.
what do u xpt. It nt a good idea unless u are an old layer findin who to hook up with. No offence meant o. Just makin a general statement |
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The Sly
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to me. . . .there is nothin wrong with it. . . . .  |
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Bluetooth (m)
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@adeboo Personally, I think it depends on the guy's mentality and perception. We all have our individual way of reasoning. If a lady goes ahead to toast a guy she admires, it simply means the lady in question knows what she wants and went for it. The world isnt static you know; its dynamic. Things dey change everyday. 2008 isn't 2007  |
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Gamine (f)
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Not possible
Toast a guy? Thats Murder now!
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michelin89 (f)
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Sorry my status doesn't allow me to stoop so low as to talking to inferior beings like sudits and also men.  |
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Chacal (m)
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@ Gamine, Are u sure? Dont make me open your can of worms. @ michelin89, Men, inferior beings? Are u sure u ain't a lez? |
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Gamine (f)
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Which can of worms
Worms disgust me, why will i now put them inside a can?
Dosnt make sense, does it?
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michelin89 (f)
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@ Chacal, I could ask you the same. Are you sure you aren't gay since you consider women to be beneath men? |
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rockiedink (m)
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hey gamine and chacal stay on the issue. if una get issues make una go start am for another thread no take am distract us for here o! why can't the girl make the first move? na only mumu mumu guy go see her as less of a person because she tell am say she like am. someone like. . . make i no call him name. @almondjoy my nurrrrrrrrrryyyyyyy lirrrrrrrrrrle friend. you never cease to inspire me. i too feel you die! na you be my celtel o!  |
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Gamine (f)
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Abeg Mr Rockiedinkhead
Dont put your mouth where you can't eat
Wetin concern u concern me
@Michelin
The Chacal i know CANNOT be Gay
its like saying The Devil is good
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Chacal (m)
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@ michelin, Not again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Man is the head, woman is the neck. Nature identifies the man as the superior being from the word go . . . . . Am i gay? I am straighter than a steel ruler. Blimey. . . I am too homophobic to be gay. @ rockiedick, Stay on the issue? Was i holding your hands to type your bunkum? You are distracted over a childish topic like this? Its obvious u suffer from short attention span. Bloody dolt! @ Gamine, Please tell 'em . . . . |
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ALERT-EFCC (f)
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me i dey toast guys oohh, wetin dey, abi them get two head, if you like porson you no go tellam, abeg e.
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adurogba (m)
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YOUR VIEWS ARE VERY BRILLIANT,
1, I NEVER SEE AND OBLIGATION ON A GIRL TO TOAST A GUY, IT DEPENDS ON THE KIND OF GUY You ARE DEALING WITH,
2, FOR A RESPONSIBLE AND NORMAL GUY, THE GIRL SHOULD'NT HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD.
3, WHAT I THINK You SHOULD DO IS TO DO WHATEVER You COULD FOR THE GUY TO NOTICE YOU, BY GREETING, CARING, CALM AND ANY OF THE STUFF.
4,BEFORE YOU KNOW IT THE GUY WILL FALL DEEPLY FOR You.
MY BIGGEST ADVISE TO THE GIRL IS NEVER I MEAN NEVER ATTEMPT TO TOAST A GUY NO MATTER HOW, ALL WHAT You SHOULD DO IS TO START CREATING SOMETHING THAT WILL MAKE HIM TO NOTCE YOU, IF YOU TRY IT WITH SERIOUS GUY OUT THERE , UHHHM EPELE OOOOOOOO YOU NAME NA SORY.
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Resources (m)
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A lady can toast a gu not not directly, example of my girl, she know I am just going out with any girl I found but I don't just av root then, then she go through my friend by just tell him " I love this guy" then my friend told me and I acted, and since then she change my life completely I am all alone with her all others that i toast by myself had gone without even notify me
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Resources (m)
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A lady can toast a guy, not directly, example of my girl, she know I am just going out with any girl I found but I don't just av root then, then she go through my friend by just tell him " I love this guy" then my friend told me and I acted, and since then she change my life completely I am all alone with her all others that i toast by myself had gone without even notifying me
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kenniebaby (f)
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as for me o,i can't toast a guy,because there was a day i asked some guys how they will feel if a lady should toast them,the first replied that he wont respect the lady and he is going to take her as someone 'loose' and the second said he will jump at the opportunity.so what are we talking about here,the guys should do the toasting that is where the respect is.abi sisters what do u think?
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Gamine (f)
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Abeg Girls if you do find a big enough Toaster Dont hesitate to toast the guys Maybe then their brain will be nice, crisp n dry tuned to just one direction! |
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iice (f)
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Personally, I think it depends on the guy's mentality and perception. We all have our individual way of reasoning. If a lady goes ahead to toast a guy she admires, it simply means the lady in question knows what she wants and went for it. The world isnt static you know; its dynamic. Things dey change everyday. 2008 isn't 2007 |
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mekoyo (m)
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I'm not a girl so no post |
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royalicon (m)
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As a man, if a lady wooed me, I will think twice -It may be a suicide mission. Guys look, see crystal clear before u leap into such relationship. B E W A R E ! don't sign your death warrant! HIV/AIDS may be freely distributed via this medium, Condom? forget. A slight mistake is DEATH |
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kufreabasi (m)
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this is very rare that a girl easily toast a guy,but guys need to think twice and extremly careful
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ifedima (f)
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I think the man should initiate the first move.
What if, it never happens- what do you do?
will you just let go or make a move?
I need an answer.
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tngtech (m)
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Guy nor bi 4 african girl dey toast guy oh. na for yaki.
For Africa the guys should make the first move.
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HR.hotness (f)
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Girl Can You Toast A Guy, Hell yeah See i'm not a patient person and If a fine lookin brotha is takin too long to get to me, I'd save him the trouble! if the mountain wont come to Moh'd,,,, |
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oneperson
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Nna na waa ooo! What's wrong in that? I have found out that when we keep our emotions to ourselves, we burn down faster. I don't mind a girl toasting me and I will not disrespect any girl who toasts me. I remember one babe who toasted me when I was in the University in Rivers State. Honestly, I loved the boldness and courage of that girl. Actually, we finally did not date, but we were [and still are] very close friends. So, ladies there's nothing there! If you feel something for a guy. Instead of dying in silence or watching someone else take him, why don't you just suggest it to him. But do this with caution ooo - because I know that all guys are not like me. Even if you wan toast me for here sef, just holla me Me |
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Cadet (f)
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@post
Sure, I wnt only toast him, I'll also bake and fry him
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