Help! Please Do Not Pass Me By!

I am 32yrs old and married with 2 kids for almost 3yrs but life with my wife has been a living hell for me.
I was hooked into this marriage via pregnancy and i swore never to subject any girl into an abortion and i obliged to get married.
My unhappiness brought a lovely damsel my way and i am now happy as it ought to be.
This sizzling romance with a 22yr old has been ongoing for about a month or little more and i love her so much but i am so scared of hurting her feelings now eventhough i'll be so sure she'll be willing to plunge neck deep with me.And i also think she might be pregnant!
What do i do? My happiness,my love and my future are at stake and how would her pastor father react to this because i may not turn my back at her.
Your HONEST AND SINCERE ADVISE I DEMAND PLLLLLLEASE!!

Instead of you to find a way of puting your marriage in place, you are busy hooking yourself up with another uwahala. I think u never lean your leason, is bealy one month relationship and you are heading over hill with love. nawao;;

You are already into a polygamous home.Let me tell you, don't ever think that this your new found love will last, bcs  she knew that you are already married, and she decided to hook up with u, will tell u that she is a desperado.

so be ceraful.

I suggest u get your bobby examined.