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oYaTo (m)
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What exactly can one say is the motivation for a young girl who constantly pressurizes a guy for sex? It has graduated to a level of deliberate harassment in the office…she’s made it known to me that she doesn’t wear undies to work, and she’s proved it to me countless times: wearing low-waist jeans to work and bending at every opportunity in order to show me her half of her butt crack…at one time we were having a chat and without warning she slides her skirt up right where she was seating, opening her legs up for me to see her “you know what”. It took me a while to regain my composure and even I still stuttered and stammered through the rest of the discussion while she was laughing away.
Another time we happened to take a cab together and we were alone at the back seat. She again slid up her skirt and this time she grabbed my hand and attempted to guide it home for a “touch down”, it took every ounce of my willpower to resist her.
My youth service ends in a couple of days and she’s made it known to me she intends to f**k me before I leave the office…make no mistake about it this girl’s so beautiful that when I resumed a year ago I decided not to talk to her because I felt she’d be full of herself because of her beauty. I’ve gotten tired of hearing her say “guys in the office who drive cars want to f**k me without success, and I’m offering myself to you and you still wont say yes? I can’t believe I’m begging you”.
Apart from the fact that she’s got a boyfriend I have my reasons for not taking the bait. I just got a dream job (I’ll be sharing the testimony with you guys in a while…) and I’ve sworn off all manner of indiscriminate activities for the time being but this girl won’t just let me be.
What would you do?
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sista-jay (f)
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Abeg make you give de girl wetin she want, why you dey make am beg, you no be man.
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oYaTo (m)
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@sista-jay
told u i just got a dream job, and i know 100% that it wasn't by my power at all, na God's favour. Why then will i want to get my hands dirty?
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kola oloye (m)
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IS IT NOT WRITTEN THAT YOU SHOULD GIVE TO CEASER THAT WHICH BELONGS TO CEASER?
AS FOR YOUR HAND NOT TO BE DIRTY JUST MAKE SURE YOU REMEMBER TO USE KLIN.
BOY,STOP WASTING YOUR TALENT- USE YOUR HEAD.
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chychy (f)
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so far u'e succeeded in resisting her.
I support your decision 4 obvious reasons.
Avoid being alone with her as much as possibe.
Since God showed u Hs grace by landin u your dream job, continue asking 4 his grace 2 avoid this temptation.
Passin out is 2mrw, correct me if i'm wrong
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joshjosh (m)
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run brother run. it is not worth ruining your destiny for a quick sex. God is worth respecting. no one respects Him and loose. your destiny demands you run. too many people sold their destiny and life on the alter of cheap sex
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K2
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@OYato, I echo the responses of what some folks have said. Flee. Avoid being alone with this devil. Remember Satan has no feelings and he only comes to do these things regardless of the disguise: steal, kill and destroy.
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edatika (m)
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when u fall
if u fall
even if it takes you to mins,
it will bug u for the rest of your life
sinceu have a God-consiousness
if u strike your foot against a stone,
your mind will go back there
you have come this far
u can still make it to the end,
i wish u all the best of luck. and Divine sopport
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Encomium (m)
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Bros, i admire your courage of remembering God at a time of temptation like this. You have proven to be a real man that is grateful to God for HIS goodness upon your life. I will advice you to distance yourself from this evil girl who want to ruin your relationship with God. The Holy Bible said that you should resist the devil and he will flee from you.
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kamikaze (m)
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Bros abeg give me her number, let me help you get her off you, shebi na shine she dey find? mucho gracias
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kola oloye (m)
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@kamikaze,
I HOPE YOU ARE NOT GOING TO JUMBOLISE HER BUT PASTORALISE HER.
WHICHEVER THE CASE, DO IT WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT. TALENTS ARE NOT
MEANT TO BE WASTED. ABI, NO BE SO?
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kamikaze (m)
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@kola oloye
You know when you make a hunter the hunted he gets to question why he hunted so much before, so lets just say I'll give her a little bit of her own medicine, that is if @oyato is willing to let her go, these things are not always as clear as painted you know. oyato are you sure you never made a move and changed your mind? because i get a lot of offers too, some I accept, some I blow away but in all I know I gave them some reason to think they can have their way
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oYaTo (m)
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@kola oloye
You know when you make a hunter the hunted he gets to question why he hunted so much before, so lets just say I'll give her a little bit of her own medicine, that is if @oyato is willing to let her go, these things are not always as clear as painted you know. oyato are you sure you never made a move and changed your mind? because i get a lot of offers too, some I accept, some I blow away but in all I know I gave them some reason to think they can have their way
@kamikaze we'D always been attracted to each other since we saw daily at work, but i never wanted to take it too far because she's got a boyfriend and all, and i wouldn't like my girlfriend to cheat on me. It seems that my withdrawal fueled her persistence. |
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kamikaze (m)
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@oyato So i was right, she didnt just wake up and vow to have you, you flirted with each other. Been in your situation couple of times, its not as bad as it seems, she enjoys the fact that she's in control and "yanking your chains". She'D probably not be so forthcoming if she thought you would go ahead with it. Just relax and play along, just never take it beyond talk, never be alone or put yourself in a spot you're not comfortable in. Better yet send her this way, she'll be glad you did  |
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chrisoml (m)
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Wow me i've been in this same sitaution. tell u what, i just got 2 create a very long space between us that's how i was able to overcome such sexual harassment. at a time i have to stop her from coming to my house cus d pressure was becoming over bearable for me. @poster u've got to need more of God's grace at this time than anything else. I pray u don't succumb and take d bait   |
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joshie39
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Ol Boy, No need to dey waste your precious time, tell am amke she go do HIV test carry te result come show you, if she dey Neg. then look for other means to buy time since your days there are numbered anyway. |
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starlizzy (f)
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brother, let the lord use, for thou shall not fall into such temptation.
Resist the devil and e flew way from You.
plsssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss, do not fall no what matter what!
Dont your fellow landers ADVICING YOU TO SUCCUMB.
LOVE You,
THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH.
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worldman (m)
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is the poster not a man or his he pretending to nairalander's or his he a woman wrapper what is he trying to tell us man give her what she need do u want to tell me that u have not done it before or u are still a virgin mr. plz give me her number i won't disclose your identity to her thanks
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yimiton (f)
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Falling for this temptation is not worth it at all. Nothing goes for nothing, she definitely has ultirior motives to be coming so hard on you. I'll advice you look the other way, finish your service and remain faithful to God almighty who saved you the humiliation and stress of going from street to street, web site to website, job seeking.
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jofest (f)
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The bible says flee from all teptations. i hope she is not there to ruin your career. im sure you like your job and don't allow a 5minute thing to put you into an everlasting trouble. please be guided.
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