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okewole (m)
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Can A Hushand Forgive Wife Caught In Act?
To me not matter the circumstances, she is gone forever.
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Seun (m)
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If a woman can forgive a husband caught in the act, then a man should be able to do the same. If a man is arguing that his wife must forgive him when he strays, but that he can't forgive her when she strays, then he's a cheater. women take note!
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Rhodalyn (f)
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I wldnt!!!!!!!! i would never 4give her!!!!!, never!!!!!!
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mukina2 (f)
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its hard to but he must try if God forgives us.we must also forgive
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Zahymaka (m)
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I believe I'D forgive if something like that happens -- but I'D definitely express my displeasure in no small way.
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zeewhy (f)
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its possible,if i were in the husbands shoes i would 4give hercos 2 eer is human and 2 4give is devine but that is if she accepts that she is guilty.
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Reverend (m)
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You will never be able to trust your partner again and this will eventually deal the death blow to the relationship.
It is better to part, unless for the sake of small children you decide to stay together!
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Dupsybaby (f)
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 with all sincerity i doubt if any man can.
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Free (f)
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well you can always forgive  if a women can forgive a cheatin husband am sure the man can also do the same it works both ways, lol  |
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Africaman
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I will forgive her, afterall God has forgiven my SIN through Christ Jesus my Lord.
However, the marriage will be at an end.
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Damest09 (f)
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I will never cheat but if a man do that to me, i will forgive 'cause i will never consider the possibility of getting divorced.
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Zahymaka (m)
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That's the spirit lady. I don't care -- but I don't want divorce.
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comechop (m)
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It is soo easy to type in here that I will forgive, there is nothing to hard to forgive,
But think about the woman you love, and you see catch her [/i]in the act[i] with another man, I mean thats a different story man.
It would take ONLY the grace of God to forgive.
And yet no matter how you try, the hurt, distrust and pain will remain. For me, i don't know.
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kiwibabe (f)
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 you can forgive but you won't forget!
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toshmann (m)
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forgive? honestly i wish i could. i may try to, but i don't think i'll succeed in forgiving. that scenario will hunt me for life. i have a soft heart and it will get shattered by that scene. trust? never again. then the question is this: what is a marriage without trust? so ,for the sake of my health,i'll go my way. tell me, when u see her with this guy red handed, can u really assure yourself that she hasn't been doing it all the while?may be with different guys even.can u? marriage aint easy o. especially for guys. just pray that God gives u a wife that sticks to u. and guys ,we also have a duty to stick to our wives. as for forgiving her,i'll forgive,but i can't forget, and b/c i can't forget, the pain remains there and the marriage is wrecked forever. solution: NO CHEATING!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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babymine (f)
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He might forgive but he'll always suspect her. And love without trust isn't da best. |
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nikitareal (f)
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if he really loves her,he would 4give bt main't forget.
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spikedcylinder (f)
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As a woman,if i catch my man in the act,i can't forgive, even if i do,the marraige is over.
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babymine (f)
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When it's the man, everyone's like "don't mind him, you know men" but when it's the woman everyone's like "abomination, deal with her oh!"
God help us!
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osteen (m)
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i will definately forgive her after all she is human as some one rightfully said. But remaining in the relationship will be ludacris, so out i go but we will be friends
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creams (f)
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We're all human, so definately since she's your wife i don't see de reason y u cannot forgive
if truely u love her, sending her away will not help matters because she cannot forgive herself.
To heir is human to forgive is divine
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O4real (m)
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@okewole
meen, don't tell me it happened to you. This is a spouse's nigthmire.
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nikitareal (f)
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spiked cylinder,remember marriage is 4 betta for worse nt a door
dt is meant 4 goin in n out,besides divorce is a sin xcept if he is your
boyfriend n nt your husband.
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spikedcylinder (f)
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nikita4real,thank you for your sweet advice but if my husband cheats on me,am leaving because i can't trust him again and if i can't trust my man,the marraige is in turmoil!
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O4real (m)
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@ 2 all who can't 4give
I know a pastor whose wife was caught in the act . . . as i speak they are still together and by next month we are gearing to eat the first daughters rice because she is getting wedded. Can u guys remember (i.e. if you're Xtains) that when the prostitute was about to be stoned in the bible that Christ told the people that if anyone has not sinned in one 4m or the other that he should cast the first stone, and no one did because we r all sinners.
Sure, if it was my wife it will really hit me hard but i will 4give her. Then go 4 sex classes so i can blow her mind before someone elses does it 4 me just in the film "Meet D Fockers". Meenn, i'll b humping her anywhere wid a rejuvenated megaware like never before till she gives up on such erotic ideas. (Can u guys remember the lady who ditched her husby in the reality show in the film "Stepford wives" and what the hubby did) this is what happens to people who can't 4give.
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O4real (m)
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Whats trust when the marriage oath has bound u guys 2gether. There was something u saw before getting married now. So why not believe that this is a chance to increase that trust.
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spikedcylinder (f)
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You mean trust doesnt mean anything once you've signed the dotted lines?
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O4real (m)
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ma sister, the thing had transcended trust level . . . he / she should be your breathe and when your breathe is bad you use things that will make it smell nice. Or do u just choke yourself 2 death because your breathe has gone bad?
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delekan (m)
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@04real
It is easy to write here that i will forgive. I always believe that when i get to the bridge i shall cross it. Frankly speaking if i must give an answer on this now, my response would be that i can't forget the act and may lead to anything. Here trust still comes in; I think trust comes before taking marriage oath and when the foundation of the oath (trust) is scrumbled then what ever the oath transcended to is shaken already. take God grace to come out of it.
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O4real (m)
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@delekan
You r not talking like a believer. But i believe u because the level each individual can withstand pressures are different. But I still maintain my stance as per the believe that trust must have transcended to oath to which nothing should have shaken.
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