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creekboy
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Should the National Assemble or the cultural institutions in Nigeria outlaw polygamy? In light of the ensuing difficulties which present families viz separation of properties and patrimony, isn't time in our march towards civilization to outlaw this practice?
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Delta007 (m)
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Why? It's not like someone is asking u to marry 7 times, so what's your problem again?
Abeg, our selected thieves lawmakers have little time on their hands. Let them outlaw corruption first!
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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Is it possible?,  |
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creekboy
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You ask is it POSSIBLE???
I don't know and that is the essence of the issue being raised.
If we keep our minds to it, may be, it will be possible.
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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You ask is it POSSIBLE???
I don't know and that is the essence of the issue being raised.
If we keep our minds to it, may be, it will be possible.
My dear I ask, O!!!, I will start of by saying "I am not in support of polygamy" but It is part of several, cultures(their ways of life), and religion as well In some certain parts of Africa, it is one of the things the men are taught to believe, and achieve. Little boys grow up and "Want To Be Just Like Daddy", (and Grand pa, and Great Grand pa, ) I just think its, not some thing that we can all "join hands" to eradicate like, Pressing Issues such as world hunger, Global warming and The deadly disease AIDS. Unlike in advance countries where it is a crime, a serious one might I say. |
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michelin89 (f)
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What a load of craps! *yawn*
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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What a load of craps! *yawn*
GTFO  (Piss off and I mean that, seriously). (Get your damn tense ryte, "crap" should be in single tense, Not "Craps"). |
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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Quote from: naijaborn on January 09, 2008, 04:15 PM
i don't usually do this *** bt yu tempted me to chek on yur profile michelin89 an Esan girl in Italylittle wonder yu spit shit like that
Ok! This is getting too much, child of a mother fucking bastard. Now you'll explain what you mean. I am sick and tired of shi!ts like you talking to me like that because of my origins. Pieces of craps. You who have fucked dogs and cows dare come here to call me a prostitute even when you know nothing about me. May your god punish you son of a bitch.
And might I add this isn't the first time u "missed the target"
gedit.
Girl stay away from ma path, I DO NOT LIKE You.[i][/i]
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bawomolo (m)
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it shouldn't be outlawed. it's the individual's right to choose their marital preference. no one is forcing these women to become wife #5.
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morenike09 (f)
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it shouldn't be outlawed. it's the individual's right to choose their marital preference. no one is forcing these women to become wife #5.
right, it's also individual's right to choose where they'll be going after life. . . for God made one woman for one man |
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blacklion (m)
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Most nairaland women are against polygamy. So who are all the women marrying already married men and becoming their 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives? Takes two to tango. In olden days, women were forced into polygamy. Nowadays in naija, women go into polygamy VOLUNTARILY for the money or because they are tired of waiting for Mr. Right and ready to share.
What about women who sleep with their best friend's husband and get preggie for him and he then marries her as 2nd wife?
What of the maid-of-honor who later has a baby for the bride's husband? Can any woman here pretend that she has never heard or seen such?
What of the ladies who were childhood friends and pals through hight school to uni etc and still one had a baby for the other's husband?
It takes two to tango. Some woman want polygamy as much as the men do or they are so desperate they are ready to tolerate being a co-wife. Stop blaming men alone. Some women too much accept accountability.
Also, we must define polygamy. Its not only when a man performs marriage ceremony for 2nd or 3rd wife that he is a polygamist. Many guys have only one legal wife but they have 2 or 3 women outside who have kids for them. They buy/rent/build house for the lady, give her food/housekeeping allowance, pocket money, pay her kids school fees etc - in short, they do everything with her that they do with the legal wife. The only thing is that they did not do legal or traditional ceremony with those other women. Are such men not also polygamists? But they have only one legal wife.
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bawomolo (m)
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black people practice polygamy while white men have mistresses  |
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michelin89 (f)
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GTFO (Piss off and I mean that, seriously). (Get your damn tense ryte, "crap" should be in single tense, Not "Craps"). *yawn* What a bunch of craps! Sue me!  |
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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Girl, I'd sue u until u turn green, and u still would'nt be able to settle one hundreth of it in your life time. In a million life times.[i][/i] |
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michelin89 (f)
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Sorry, I have a lot of things to do. I can't play with you today, cutie pie.
See ya!
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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Same here "Hon".
Chaio!!!!!!!!!!!
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michelin89 (f)
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sorry but I can't resist this Darling it is Ciao not Chaio. Finally you have messed up in my territory. What a pity it doesn't happen as often as I mess up in yours. Please make more mistakes! |
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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WTF, where the hell, is your territory?,
Excuse moi, The last time i checked this wasn't your post so
Back the hell off.
Ciao, Chiao, it is all the same who cares,
Get a life *and continue to dwindle in your sea of grammatical errors.*
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michelin89 (f)
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You have serious issues. I am sick of playing with you.
*yawn* You are so fucking boring!
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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I wouldn't be caught dead playing with your sorry butt, tramp,
Now run along and continue spewing rubbish, LOSER
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morenike09 (f)
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@toyosi and michelin awwwww. . . i think you both really want to be friendseyah.  |
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Blatant
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women will suffer if it is outlawed.
It's women who like to become 2nd/3rd/4th/5th wives whenever they see a rich man
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