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macgozy (m)
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1. Write your lover an original, romantic poem (no matter how bad or sappy it is!) 2. Give your lover a romantic massage
3. Take an evening to learn all about your lover’s hobby or unique interest
4. Prepare a romantic meal for your lover (even if you’re a lousy cook)
5. Rent a romantic movie to watch with your lover (An Affair to Remember and Casablanca are great!)
6. Make a list for your lover of your ten favorite romantic memories of the time you’ve spent together
7. Tell your lover how much you enjoy waking up to them in the morning as soon as you wake up
8. Buy flowers for your lover’s mother to thank her for bringing such a special person into the world
9. Wash the dishes by hand with your lover, even if you have a dishwasher
10. Bring your lover romantic flowers at least once a week
11. Take your lover to a free museum or art exhibit
12. Make a romantic picture frame for your lover with your favorite photo of you together
13. Brag to your friends or family about how much you adore your lover
14. Make dinner for your lover’s family to get to know them better
15. Offer to give your lover a haircut (but only if you know what you’re doing!)
16. Buy the sappiest, cheapest greeting card you can find and add your own special romantic message
17. Make giving your lover a hug your first priority when you get home from work
18. Tell your lover that your relationship is your number one priority
19. Ask your lover to teach you how to make their favorite meal
20. Take your lover to a romantic park to push them on a swing
21. Save the ticket stubs from every date you go on with your lover
22. Take your lover on a romantic ferris wheel ride
23. Clean your lover’s car for them
24. Write your lover a “101 reasons why I love you” list
25. Kiss your lover on the cheek every day
26. Make a scrapbook full of pictures showing your lover as a kid growing up and give it to them as a present
27. Buy your lover an inexpensive box of candy to share together (not just for Valentine’s Day!)
28. Build a romantic sandcastle together with your lover at the beach
29. Take your lover back to the place where you went on your first date together
30. Give your lover a romantic thank-you note for all of the happiness they bring you
31. Learn how to sew and surprise your lover by fixing a ripped article of clothing for them
32. Email or scribble down a snippet from a romantic poem for your lover
33. Whisper secret romantic words in your lover’s ear, even when you are alone together
34. Put together a romantic photo album of pictures of you and your lover
35. Put a smiling picture of your lover on your car’s dashboard
36. Take your lover on a romantic afternoon hike or walk
37. Have flowers delivered to your lover at home or work
38. Read romantic love poems to your lover and laugh together at how sappy it is
39. Try to knit your lover a horrible, romantic winter hat, sweater or gloves
40. Mail your lover a card or letter expressing your love, even if you live together
41. Put a gentle arm around your lover’s shoulders when walking together
42. Make your lover a romantic calendar with a different picture of you together for each month
43. Watch a romantic movie together and make a bowl of popcorn for you to share
44. Take your lover on a romantic drive in a rich part of town to look at houses together
45. Buy an inexpensive bottle of wine for you and your lover to share
46. Say “I’m proud of you” to your lover
47. Paint a picture for your lover, no matter how awful your painting skills
48. Write a letter to the editor of your local paper thanking your lover for everything they do for you
49. Breath on your lover’s hands to warm them when it’s cold outside
50. Make your lover a romantic CD of songs that are special to you
51. Pack a special, romantic picnic for your lover
52. Take your lover out to try one of your favorite hobbies or sports–or try theirs!
53. Tell your lover how much your first kiss or date meant to you
54. Use romantic text messages to send your lover love letters on their cell phone
55. Start a romantic blog for your lover with pictures and posts about your relationship
56. Express your love on a mirror or window by writing with a bar of soap (don’t worry, it washes off!)
57. Romantically kiss each of your lover’s fingertips, one after another
58. Learn how to play a song for your lover on a musical instrument, then surprise them with a romantic impromptu performance
59. Surprise your lover with lunch at work
60. Surprise your lover with romantic rose petals on the pillows at bedtime
61. Cut out small hearts from construction paper and leave them in places where your lover will find them
62. Email your lover to let them know you are thinking of them during the day
63. Plant flowers in your lover’s yard or in a windowsill planter
64. Draw a romantic, funny cartoon for your lover expressing your love (the worse the drawing the better!)
65. Learn how to give your lover an amateur manicure
66. Sing a romantic karaoke song for your lover the next time you go to a bar together
67. Have a romantic dinner waiting for your lover after work
68. Light romantic candles for your lover at dinner, bedtime or when sitting around
69. Learn how say “I love you” in a different language to surprise your lover
70. Send a romantic e-card to your lover’s email inbox
71. Shovel the driveway for your lover after a snowstorm
72. Surprise your lover by changing the oil in their car or rotating their tires
73. Ask your lover’s family about any special ideas for making them happier
74. Offer to paint your lover’s nails (if a woman) or to help him shave (if a man)
75. Bake your lover a cake and write a special romantic message in frosting
76. Play romantic music while eating together or spending time together
77. Cook for your lover in a way you’ve never tried before, like grilling outside
78. Ask your lover to dance with you to a romantic song while your are alone together
79. Take your lover for a romantic bike ride
80. Use creative romantic words other than “I love you” to tell your lover how you feel
81. Rake the yard or mow the lawn for your lover
82. Instead of store-bought flowers, make a romantic bouquet of wildflowers for your lover
83. Make your lover homemade candy instead of buying
84. Take turns reading to each other from a favorite novel or book
85. Buy a book of romantic art and ask your lover to look at it with you
86. Make a scrapbook of all the romantic notes and cards you’ve received from your lover
87. Take your lover sledding on a snow day (it’s not just for kids!)
88. Make plans with your lover for exciting and fun weekend dates for the rest of the month
89. Try an exciting new recreational activity with your lover that neither of you have done before
90. Call in sick to work on your anniversary every year just to spend romantic time with your lover
91. Find out your lover’s favorite drink and become a master at making it
92. Make a list with your lover of all the wonderful things you have in common
93. Go to the fair with your lover and win them a stuffed animal (whether you’re a man or a woman!)
94. Call your lover during the work day to tell them you were thinking of them
95. Put time and thought into making homemade jewelry for your lover (but don’t forget to buy the real stuff occasionally!)
96. Ask your lover for a picture of them to carry in your wallet or purse
97. Try baking a romantic batch of cookies or cupcakes for you lover
98. Sneak out to get ice cream to share with your lover
99. Take your lover to garage sales or flea markets to shop together for things you both enjoy
100. Play a competitive game with your lover, whether physical or non-physical, and don’t be afraid to lose
101. Make your own list of 101 new ways to be romantic with your lover! pensive Ways to Say “I Love You”
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morenike09 (f)
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102. Buy her a Lexus
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sylvex (f)
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103. take her to the moon
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sylvex (f)
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103. take her to the moon
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chychy (f)
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101. Pray 4 him and thank God 4 bringing him your way. 102. Love him unconditionally even when it is totally impossible 103. Hold his hands and touch him a lot.
Should i go on?
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meekas (m)
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Chychy You make sense Plenty. You must be very Romantic.
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Nautillus (m)
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103. Hold his hands and touch him a lot.
Now this one . . . . .you've got to be careful with becos too much of it will only make you appear very clingy and thats a super "turn off" 4 alot of guyz
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The Sly
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too much 'lovin' makes me sick! 
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jiggyb (m)
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@ chychy Hi, can you please send me an email to jiggyb75@yahoo.com. I would love to know you more. Your phone number would be perfect. Thanks.
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chychy (f)
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Now this one . . . . .you've got to be careful with because too much of it will only make you appear very clingyand thats a super "turn off" 4 alot of guys
i agree with u but u have to know him 2 some certain degree before it applies. some guys like it while some do not, besides, too much of everything is bad innit?
@ jiggyb, u've got 2 prove urself
104. Be his best friend and confidant. 105. Judge not no matter how tempting it is. 106. Truly 4give and forget and never bring up d issue again. 107. Defend him outside even if he is wrong and correct him (without being pushy) indoors.
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chychy (f)
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Do i still go on?
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Nautillus (m)
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Do i still go on?
You could have started the thread you know,  104. Be his best friend and confidant. 105. Judge not no matter how tempting it is. 106. Truly 4give and forget and never bring up d issue again. 107. Defend him outside even if he is wrong and correct him (without being pushy) indoors.
Very rare qualities these day . . . . . IF you really practice the above . . . . .then you are 1 in a million.
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Resources (m)
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108 be thruthful and trustworthy to your lover
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chychy (f)
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108 be thruthful and trustworthy to your lover
Very important. without trust absolutely nothing will work.
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chychy (f)
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Very rare qualities these day . . . . . IF you really practice the above . . . . .then you are 1 in a million. @ Nautillus, i don't have a lover yet but i'm getting ready
109. Patience is very necessary, this will definitely get tested. 110. "I'm Sorry", "Please"and "Thank u" should be part of your vocabulary.
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kolinz (m)
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No time, Me, I no fit shout
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chychy (f)
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111. Throw him a surprise birthday party (my married friend did that 4 his wife and she was so awed, works all d time) 112. Do not wait 4 valentine, anniversaries or celebratory days 2 remind him of how much he means 2 u 113. A kiss b4 leaving 4 work never hurt anybody. 114. Pray together
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chychy (f)
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@ Kolinz, no time 4 wat? patience? love?
115. If he annoys or hurts u, bottling it up will not help, let it out, cry, scream, calmly talk 2 him, watever works 4 u but pls let it out cos resentment and anger eat away @ love as quickly as rust corrodes metal.
116. Give him his space, much as he loves u, it's only human 4 him 2 want 2 hang out with his friends or be alone. Please allow him 117. Try new sex moves (4 d married), wear sexy lingeries esp his favourite colour 118. Let him know and feel that he's d man. Sometimes, even if u can hang d picture frame urself, ask him (read it somewhere) and thank him. 119. Give, give, give, whatever it is, whatever u have, share with him and share his too. 120. Comfort him when he is sad n do NOT laugh when he cries, he is very vulnerable @ that point, support him, cry with him or just give him your shoulder 2 cry on.
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Joey82 (m)
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@chychy was wondering, u stated very rare qualities out there, some thing told me this person might still b leaving in a world of illusions, right now i can understand since u said u don't have a guy yet.
@all we can go on and on to list them many ways, however, the last inexpensive way to say i love u should b - never expect too much but give in your best
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kolinz (m)
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Chychy, u av my cousines name No time 4 long things 
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kolinz (m)
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Girls are cheats, When you see em, Throw forks @ em
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chychy (f)
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Joey, i beg 2 differ. That i dont have a guy now doesn't mean i've never had.
Trust me when i say these things ain't illusions but based on real happenings. @ kolinz, na wah 4 u oh. R u another oracle99 in d house?
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Joey82 (m)
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that then means u're 1 in a million like somebody said out there, that's if u really breed true 2 type
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sylvex (f)
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121. Help him with his tie while he's dressing-up for work 122. Whisper little sweet words into his ears (bet guys like that a lot but aint they gonna let u know). 123. Dont say 'I Love U' all the time, it burns the ears (like an Anthem)! Try sometime new and unique.
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sylvex (f)
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121. Help him with his tie while he's dressing-up for work 122. Whisper little sweet words into his ears (bet men like that a lot but they ain't gonna let u know). 123. Dont say 'I Love U' all the time, it burns the ears (like an Anthem)! Try sometime new and unique.
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kolinz (m)
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Who was oracle99
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chychy (f)
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Oracle99 is some guy on n/land that has beef 4 chicks.
@ joey, i'll take that as a compliment.
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kolinz (m)
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No beefs with chicks. I lov em cuz i av sisters
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Bblak (f)
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Hmmmmmmmmmm @poster Nice one there. 
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jiggyb (m)
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@chychy
So sorry my schedule has been tight. I like to read posts more than post mine. Can we pleasssssse talk privately? Maybe chat or call? I have 24hrs internet, so let me know what is peferable. Have a good week ahead.
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chychy (f)
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124. The power of a massage can never be underestimated.
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