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Remedy (m)
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Just want to know your opinion.
I have had sex up to six times with a partner and frankly speaking I did not get the kind of experience I was expecting and I feel I am not deriving and getting the pleasure I think I should be having.
Is it my partners or its just me?
Are we doing it right?
Should I try another partner for a different experience.
If it is not me or her is sex that boring?
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tassmal (m)
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o boy make i yan u the truth, sex ba is better wwhen u are married.. it not sweet because u arint.. wait o boy.. u will have fun then!! lol..  |
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hot-angel (f)
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uhmm Remedy...most people say sex is like being in "heaven", wonder why u feel like u in "hell". I am guessing you're doing it the wrong way...or maybe u don't try new things.....and you're not romantic enough. Do u Fock, Have sex, or make love? I'd advice u make love instead of focking, or having sex. And uhmm...as for the girl, is she alright?? Common, sex should be sweeter than the results u have. Do something. Where r the elders here?? Please help him ooo. |
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Seun (m)
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Hot-angel let the elders talk! Please! Remedy, some will say that if you, the male, aren't enjoying it then the problem is definitely with you!  Perhaps you're dissapointed because your sexual experience so far isn't worth the rushing-into? Well, the truth is that sex is not all that we make it to be; there's more to it than shoving in and out, as CalabarMan would readily expantiate. There's more time to do all the exploration and experimentation when you're married, but it seems nobody is interested in waiting anymore. |
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tcherokee (m)
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i'ld have loved to comment in detail, but i think my replies are going to be a little 2 x rated. so basically what i'll say is that it is possible you don't love the girl or both of you are not sexually compatible.
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Seun (m)
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Well, you can send your tips to him via the PM system.  |
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nddy (m)
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what is the problem.? doesnt the girl have the twin b words (boobs and booty)? I guess you have to just leave her and look for another person.
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Latoya (f)
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Hey Remedy,
Sex isn't boring at all and its not meant to be boring.I think what the problem is possibly that you're not attracted to her sexually or you're not having enough foreplay before sex.
Foreplay helps puts(stimulates) in the mood for sex,go as far as anything u can think of,don't hold back anything u feel like doing to her just do it your way,it doesnt matter.
r u that type that finds a gals pu***ie disgusting?if you're then i think u have the problem.u have to talk to her and let her know what u think of sex with her.
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hot-angel (f)
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Are there guys that finds girls pu*sy disgusting?
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nddy (m)
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 Latoya, I think that was lame asking if he finds pussy disgusting. I mean if he did would have turned GAY.
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nddy (m)
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Latoya, I think that was lame asking if he was disgusted by pussy. I mean if he was he would have turned GAY. but i also find this guy lame , because how could one have sex 6 times with a girl who is not your wife and tell me he wasnt feeling it. Dude you got to be kidding. I just don't buy it
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hot-angel (f)
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Come to think of it, six times with the same girl...who doesn't satisfy you? try someone else...so u'd know whether it is you, or the first girl who has the problem.
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nddy (m)
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thanks because i thought i was the only one thinking in that direction
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Latoya (f)
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Hey nddy,
i aint lame ok?i know what i am talking about.
Some guys finds gals pu***ie irritating and disgusting that they can't even give her a head
and for him to say he had sex with her several times i think they've got a problem going on
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tcherokee (m)
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Sex isn't boring at all and its not meant to be boring.I think what the problem is possibly that you're not attracted to her sexually or you're not having enough foreplay before sex. To my knowledge, guy don't need foreplay to enjoy sex. It's more of a girl thing 'because u girls don't get turned on as easily as we guys can and besides it usually takes longer for you girls to cl***x So for play is a means of making sure you do. But that's besides the point. Firstly it is possible he doesn't like or respect the girl and he is just getiing it free so to say. I found out (in my case) that if i sleep with a girl i don't like or respect, i won't really enjoy the experience. I'll have this guilty feeling like i did something that i'm not supposed to do. Secondly it is possible the girl is not......uhm how do i say this...... his size? Has any of you read karma sutra....? Anyway Girls And guy's have different sizes and if i guy that is small is having sex with a girl that is big, he won't really enjoy it. Thirdly, it is possible the guy or the girl is frigid. especially the girl, not sure if i've heard of a frigid guy. Fourthly, Maybe the guy needs to go and learn some skills...... |
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Chxta (m)
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Isn't it ovbious to you people that this guy is frigid?
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nddy (m)
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I guess
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gina34 (f)
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Jesus, mary and josehp  |
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Seun (m)
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I was going to say something like that |
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twinkledew (f)
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lol no comment. is she your girlfriend? if yes why would u advice him to get someone else just because they have sex problems. me advice is to try and work things out.go and learn new things. u might be the one with the problems . see porn movies to help the both of u. u can both watch it together. |
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nddy (m)
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I guess the porn movies might help out
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tassmal (m)
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this may sound old fashion guys but here goes.. sex enh was designed for two married people who love them selves. see the truth is what many people say he enjoy... humm they don't. how many people hide the guilt and feeling of shame.. ok with time u lose all that when u harden your consience but people.. make una tell this guy that the reason sex has so many styles and needs so much pron to get stimulated and all forms or pervertion like fetish and stuff is because it doesnt really satisfy outside a godly marriage. again i remind u i am at the risk of sounding old fashion.. but if there are any virgin out there reading this stay tha way and follow the original plan... it is much better believe me!
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Justmoi (f)
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Very true @ Tassmal
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nddy (m)
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: lame advice |
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hot-angel (f)
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nddy...everything is "lame" to you. |
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nddy (m)
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no don't get a wrong impression of me. Its just that i hate people saying trash.
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hot-angel (f)
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no don't get a wrong impression of me. Its just that i hate people saying trash.
Someone's opinion is not "trash". |
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nddy (m)
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if ones opinion is lame then what do you want me to do, say it is good. Come on Girl give me a break.
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hot-angel (f)
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I'll give u a break quite alright. Just don't say people opinion are "trash". Oh and yeah, try to have "more views" on stuffs..not everything is lame.
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nddy (m)
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I'll give u a break quite alright. Just don't say people opinion are "trash". Oh and yeah, try to have "more views" on stuffs..not everything is lame.
Okay |
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twinkledew (f)
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if i may ask tasm... are u a virgin and if yes how old are u? and why have u remained that way? its a good thing don't get me wrong aight.
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