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bikokwe (m)
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sincerely today i worked the hell out of myself i was so tired and i thanked God for creating ladies that do chores at home.I paused for a while and asked myself if i would still do such domestic work when i am married.after all i know of a man that do same almost everyday i mean sweeping,washing scrubing e.t.c.so whats your opinion N.landers
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LadyT (f)
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Women work as well.
Its unfair for a woman to slave away all day at work and then slave away when she gets home. A man should help out where he can. Whether its looking after the children while she cooks. Ironing or whatever. Its a partnership not slave and mastership.
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bikokwe (m)
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But instead of stressin oneself after a hectic day,wudnt a maid be necessary?
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bikokwe (m)
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MAYBE A" MAID IN MANHANTA"
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LadyT (f)
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 Just make sure she ugly and crossed eyed we all know what happens when the husband is left alone with the maid 
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michelin89 (f)
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Get someone to clean. I heard there are a lot of latinos in America you can exploit for 2 grandnuts!
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naija_diva (f)
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Get someone to clean. I heard there are a lot of latinos in America you can exploit for 2 grandnuts!
aww, that was not nice. |
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michelin89 (f)
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Sorry.
There are people who are willing to do your chores for a decent pay.
Is that better?
*you guys are killing my villain spirit*
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darkey (m)
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personally, i don't like house chores. argh!!! and to get a maid too from stories is not the best option. the best thing i think that can be done is to get a help and comes everyday, does the chores and leaves till the next day or it can be for only a few days of the days. that might work
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Seun (m)
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Here's another way to put it: leave it to the professionals. It's not exploitation, it's business.  |
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darkey (m)
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nice one, seun
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iice (f)
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@Topicyes so he can enjoy the stress with us
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darlingD (m)
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It is good to help out sometimes.
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bikokwe (m)
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i pray i will be willin to  .haba when will i take a break? |
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sista-jay (f)
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If he can't afford a home help, I see nothing wrong in a man helping out with the house work.
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bawomolo (m)
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home help are affordable, they are called kids.
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almondjoy (f)
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Of course. It is more fun that way.  |
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dragnet (m)
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It shuld be 'supplementary' not 'neccessary' & he shuldnt wait to be asked before doing it especially when its obvious she needs it. . . . . . . .
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The Sly
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It shuld be 'supplementary' not 'neccessary' & he shuldnt wait to be asked before doing it especially when its obvious she needs it. . . . . . . .
hmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn . . . . . . . right  |
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Islander (f)
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@topic,
why not? Is he feeble?
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Guchis (f)
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It shuld be 'supplementary' not 'neccessary' & he shuldnt wait to be asked before doing it especially when its obvious she needs it. . . . . . . .
Word. |
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RichyBlacK (m)
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Yes, but on his terms. No "it's your turn to do the dishes darling" kind of talk! |
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sokan
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Hi,
It is good for a man to be involved as it shows that you care for your spouse. If you believe in culture which did not support it then you will receive the result when your spouse starts complaining of stress.
sokan
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amsky (f)
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Yes a man should be involved in chores now. In Nigeria most guys frown when you call them to help you do a bit around the house. But here,it's done more willingly. My hubby bathes my older child,and feeds them both most of the time. He picks up after himself too.  I'm so sure if Nigeria,that would not have been the case. It also brings a couple close too-i think. When you are in the kitchen together,or bathing and dressing the kids together and all of that. Sometimes too,he JUST has to do it otherwise, hunger go tear im belle |
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top_kin (m)
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@ poster
YES he should. Do you want to kill the woman?
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RichyBlacK (m)
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Yes a man should be involved in chores now. In Nigeria most guys frown when you call them to help you do a bit around the house. But here,it's done more willingly. My hubby bathes my older child,and feeds them both most of the time. He picks up after himself too. I'm so sure if Nigeria,that would not have been the case. It also brings a couple close too-i think. When you are in the kitchen together,or bathing and dressing the kids together and all of that. Sometimes too,he JUST has to do it otherwise, hunger go tear im belle Hmmmmmm, God dey sha. |
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bikokwe (m)
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sometimes relations starts insinuating diabolic manifestation.they consider it as uncyclic
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OMO IBO (m)
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there is no big boy or big man when it comes to house chores these days. my little sister lives with me and i don't even ask her to do anything. na me dey put my hand inside toilet, na me dey scrub floor and wash plates sometimes.
its no big deal. my guy if u don start am make u continue.
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Gamine (f)
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aah He better be involved!
Na only me wey dey involve to carry belle!!!
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kola oloye (m)
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to get your wife`s attention,the earlier you help her the better for you.
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beautiquin (f)
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why nt, when God say we should be helping ourselves. Men have more power nd muscles to do house chores. Infact we women should only cook and leave the rest to you guys except taking care of the baby.
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