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Remedy (m)
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Can You Date Your Younger Sister's Best Friend?
Just want to know:
I have a younger sister who is less than 18 years of age. She happens to move with friends much more her senior in age. I actually took interest in one of them her best friend. For two years I thought of how to approach her without sending a message to my sister. Really it was a difficult situation because I was always protecting my younger sister who was not yet 18. And made it clear I didn't like her moving with boys.
Well I took the pain and asked this girl out. After many 'talks' she put me down. I was convinced it was because of my sister she turned me down. But couldn't hurt my pride by talking the matter with her.
Later I began to think may be I acted incorrectly - may be I shouldn't have asked her best friend out: it could have severed or affected their relationship.
Did I act right? Is there a possibility she turned me down because of my younger sister?
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hot-angel (f)
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Yes there's a possiblity she turned u down because of your sister. She wouldn't want you to cause some kind of misunderstanding btwn her and your sister. maybe if u had told your sister to help you tell her, you like her...then...she would know your sister wants her for you and also that you must have loved her so much to send your sister to her. Do u get me? You can still work things out btwn u and her...by sending your sister to her, to help u tell her, that you love her..and that she (your sister) wouldn't be angry at her (the girl u like) if she was with you. Do i make sense?  |
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tcherokee (m)
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Me no really think so, In my experience my sisters girlfriends always seem to "fall" for me, ironically it is always sister that was spoiling the "runs" then, So i learnt to keep it from her :d
Anyway Hot angel is right in a way, if your sister doesn't mind you dating her friend then she is the easiest way to get to her.
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nddy (m)
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Brother, I feel you, but you've got to understand that if you had asked your sister to help you out, it would mean you giving her the consent to date. As they say, there are many fish in an ocean. If one person says no, forget her and carry on. There is always that special person for you.
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spencer (m)
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Remedy; d girl's relationship with your sister has nothing to do with her refusal. D game is very clear that she don't like u at all.  For God's sake, u guys should stop this indoor relationship. Is there no better girls in your school? maybe one day u will fall in love wlth your sister. |
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pkrix (m)
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You shouldnt have gone for your sister's friend without a very stylistic and sensitive procedures.
I cannot go for my sister's friend but if I do, then the attraction is dire and she, the girl in question seems to possess all the qualities I desire in a lady which I did not see some place else.
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Greatpeter (m)
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Remedy do not remedify the discipline you instilled in your younger sisters.
Sending your siter to her friend for dating will give her licence to date outside and you won't be able to talk then.
If you know you can't eat your cake and have it desist from that and earn your respect but if you don't care go ahead.
You suppose to take your sister's friend as your sister and not to date her.
If she declines completely you will lose your respect.
Just go and tell her you were testing her and you don't wish to date her and tell her to be a good girl.
That's my advise sir.
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layi (m)
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Just 'because u told your sis not to date doesnt mean she's not dating.  As they say, there are many fish in an ocean. If one person says no, forget her and carry on. There is always that special person for you.
There r many fishes in d ocean. True, but they wont just jump into your bait. You got to fish 'in style' bro. Let go of every girl because she said No? You might be left with no none. Since u've set d boundary (which is unnecessary) for your sister.. Try keep your date away from your sister (whether she's her friend or not). Except you're ready to remedy the situation by talking to your sister. Give her reasons not to date @ here age (if u think its wrong). Uninformed decision is useless because it's shaky. Then after a while Go for your girl (but no when to bac-off). Personally i don't have to date my sis friend. fall ke? I wont even allow it. Na only she fine? |
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eveseh (f)
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maybe she sont like you?
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dakmanzero (m)
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Remedy
You seem quite proud of the descipline you think you have instilled in your sister.
Do you really want her gossiping with her friends about their relationship with you.
Girls can be quite creative when discussing their boyfriends and bedroom antics, even if none ever took place.
You are putting your sister's respect for you at risk.
If the relationship doesn't work out, you could damage their friendship.
Stay away from your sisters' friends, even if they come after you. At least until you are comfortable with the idea of her giggling over your d!ck size with her pallies.
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voltrens (m)
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brace up , its one of those things repackage yourself and move on over time , she might still fall back to back you, this is life.
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2dye4 (m)
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she was not just into you ,because if she was she'd damn the consequences and stick it out with u.
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There is a possibility you do not meet up to the standard of what she wants in a guy  \ By the way are you sure she is mature enough so it will not be a case of child abuse  |
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tkb417 (m)
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Look for another one
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choco4life (m)
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cud put some pressure on her.
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