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ayoappeal (m)
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Why do Nigerians really find it difficult to talk about some budding issues hence they are really eating deep into our society.
There are several issues that deserves priority attentions but have been relegated to the background while we concentrate on issues of less importance, we are trying to tackle HIV/AIDS, we talk about unfaithfulness in marriage, unprotected sex, unfaithfulness to partners and all that but refuse to talk about homosexuality and homosexual sex.
There are a couple of gay/lesbians hangouts/clubs around and yet we don't still deem it fit to understand that this thing is fast eating deep into our society, i hope we wuld not wake up one day to realise that our brothers/sisters/aunties/cousins have been lured into it (GOD FORBID)
A few days ago, Funmi Iyanda was forced to reduce her TV program(NEW DAWN) to once a week and all other broadcast of her consequence editions censored because she interview a guy who is a gay, and was despised, ejected and rejected from work and abandoned by family, even beaten.
it's crazy that despite the fact that people are openly admitting to the fact that they are gays/lesbians we still Why don't we just admit that the stuff is real in our society so that we can look for a way forward, so that we can educate our young ones so that they don't get lured and influed into it.
Why don't we face reality instead of caressing and embracing mediocrity.
What do you think and what do you think is the way forward.
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sista-jay (f)
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@ ayoappeal
Why don't you move with the TIME, gays and lesbians are no longer in the closet. They are not forcing their sexuality on anybody. The way forward is to tell those gays and lesbians haters to learn to respect their fellow human beings, and learn to look beyond their sexuality. I'm a heterosexual by choice I don't see no gay or lesbian hating me for it.
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ayoappeal (m)
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@sista-jay
Well you have to understand that it's not about me it's about people out there, i said something about Funmi Iyanda kindly read through my message again.
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Gamine (f)
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Everything is real in Nigeria.
The so-called gay people shld keep it to themselves
They want pity thats why they ''come out of some dirrty closet''
We don't care to know
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naijacutee (f)
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I guess homosexuals exist in every society just like thieves, preachers, gamblers, teachers, alcoholics, counsellors etc. . . It's nothing strange. The only thing I find strange is the way the world advocates sin and how these people constantly try to find an excuse for wrong doings. Homosexuality is wrong, and is not a natural expression of the body's natural functions. It's a compromise. Even common sense should show us that the very design of the male and female bodies promotes the physiological purpose of the anatomical structures. These people do commit wrong acts, just like the very best of usWhy do they try to justify it with pathetic reasons? It's like someone who steals from a man because he's rich. It doesn't hurt anyone, but it's still wrong. Admit you're wrong, ask God forgiveness and help to break the habit and you're even better off than the "holiest" of people who can't do the same.
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ayoappeal (m)
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@naijacutee
I think u have made much sense, it's time to move away from pity, whats is bad is bad, it's against natural phenomenum, it's again moral standard, and against religious tenets.
Hope to read more from intellectuals like you.
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Raymond88
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No one chooses to be a homosexual just as no one chooses to be hated by millions of people! Homosexuals are JUST not attracted to the opposite sex, don't judge them on that, it's not a race thing homosexuals have been there since the beginning of time in every race. Now in a country like Nigeria without human rights why would anyone be dumb enough to 'come out' like this guy? http://youtube.com/watch?v=S5Ajjmc0bUE |
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naijacutee (f)
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Just as no one chooses to be a 419 scammer?
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