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oremi2
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i decided to sign up a new id and use this medium to tell u that i still love u and that I'm sorry for messing up the way i did. i never meant to hurt u. I'm sorry i was overtaking by my fears. it was a moment of weakness. I'm sorry for doing the things that make u unhappy. please remember all the things we talked about concerning making our relationship work. i don't want u to think I'm being desperate, u should know me better than that. i just want u to know that i love u and i strongly believe in this love that we share. i know u love me even much more than i love u. u have always told me that. but i was surprised when u told me on phone that u didnt love me anymore  up till now i don't know if u really meant that or not. no matter what i have done, will ur love for me just dissappear so quickly? i don't want to believe that. concerning the difficulties u explained to me, i perfectly understand. its just that when I'm the only one getting in touch, it makes me feel like I'm the man in this relationship. i am a woman and i cannot take ur place. when I'm forced to do that, i only end up messing up just like ive done. u should be the one seeking after me and not me after u. thats what Gods word says. I'm only to compliment u and not take over from u. i hurt u when i told u to get another girl. i shdnt have said that, i know i hurt u. but really all ive been trying to say is that i need u so much, I'm not coping well with ur silence and distance from me. we should be working as 1 please. i have learnt some bitter lessons these past 1 wk. please give me a chance to do things better. i risked my life on the road just to come and apologise and possibly talk things over. i cld have died on the road or something, but i was willing to do it just to see ur face. many people reading this will laugh at me and call me names but I'm ready to take all that because i truelly and deeply love u. please don't turn ur bak on me now. if I'm going wrong, please correct me in love. remember i told u i needed someone who i can learn from. please add value to my life and give me the courage and strength to do the same to u. i have been going through some psychological problems which all came up at the same time. i was scared that i was pregnant after what happened the other time u were around. after u left i didnt see my period until 2 days after the normal time. i remember telling u that. this month the same thing happened. it was to come on sunday but as at tuesday that i sent all those annoying sms it still had not come! i was feeling heavy all over my body. i was really scared, i didnt know what to think. ive not gotten pregnant before so i didnt know how it is. i had no one to talk to and whenever i called u, u were not responding as usual so i was scared to tell u. i was afraid because ive heard that some women still menstrate even with pregnancy. secondly, i was facing some problems all of a sudden at work. i was suspended and the next day i was called to resume but to forfeit 1 wk salary. it wasnt easy on me at all. i needed u so much but u werent there at the time. I'm sorry i blew my top and transfered the aggression on u when i became to weak. i'm normally not like that. i try to handle situations very well but the pregnancy thing shook me off balance. i think the problem is that ive been bottling up so much because i don't want to be seen as complaining. i didnt want to bother u with my emotional needs. i wanted to think of u and not me. but my love, i cldnt handle it anymore. i ended up doing the worst. please forgive me. i really don't know what to say anymore. i just hope God will touch ur heart and make u see how i really mean all these words that i have typed here. i have asked him to give me the grace to be a good girlfriend to u. i have asked him to give me the grace to be that same person who always make u happy. i have been reading the books u gave me to read. i am still learning. please tell me that it is well with us my darling. i love u and i will always do. |
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creamdream
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To eer is Human but to forgive is devine!!
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olanajim (m)
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The wailing of an injured woman?
Oh gosh! Why don't you settle it indoor? Why here? Am sure he is reading this. It would hurt his pride the more.
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Joey82 (m)
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@poster,
i can see u're so so sorry, but now that u've changed ur id, i only hope ur guy understands this post is for him, thats if at all he's a lander.
i think u shuda sent this via email or text message, so he'll b sure the message is 4 him.
in any case, i wish u luck.
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oremi2
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yes he is a nairalander. i wanted a situation where he alone knows what I'm actually talking about thats why i used a new id. i have been calling him on phone but i think I'm disturbing him too much. I'm sending him the link to this post via sms so he can read it. i pray it doesnt worsen the situation. i just pray.
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creamdream
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It takes a strong person to say sorry, and an ever stronger person to forgive
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creamdream
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You forgive me for liking you too much,
And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough.
You forgive me for missing you so,
And I'll forgive you for being so cold.
You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,
And I'll forgive you for not hearing it.
You forgive me for playing your games,
And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions.
You forgive me for finding you so attractive,
And I'll forgive you for not noticing.
You forgive me for raising you up so high,
And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low.
You forgive me for wanting to be with you,
And I'll forgive you for avoiding me.
You forgive me for being so pathetic,
And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it.
You forgive me for not being able to let go,
And I'll forgive you for never having latched on.
You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,
And I'll forgive you for crushing them.
Forgiveness brings inner peace.
Do we have a deal?
DEDICATED TO (@POSTER) FROM ME, TO THE gUY!!
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aisha2 (f)
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Pele, my sister, I have only one advice for you: Quite the whinning, toughen up girl, Life is not for the fainthearted, only the strong survive. Stop all the whinnng, simple, I hurt you am sorry, it wont happen again.
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creamdream
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You forgive me for liking you too much,
And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough.
You forgive me for missing you so,
And I'll forgive you for being so cold.
You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,
And I'll forgive you for not hearing it.
You forgive me for playing your games,
And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions.
You forgive me for finding you so attractive,
And I'll forgive you for not noticing.
You forgive me for raising you up so high,
And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low.
You forgive me for wanting to be with you,
And I'll forgive you for avoiding me.
You forgive me for being so pathetic,
And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it.
You forgive me for not being able to let go,
And I'll forgive you for never having latched on.
You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,
And I'll forgive you for crushing them.
Forgiveness brings inner peace.
Do we have a deal?
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creamdream
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The weak can't never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong, LETS HOPE THE GUY IS STRONG enough TO 4GIVE THEE, SO MY FATHER IN HEAVEN WILL FORGIVE HIM!!
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creamdream
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I don't forgive people cause I'm weak
I forgive them cause I'm strong enough
to understand people make mistakes, YEAH MY MAN, DO JUST THAT 4GIVE
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creamdream
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What's done is done
Make room for the new
Forgive and forget
What has been done to you.
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creamdream
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Forgiveness is a sign that the person who has wronged you means more to you than the wrong they have delt.
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creamdream
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Apology
How do I tell you I'm sorry -
With a gesture, a look, a touch?
How is it I never realized
I hurt you so very much?
I do not ask forgiveness,
A comfort I'll never deserve.
I merely want to let you know,
But I cannot find the nerve.
To finally confront you, face-to-face,
To look you in the eye,
To face your wrath, your apathy -
Too terrified to try.
You called me selfish, I turned away,
I festered and I fled;
Cutting and wounding and lashing out,
Just to see if you bled.
Betraying and deceiving you,
I surely had no right
To snatch away such a precious gem;
A dark thief in the night.
3 months and forever passed
To bring us to this day,
When I present these simple words
I never thought to say.
The time has come, it's long past due,
To put aside my fear;
Would this confession torture you,
Or have you longed to hear?
To hear those forbidden words,
To vanquish all the pain,
To understand my dearest wish:
To know you once again.
The months aged me remarkably,
Though they have not made me wise;
I do know I erred irrevocably -
For that I apologize.
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creamdream
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refusing to forgive someone is like drinking poison, and waiting for the other person to die.
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Dr Ferlie (m)
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i decided to sign up a new id and use this medium to tell u that i still love u and that I'm sorry for messing up the way i did. i never meant to hurt u. I'm sorry i was overtaking by my fears. it was a moment of weakness. I'm sorry for doing the things that make u unhappy. please remember all the things we talked about concerning making our relationship work. i don't want u to think I'm being desperate, u should know me better than that. i just want u to know that i love u and i strongly believe in this love that we share. i know u love me even much more than i love u. u have always told me that. but i was surprised when u told me on phone that u didnt love me anymore up till now i don't know if u really meant that or not. no matter what i have done, will your love for me just dissappear so quickly? i don't want to believe that. concerning the difficulties u explained to me, i perfectly understand. its just that when I'm the only one getting in touch, it makes me feel like I'm the man in this relationship. i am a woman and i cannot take your place. when I'm forced to do that, i only end up messing up just like ive done. u should be the one seeking after me and not me after u. thats what Gods word says. I'm only to compliment u and not take over from u. i hurt u when i told u to get another girl. i shdnt have said that, i know i hurt u. but really all ive been trying to say is that i need u so much, I'm not coping well with your silence and distance from me. we should be working as 1 please. i have learnt some bitter lessons these past 1 wk. please give me a chance to do things better. i risked my life on the road just to come and apologise and possibly talk things over. i cld have died on the road or something, but i was willing to do it just to see your face. many people reading this will laugh at me and call me names but I'm ready to take all that because i truelly and deeply love u. please don't turn your bak on me now. if I'm going wrong, please correct me in love. remember i told u i needed someone who i can learn from. please add value to my life and give me the courage and strength to do the same to u. i have been going through some psychological problems which all came up at the same time. i was scared that i was pregnant after what happened the other time u were around. after u left i didnt see my period until 2 days after the normal time. i remember telling u that. this month the same thing happened. it was to come on sunday but as at tuesday that i sent all those annoying sms it still had not come! i was feeling heavy all over my body. i was really scared, i didnt know what to think. ive not gotten pregnant before so i didnt know how it is. i had no one to talk to and whenever i called u, u were not responding as usual so i was scared to tell u. i was afraid because ive heard that some women still menstrate even with pregnancy. secondly, i was facing some problems all of a sudden at work. i was suspended and the next day i was called to resume but to forfeit 1 wk salary. it wasnt easy on me at all. i needed u so much but u werent there at the time. I'm sorry i blew my top and transfered the aggression on u when i became to weak. i'm normally not like that. i try to handle situations very well but the pregnancy thing shook me off balance. i think the problem is that ive been bottling up so much because i don't want to be seen as complaining. i didnt want to bother u with my emotional needs. i wanted to think of u and not me. but my love, i cldnt handle it anymore. i ended up doing the worst. please forgive me. i really don't know what to say anymore. i just hope God will touch your heart and make u see how i really mean all these words that i have typed here. i have asked him to give me the grace to be a good girlfriend to u. i have asked him to give me the grace to be that same person who always make u happy. i have been reading the books u gave me to read. i am still learning. please tell me that it is well with us my darling. i love u and i will always do. well. you are forgiven. go and sin no more  |
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creamdream
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OREMI2 POST REPHRASED
When i said What i said ♥
Have you ever done anything that you thought was for the best then regret it afterwards??? Well I have and now all I can do is think about the person I HURT. When I said what I said I said it because you told me I can be Honest with you and tell you anything but I guess the was a LIE because now you hate me and I’m left here to question WHY. I made a mistake when I said what I said it’s a mistake because now are friendship is DEAD. All that I promise things will NEVER CHANGE and I’ll always be THERE was nothing but lies cause things changed and you’re no longer here to chill, talk, or listen to me cry. I know it’s not all your fault its mine to but I’m trying here what about YOU??? It’s hard and it seems pointless to talk to each other but pushing me away isn’t for the better. I miss are friendship I miss YOU I miss a lot of things don’t YOU??? I don’t know what went wrong but I hate it for real cause now missing you is all I feel. I’ve said sorry many times before but you never seem to understand so for the last time I'm SORRY I hurt you!!!
Give Your FRIENDSHIP another chance??? , 4GIVE HER
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creamdream
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Sorry may have become "just another word", but with tears it means the world.
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aisha2 (f)
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Creamdream, wats your own, you have taken over the topic, haba
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creamdream
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Creamdream, wats your own, you have taken over the topic, haba
AUNTY AISHA, YOU STILL AT AREA ONE? ARE MY POSTS IRRELIVANT TO THE POSTER? IS SHE COMPLAINING, 4GIVE ME O!! you know, underneath the mascara and the nice smile, every girl has a something inside called heart: it is wrapped, believe me, with stickers saying FRAGILE and HANDLE WITH CARE. |
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top_kin (m)
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Sounds like a rily big problem. I don't kno 4 sure what transpired between you two bt i sure do kno u two have/had a REAL intimacy and had something good going (from the way u sound). If u really did break his heart, it may take a while before he can get over it, i suggest u should giv him some time. But I assure u that what is urs will always be urs. I really feel u because i've bin down that lane------ Tk heart and be strong. He''l forgive u and he'll come back if he truly loves u. Best of luck
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aisha2 (f)
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Creamdream abeg no vex, na the post wey you dey post dey suprise me, e come be like say na u dey find forgiveness
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opokonwa (m)
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@oremi2 Ol girl! You sabi love o!But where and how do you want God to fit in when you're busy having unprotected sex  It's so anti-God you know  |
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olanajim (m)
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I hope the post is a joke meant for nairaland entertainment. I personally would never take back such lady as the poster.
The post is embarassing.
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aisha2 (f)
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Infact the thing tire me oyh.
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Yemialoyin
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please Oga, forgive this angel. she was wrong and she has learnt her lesson. kinly give her a second chance to proof her love.
for the sake of GOD alone, please forgive and forget
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amsky (f)
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Cream dream abi what. Is this post for you? Poster,please take it easy okay. I hope this guy will not flare up after reading this. Just calm down. No more unprotected sex after now otherwise, you'll actually get preggy. @ Olanajim it may not be a joke. She may be feeling so emotionally broken that she had to type this semblance of Paul's letter to the corinthians  . If your wife or girlfriend does that,please forgive her. Women are often pushed to the wall,and when they think they have nobody to talk to,they resort to all sorts. My neighbour came to me with her 17yrs of woe in marriage. You know how oyibos are;so on their own and only waving occassionaly. When she told me she wanted to talk,i thought my son had broken their window with his ball. She opened her heart to my husband and i. This woman has been married for 17yrs.Far longer than i have been. So ola,please forgive.This is not meant to entertainment. |
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olanajim (m)
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When you are in such relationship as this, and there is a crisis, the first step is to find meanst of talking to the man. Any means. Talk to him in confidence and ask for forgiveness if you are wrong. It is after this step fail that you would move to the next step. Find his best friend and let him talk to him in confidence. That would do.
Apologising a media is a wrong step. Going to a public forum is worst. You can only go to the forum if the people there have influence on him or if want want to know what the public think. On the later, I don't see the guy taking you back if he is a private person.
You are adding salt to his injury. But if the guy is popular here and you want members to beg him, then, I wish you good luck.
Let us start begin our man so that his heart can be touched with compassion.
reading through your post, I am seeing something else. But, would keep quiet hoping someone else see it.
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noel76 (m)
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@poster, i feel ur pain it shall be well pray over it and let it go if its urs it will definately come back.
Please refrain from having unprotected sex for AIDS IS REAL!!!!!
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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@poster, i feel your pain it shall be well pray over it and let it go if its urs it will definately come back.
Please refrain from having unprotected sex for AIDS IS REAL!!!!!
What more can I say? |
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amsky (f)
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Ola,what have you seen in this post that we have not all seen? Please tell us. You know some of us are not good in reading b/w lines. If you draw our attention to this hidden thing you have seen,who knows we may be better positioned to help her out.
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meexteriox (m)
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@dream dream cream dream
Take it easy on the poster, infact you are trying to miscostrue the whole essence of this public plea. Apparently, you don't have much to say, allow others.
@Poster
It takes a lot of humility to do this, i believe also if your guy is a nairalander, he would be able to read between lines. Take it easy on yourself, i feel your pains. When you try drown your troubles in tears, you just teach them how to swim. Be calm.
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