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R-Dynamite (f)
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In what way?  I did not even use one single profanity.  You are complaining! Name one embarrasing thing I did other than delete the insultive post I really should not have put up here? You make it seem as if insolence is a thing to be proud of. Wait until you tire  Nonsense! All this one you are doing here, if this bobo where to choose a wife from all of us on this thread--males included,  he will definitely choose me. He will come back for me. As you can see he came back specially to address just me---because I was on his mind. That is how you know people who are marriage materials--you cuss yourselves out and make sweeeeeeet love later. Nothin deeey happen! He will never forget me for sure. Are you okay? what you talking about? Damn!  *It must be someone else using her ID* |
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blue-sky (f)
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Hello,
Thanks everyone for the comment and i thnk i will be going on with the marriage.
AJ, let me put u through.
Yes am 23, i just turned 23 few days ago, thats on valentine's day.
Point of correction, i didnt meet the girl online, I met her on a UN youth model conference.
Second, i have been to london, but i didnt go there looing for the girl.
Another point is that they now live in japan because her parents work here, They have been living here for so many years back.
What da heck is your problem about visa, I use Nigerian passport and didnt tell u i have visa problem. I will never get visa problem because am a resident.
The girl have 2 years more to get her degree, that means she i an undergraduate now.
I am not in UK now, but in Asia with my Wife to be.
For those of you who want to know how much my account worths, well I am more than financially ok for my age.
Thanks Everyone, am out of this thread and will update you guys about my marriage, Your contributions helped alot.
thanx for claryifing all of this. Well firstly, CONGRATULATIONS!!! If your adamant on marrying her, then go ahead! we don't know you or your fiancee, so we cannot judge you. Hopefully good advice has come out of this thread, i wish you all the success in the futur with whateva you plan to do. If however, you are confused and not sure if you should marry her, then the only thing i can say is not to rush into anything. |
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R-Dynamite (f)
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lol. . d'u people ever give up? Dude has made up his mind. He just told us that he'll update us on his wedding plans. Haba! make una cool down na |
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almondjoy (f)
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You see it as insolence--I say charisma! What a pessimist your are. Good thing a have enough confidence in maself not to see me through your eyes! You fail! No body is using ma ID of course! What am I talkin' about? I will tell you. People like you go about--wanting to be politically correct at all times. Well, we know what happens to those--frankly boring! See? What did I tell you? I said he will come back for me! Did he call your name with all your sme-sme! Now! For your information--that is how I handle ma marriage with lots of fun. You never see anything! Mehn, i don tire
you guys are funny ohh.
abeg all of us be friendz,
Joy, na wa for u, who ask u if u be wife material, well like your politeness
He called me Joy! He even has a pet name for me! I say no be juju! Me? Marriage material--you have found out now. We know how to settle problems even if fight deeey--we stay focused! Keeping our eyes on the main points! You no see as na only me you dey talk to for here? The difference is clear ma dear--just like 7UP!  Don't mind all these babes here pretending to be "lady koi kois"! Very fake. This is the real thing. As you can see--I can prove it. Most of them are still single, searching and free to mingle--so how them no go talk nonsense. Even after you have gone, some are still playing good girl! Please go and marry your wife and come back with updates. You have cleared the air--she is in school, you are financially stable--just make sure she graduates! Thank you for your politeness too!  See how them dey fight each other over another person wedding matter! Una no get shame at all (almondjoy and D-reloaded). I don finally leave thread for una. Abeg make none of you reply me, or else I maybe forced to come back and respond again. Look, we are tired of seeing you departing! Just like the 3rd coming of hotfunmi, this is the 3rd departure of paraki! You no get shame? What is wrong if we are here to advise our brother? Of course I will reply you to see if you will have the guts to come back here the 4th time. paraki the pest! *****************JUST MARRIED PLEASE KEEP OFF THIS THREAD********************** |
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FactorChic (f)
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Na wa o 23 - 19 That's how it is, the first few years of relationships is always sweet, you think you have the world. @ Poster, u're getting married at age 23. What do you know at age 23? Mr. Journalist, to me I still think this is dumb, puppy love. You both are kids running off to just have sex. Such marriages don't last. I'm not cursing you or anything, I'm just saying it's too soon. See you don't question if you're ready to get married, you just know when you are ready. In your case, I don't think you are because you came here to ask us if early marriage is good or not, then you said something about how she brought up the marriage. DID YOU SAY YES TO HER BCOS You'RE SCARED OF LOSING HER IF You SAY NO??? I wish you goodluck though, but don't expect it to be a bed of roses. 19 -23?!!! Jesu gbami!  |
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almondjoy (f)
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Na wa o 23 - 19 That's how it is, the first few years of relationships is always sweet, you think you have the world. @ Poster, u're getting married at age 23. What do you know at age 23? Mr. Journalist, to me I still think this is dumb, puppy love. You both are kids running off to just have sex. Such marriages don't last. I'm not cursing you or anything, I'm just saying it's too soon. See you don't question if you're ready to get married, you just know when you are ready. In your case, I don't think you are because you came here to ask us if early marriage is good or not, then you said something about how she brought up the marriage. DID YOU SAY YES TO HER BCOS You'RE SCARED OF LOSING HER IF You SAY NO??? I wish you goodluck though, but don't expect it to be a bed of roses. 19 -23?!!! Jesu gbami! O ti oooooooooooooooooooh! Chai!!! Nairalandyyyyyyyyyyyy! |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Infact, this one I have to be very careful about--her mouth can change at any time! What does this mean?  |
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R-Dynamite (f)
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You see it as insolence--I say charisma! What a pessimist your are. Good thing a have enough confidence in maself not to see me through your eyes! You fail! No body is using ma ID of course! What am I talkin' about? I will tell you. People like you go about--wanting to be politically correct at all times. Well, we know what happens to those--frankly boring!
You see it as charisma, huh?Good for you. Let's just say you have the charisma to be insolent. lol . . You said goodbye to this thread so many times that I've lost count but you still here.lol. . You said he irritates you but yet you still come back to prove Heaven knows what.lol You didn't know where to bury your head after a 23 yr old dealt with your ignorance/vile conclusions and now you trying to be all sweet and 'motherly'.Duhh! lol Yes, I always want to be correct at all times if possible. You prefer to be wrong sometimes? Sorry dear. I can't say I haven't been 'bad' on Nairaland but it has never been about being "correct" or not. It's something different. Seun can tell you Btw, where did I go wrong with this dude's issue? Both you and I are basically saying the same thing just that the way you went about the whole issue was inappropriate. Am I being "politically correct" again? Good for you. Abeg, stop acting so juvenile. I'm sure you're in your late 20s or early 30s Don't mind all these babes here pretending to be "lady koi kois"! Very fake. As you can see--I can prove it. Most of them are still single, searching and free to mingle--so how them no go talk nonsense. Even after you have gone, some are still playing good girl!
Ohh! I'm so hurt  lmao I'm defnly not married. I don't know about those who are searching to mingle I ain't fake, girlfriend. I am just me. You don't know me so why say I'm fake? The fact that I pointed out what I felt was wrong with you/posts don't mean I'm playing the good girl. I'm being real and if you're "real" enough, respect that and quit being unnecessarily silly What's "lady koi kois"? lol |
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morenike09 (f)
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Am 23 years and wants to get married to a British Girl here in less than 2 months. But, i still see my coming marriage like just a normal thing. I don't take it serious because its going to be a court thing. Although my girl brought bt the marriage thing and we have already sheduled date for it and planing. But i feel like its something i can just rush into. But, am scared of early married or is early marriage worth giving a trial?
for a guy, marrying at 23 is too young, my dear. i dnt think you're even ready enough to take care of a family. at 23, worry more about earning your degree and planning a bright feature for your family. how old is she sef?
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morenike09 (f)
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woah!!! and he's 23? WTF!!! abeg, what are you thinking? marry ko carry ni. if you dnt get your ass back to school and fuinishing and stop carring on with that hooshy mamahissssss. and i thought this was a serious thread. . . |
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R-Dynamite (f)
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and i thought this was a serious thread. . .
It is. You're the one who's not serious. Be patient and read at least the OP's posts. |
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morenike09 (f)
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It is. You're the one who's not serious. Be patient and read at least the OP's posts. ok ohbut . . .ehrrrrrrr. . but. . 23 yr old man to 30yr old woman . . . what?. . i meankvery serious thread indeed |
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almondjoy (f)
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You see it as charisma, huh?Good for you. Let's just say you have the charisma to be insolent. lol . . You said goodbye to this thread so many times that I've lost count but you still here.lol. . You said he irritates you but yet you still come back to prove Heaven knows what.lolYou didn't know where to bury your head after a 23 yr old dealt with your ignorance/vile conclusions and now you trying to be all sweet and 'motherly'.Duhh! lolYes, I always want to be correct at all times if possible. You prefer to be wrong sometimes? Sorry dear. I can't say I haven't been 'bad' on Nairaland but it has never been about being "correct" or not. It's something different. Seun can tell you Btw, where did I go wrong with this dude's issue? Both you and I are basically saying the same thing just that the way you went about the whole issue was inappropriate. Am I being "politically correct" again? Good for you. Abeg, stop acting so juvenile. I'm sure you're in your late 20s or early 30s Ohh! I'm so hurt lmao I'm defnly not married. I don't know about those who are searching to mingle I ain't fake, girlfriend. I am just me. You don't know me so why say I'm fake? The fact that I pointed out what I felt was wrong with you/posts don't mean I'm playing the good girl. I'm being real and if you're "real" enough, respect that and quit being unnecessarily silly What's "lady koi kois"? lol Bury my head where? Dealt with what ignorance? -----Fine. I am 80 years old and I got whooped by my 23 year old grandson . . . . ooooh . . . .I am dying . . . .someone please close ma casket . . . . . . Rubbish! I owe you no apologies dear, but to the poster. So get over yourself! This is ma playground and I do not ever get tired. . . . . so do not hold your breath. . . . . Why are you making it your headache anyway? What are your motives? You make me laff! If this is what it takes to bury one's head then I can only smile at you. There is nothing in this world I have done to warrant me burying my head anywhere not to talk of on Nairaland. Do you see me hiding under a rock? I would not give any of you the slightest satisfaction. Juvenile or not--I love what I am!  Maybe if I keep hanging around you, you could teach me a thingy or two about "maturity". What do you say? Look, aren't you a nigerian? Lady koi koi means "little princess"! Meaning you need not be so uptight-and use your sense of humor more often! All I wrote up there, was in jest. If you do not find funny-tough! Get yourself another clown! I can say goodbye as many times as I want and come back as many times as I want--it is called freedom. Not under your lock and key!--My choice! What does this mean? Meaning your missiles can go anyway--not minding who gets hit! |
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D-reloaded (f)
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People should get out of the way in time. |
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almondjoy (f)
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People should get out of the way in time. Still figuring out why we keep coming back to this thread when the OP is gone and there are no pending cases to deal with? Well I guess to have bonding sessions. |
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smile4kenn (m)
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@morenike09
She is 19
@dynamite
I respect your maturity on this thread and i do learn from everyone's argument.
For those who called this thread useless, it is not. There is a course called Critical and Emphatic listening, which i learnt in school; I was made to understand that people learn alot from argument. That means, i am learning alot from every one's arguments, discussions and contribution.
I don't think age matters in marriage, but i believe there is a certain age people regards regards as normal. these are traditional norms which mostly exist in our African culture. I love African culture and i believe there is room for modification to suit our wants and curiosities.
Dont nail me because am still few days older than 23 and my wife is still few months to 19. I read some books these past days, and i learnt some strategies to make early marrage successful and best. i don't want to start listing the strategies.
Thanks evryone, but am still going to read replies, am still a learner
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morenike09 (f)
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@morenike09
She is 19
ohh ok, but i still think that is a young age to marry. well, she's my age and i would not want to marry at 19, what is she thinking. . . .anywaz, i'll read the past threads to get more info |
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pahtahkee
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@ almondjoy, Do not lead me into temptations, I can find it on my own! |
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almondjoy (f)
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@ almondjoy, Do not lead me into temptations, I can find it on my own! Can a sister lead a brother into temptation? Enjoy it when you find it. This love na wa ooooooooooh! I am so flattered! |
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R-Dynamite (f)
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Bury my head where? Dealt with what ignorance? -----Fine. I am 80 years old and I got whooped by my 23 year old grandson . . . . ooooh . . . .I am dying . . . .someone please close ma casket . . . . . . Rubbish! I owe you no apologies dear, but to the poster. So get over yourself! This is ma playground and I do not ever get tired. . . . . so do not hold your breath. . . . . Why are you making it your headache anyway? What are your motives? You make me laff! If this is what it takes to bury one's head then I can only smile at you. There is nothing in this world I have done to warrant me burying my head anywhere not to talk of on Nairaland. Do you see me hiding under a rock? Rofl. . is it that difficult to accept your misdemeanour? You better be honest with yourself if with no one else  . Owe me no apologies?? Christ! Where did this come from? Why I make it my headache? lol Were you not the one who kept pouncing on the dude and I was pleading with you to let him be? Oh well, I guess I'm a little' bit too sensitive when people declare their feelings and that's why I asked you twice to let him be, you pest! And you call it fun Stop lying jare. Dude, rubbed it in your face well. Next time, you should get your facts right before jumping into lame conclusions. You trying to cover up your shame by being sweet and calling all what you said a jest. You must be a good coward And you call me fake?lol My motives? Stop being paranoid abeg I would not give any of you the slightest satisfaction. Juvenile or not--I love what I am! Maybe if I keep hanging around you, you could teach me a thingy or two about "maturity". What do you say? I'm not saying you're not matured. I've seen your other posts on different threads Hence, "acting" juvenile don't mean you're not matured You don't need to satisfy anyone or is your husband a member too. Very possible tho' Look, aren't you a nigerian? Lady koi koi means "little princess"! Meaning you need not be so uptight-and use your sense of humor more often! All I wrote up there, was in jest. If you do not find funny-tough! Get yourself another clown! As if everyone on Nairaland is Nigerian You want to tell me that you understand every street language in Nigeria? Oh well, I don't but can't obviously call "lady koi kois" a slang Find what funny? You're pathetic o I ain't uptight, girlfriend. You don't know me well, even on Nairaland I can say goodbye as many times as I want and come back as many times as I want--it is called freedom. Not under your lock and key!--My choice! And yet you have the nerves to pick on, Pataki. Practice what you preach |
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almondjoy (f)
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We don hear! Please, the OP has given you the attention you need like he understood you desperately needed it Next! The reason I do not do female crushes--their marrer no get end! Thank God I only have one daughter! |
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amsky (f)
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Oya Almondjoy, R-dynamite, It's game over. This thread is closed and it's now a locked topic. I'm Seun's rep here yeah Oya make una come dey go house. I don do. GOODNIGHT LADIES!!!!!! BE SURE TO DREAM OF ME GIRRRRRRLLLLLLLLLSSSSSSSSSSSSSS. The nextpost on this thread shall be fined £500 only.Kenn has cordially invited us to his pre-nups. The colour code is black tux for guys and mint green ball gowns for ladies. BE THERE. |
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R-Dynamite (f)
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We don hear! Please, the OP has given you the attention you need like he understood you desperately needed it Next! The reason I do not do female crushes--their marrer no get end! Thank God I only have one daughter! lol. . why did you come back to "modify" your post? You posted earlier "We don hear! Next " why did you have to come back to edit? lmao. . . orisirisi |
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4Him (m)
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ohh ok, but i still think that is a young age to marry. well, she's my age and i would not want to marry at 19, what is she thinking. . . .anywaz, i'll read the past threads to get more info
awww no thread for your buffday? Happy buffday, u've grown . . . |
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amsky (f)
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R-dynamite
I take it that you did not see my post. I said anyone who posts on this thread,shall be fined £500. So my a/c num is HSBC, send me your email,i'll send the a/c number to you.
Same goes for you 4HIM. £500. I'm waiting.
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R-Dynamite (f)
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Or you mean I should send you my acc. number? |
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4Him (m)
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R-Dynamite will pay on my behalf.
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R-Dynamite (f)
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lmao. . on what condition? |
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morenike09 (f)
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awww no thread for your buffday? Happy buffday, u've grown . . . LOLactually i saw itthanks you guysand who said i was not grown before? just b/c my intellectual mind was in a little body does not mean and little jolol thanks |
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4Him (m)
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lmao. . on what condition? Do i need a condition? I'll keep our secret. LOLactually i saw itthanks you guysand who said i was not grown before? just b/c my intellectual mind was in a little body does not mean and little jolol thanks u're so sweet. Of course your little body is growing. How old is it now? ooops i know. |
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