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kunleajayi
I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« on: February 19, 2008, 06:22 PM »

hello everyone, i need ur help. i just can't stand the sight of any pretty lady. Anytime i see one, my d*ck comes erect. i've not had sex for the past 3 years(which was the first and only time i've had sex). I have promised myself and my girlfriend that nothing will make us have sex until our wedding night(although we do kiss, cuddle, caress, and stuff). Anytime we are at this, i notice that my  Shocked Shocked Shocked drips with pre-come, and i usually just try to take my mind off sex inn order not to be tempted into doing it with my girl. But recently i noticed that atimes my cock will just become erect for no apparent reason.

i've tried all possible means of getting all my emotions and sexual desires under control, even to the extent of masturbating. Most of my babe's friends are on the beautiful and busty side and i usually fantasize having sex with them(though i know it's bad). The last one i met almost made me cumm in my trousers while those dirty thoughts went through my mind. I don't want to tell my babe about my thoughts. Please what can i do to keep these desires away?
D-reloaded (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #1 on: February 19, 2008, 06:23 PM »

cut it off then sew it back on when you wnat to get married.
Jakumo (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #2 on: February 19, 2008, 06:36 PM »

Nothing wrong with getting horny at the sight of sexy women, KunleDog.   Shows you are in good health and have good 20-20 vision that enables you to take in the most beautiful sight on earth - sexy women in revealing clothes.

Might help to jerk off a few times right before your first date if it has been a while since you were in female company,  because you sound hard up for sure, dude, and you don't want to make that too obvious to that girl from the git-go.

And remember to focus on her EYES and NOT her cleavage, when in conversation with her.

spoilt (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #3 on: February 19, 2008, 07:44 PM »

congratulations. you are human. here's your medal, cape and crown!  Grin
OMO IBO (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #4 on: February 19, 2008, 07:48 PM »

if u've tasted the sweet spot ones, its very very very hard to get ur mind of it especially if u dey play with ur  madam. u gast to uphold that discipline if u choose not to do it till ur wedding night.

goodluck bro
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #5 on: February 19, 2008, 07:54 PM »

For fcuk's sake have sex if you so want it!!! Why all this whining and mumbling? Wedding night my a$$!



D-reloaded (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #6 on: February 19, 2008, 10:50 PM »

Rofl  Grin
drrionelli (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #7 on: February 20, 2008, 12:34 AM »

While it's certainly commendable and respectful that you wish to abstain (and there are, indeed, many good reasons to do so), what were the circumstances that led you to have sex when you did three years ago?  Why have you decided to remain celibate since then?  Also, Jakumo raises a good point:  Does your abstinance include refraining from masturbation?
azucar (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #8 on: February 20, 2008, 06:11 AM »

Quote from: kunleajayi on February 19, 2008, 06:22 PM
Anytime i see one, my d*ck comes erect.  Anytime we are at this, i notice that my Shocked Shocked Shocked drips with pre-come, But recently i noticed that at times my cock will just become erect for no apparent reason.
 Most of my babe's friends are on the beautiful and busty side and i usually fantasize having sex with them. The last one i met almost made me come in my trousers while those dirty thoughts went through my mind
.

I hope your wedding night is around corner; cause you need to stop playing, and tell your girl to jump on that horse and ride you tell kingdom come. Smiley I hope you realize what your saying;the worst part is your looking at her friends with great hunger. Well hopefully you will figure something out. Good luck to you playa.
uche_uche (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #9 on: February 20, 2008, 10:50 AM »

cut it off then sew it back on when you wnat to get married.i second this motion. in fact i third it o jare
ilugunboy (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #10 on: February 20, 2008, 01:30 PM »

Keep punishing yourself, while your girlfriend dey one corner dey enjoy herself with one bobo.
Mumu, please wait till that night ok?
The Sly
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #11 on: February 20, 2008, 01:41 PM »

u can put a hole on the wall of your house and do what it do with it  Cheesy ;Dor better yet, tie your thingy with a koboko rope and u'll be good  Cool. . . .  . damn! at this time, your sweats, odour, spits and even your DNA will be reeking of sperms  Embarrassed
blackmann
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #12 on: February 20, 2008, 03:33 PM »

Quote from: ®~^Sly^~® on February 20, 2008, 01:41 PM
u can put a hole on the wall of your house and do what it do with it Cheesy ;Dor better yet, tie your thingy with a koboko rope and u'll be good Cool. . . . . damn! at this time, your sweats, odour, spits and even your DNA will be reeking of sperms Embarrassed

Which automatically means that any girl the guy mistakenly "jams" go sabi wetin jam am, non? the babe go born pikin the following day Grin. O boy i no envy ur babe oh. Just take it easy on her when the time comes for you to "taste her apple pie", so gbo? no kill am with ur hot and eager rod, okay?
cuddly (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #13 on: February 20, 2008, 03:47 PM »

O boy, na wa for you, quit punishing yourself abeg,
OMO IBO (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #14 on: February 21, 2008, 03:14 PM »

Quote from: R-Dynamite on February 19, 2008, 07:54 PM
For fcuk's sake have sex if you so want it!!! Why all this whining and mumbling? Wedding night my a$$!





hahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahhahhaa.

i feel u aswerigad
Busta (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #15 on: February 21, 2008, 03:17 PM »

lmao!
4Him (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #16 on: February 21, 2008, 03:21 PM »

this guy is suffering.  Grin
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #17 on: February 21, 2008, 04:31 PM »

It's his choice. I wonder if there's any solution other than some good sex  Grin
revenge (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #18 on: August 01, 2008, 02:44 PM »

Cry Kiss Guy u fit rape Goat oo na wa 4 uu ooo,  you be Horse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 Shocked Embarrassed Lips sealed Kiss
nana (f)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #19 on: August 01, 2008, 02:46 PM »

I even think say the guy wan claim say him be gay. Shioo! Grin
Gonorrhea (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #20 on: August 01, 2008, 02:47 PM »

what happened to wanking?!

at least that aint sex, u just lust after the women u see, get a big tub of vaseline or lux soap, and smother your small dic.k!
todan (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #21 on: August 03, 2008, 06:46 AM »

well Undecided, what i think is that you and your boo are abstaining from sex because of spiritual reasons, and here you are masturbating your life out, why can't u face it and tell her your problem, since both of you have been kissing caressing and  doing all other stuffs, u can easy cup it the finishing touch, u know what i mean, because i know she will equally be in the same trauma as u.  Cool
Dual Core
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #22 on: August 03, 2008, 02:04 PM »

nuffin like small sin so, if u now wan do, then don't even touch. sin na sin. so this ur idea of not having sex but touching touchings, e nor  go work dude, its like pissing in the wind. Wink
ijapa888 (m)
Re: I Can't Stand The Sight Of A Lady
« #23 on: August 03, 2008, 02:16 PM »

Quote from: azucar on February 20, 2008, 06:11 AM
I hope your wedding night is around corner; cause you need to stop playing, and tell your girl to jump on that horse and ride you tell kingdom come. Smiley I hope you realize what your saying;the worst part is your looking at her friends with great hunger. Well hopefully you will figure something out. Good luck to you playa.

While you are trying your best to abstain, she's kissing and caressing you while someone else is banging her hard!
Wish i'll see the look on your face on that wedding night.
Kai! You'll be doing your best to make her feel you inside her and am sure she'll be way gone to notice! Grin
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