White Chics Aren't Racial Towards Black Guys!

True. Most of them are fascinated with black guys.

In Europe for example during World War II, caucasian ladies were told that black men had a tail in order to discourage them from sleeping with them. Trust women and their curiousity -- they experimented in order to find out and came back to report that there were no tails but there was "something" better. 

Most racists are white guys and one of the subtle messages they try to pass accross is that blacks shouldn't sleep with their ladies.

haha
i understand why other women from differnt races love
BLack men!!! , because ya da boom!!!
and its tru once you go black you don't go back!!!!

well there are some white guys who love us sistas
i will say black women arent into datiin outside our race
as much as black men

Hmmmmmm   I don't know about this one here guys


sorry i don't think all black men are the bomb , maybe a personal thing for me, i have never dated a black man so maybe i am wrong.
I have been with my fiance since we were 17yrs and he is white ,we so in loveee , fingers crossed its been 11 years


Hi Zahy, i think we also have alot of racist blackmen, i had some experiences of such blackmen when we were out, especially from the Caribbean men.

Seen alot of black women with white men all over town ,maybe it depends on where you are from?

Na wa ooo! How can you say that the sister is an angel but the brother a demon. Parents can not raise two totally different type of children. By this I mean that if white men na racist so too oyinbo gel. Where did the men learn it from but his mother? grandmother? church members? Shine your eyes! Me thinks the men are thinking w/ their small small head! Am I off topic? Anyhow, it depends on where you live. On the eastcoast, TX, Cali white guys are always trying to chat up black girls. And there's none of this "can't take her home biz" either. Lots of white men think we're more down to earth & honest but that's another thread. However, in other areas that are less diverse then it isn't so "present" or visible. One thing to note, white men usually have a courage building period. It starts in high school or college and they bascially just stare. That happened to me in h.s. the whole year this fb player from another h.s. was always at the same school functions staring at me. But then in college they just come right out and hit on you etc. It's mainly about comfort levels.

White women on the other hand "talk in men's faces". I don't mean this in a rude way b/c I don't think it's either here nor there. It's a culturally thing as far as white Americans. For instance, in yankee when white people meet you they shake hands. Then after knowing you for 3 months or having a class for 3 wks. they give a HUGE hug and say "I LOVEEE CHINANI" and run their hands t/o your hair etc. We (Nigerians) and by extention Black Americans are not brought up that way. It's not in my culture to touch a man I've only known for 3 wks or months. To touch his hair (which I already know what it feels like) and speak so close to his face. (White people physically stand closer to you & to your face -- at least in the dirty dirty.) While women can get away w/ some of these things, men obviously can not. White women also edit themselves alot. Young white women pretend not to know & not to have opinoins. I'm not sayign that they're ignorant and boring. Au contrairie, they're nothing of the sort but the "ideal" in the community does not provide for outspoken ness. Why do you think they all end up on OPRAH? I kid.

It's cool that you found a commonality. That's important. I tend to mesh w/ lots of immigrants from all around too. But what is this about you no go wed white girl? She's good enough to be girlfriend but not to be wife? Who's racist now? I'm not saying that you are. Really, you don't sound like one, but it's not nice to treat women like that (i.e., play along like you love them when you don't). Just be sincere, ok? Like you said, white women dey sabi pain.
Of course when I read that you plan to wed Naija girl I smiledbut that was my inner hypocrite and I put the bitch to bed!

Chinani there are women we bang, but wont date, women we date but wont give the title of girlfriend, women who are our girlfriends who we would never marry!. sounds weird but it's true

wife and girlfriend are two different things. My white girl is good to look at, she looks good on my arm, but she can only cook white people's food. and may not get along with mum, and grandma. she is too outspoken. We argue sometimes because she doesn't see the world my way, and i don't see the world her way. In Naija relationships men tend to have veto power, and our women use discretion when interacting with other men. A white chick would hug her ex infront of you, and ask him how his life is. may even go as far as telling him "I miss you" I be naija man just say hi and move along damnit.

zebudaya is with his white girlfriend for sex.  He doesn't respect her.  It's sad that white people who are open-minded enough to involve themselves with 'black' people are the ones who get hurt.  it's unfortunate.

when they see my koko, they begin  dey tongolo. it is as simple as that.

Chinani,

Smile. This type of behavior you described is called "whitegirling" someone--->

White women on the other hand "talk in men's faces". I don't mean this in a rude way b/c I don't think it's either here nor there. It's a culturally thing as far as white Americans. For instance, in yankee when white people meet you they shake hands. Then after knowing you for 3 months or having a class for 3 wks. they give a HUGE hug and say "I LOVEEE CHINANI" and run their hands t/o your hair etc. We (Nigerians) and by extention Black Americans are not brought up that way. It's not in my culture to touch a man I've only known for 3 wks or months. To touch his hair (which I already know what it feels like) and speak so close to his face. (White people physically stand closer to you & to your face -- at least in the dirty dirty.) While women can get away w/ some of these things, men obviously can not. White women also edit themselves alot. Young white women pretend not to know & not to have opinoins. I'm not sayign that they're ignorant and boring. Au contrairie, they're nothing of the sort but the "ideal" in the community does not provide for outspoken ness. Why do you think they all end up on OPRAH?  I kid.


It is a white girls way of looking oh so innocent but being harmful.

The typical African American woman's response to actual white girls getting up in the face of their man is an instance of 'acting ignant'.

You can act ignant with a more Ghetto approach: Bitch you need to step your ass off of my man.

and when the white girl responds -- but me and Tyrone are just friends!! -- i.e. I am so innocent.

You continue along these lines: Tyrone ain't got no friends but me bitch. etc, etc.

You get the picture. You can even "whitegirl" someone in response to being "whitegirled". Smile.

Of course this behavior of "whitegirling" someone extends to far larger parts of American culture than just attempting to mess with your man. It's done politically and socially.

Sorry for going off topic. Smile.

Smile

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Is a man ever the same in reaction as a woman?

White women are racist towards black men, it just manifests differenty.

White womans racsim towards black men manifests in her beliefs of sterotypes.

Believe it or not, the white woman is with the black man or seeking him out because of his sexual nature, and his charisma. Everyone knows that most white men are boring. In fact, most white men know they are boring and that is why there are more white men trying to be black or act black than there is black men who try to be white or act white.


Any way, isn't it racist to get with someone because you are curious about how it would be to get with someone who is not the same color as you. Isn't it racist to get with a  black man because you are running from boring white men? Isn't it racist to get with a black man because you as a white woman hear that black men are better in bed?

Of course, when the white woman gets with a black man for these reasons, but wounds up falling in love with him, she would never tell him that initially when she first got with him that her reasons for doing so were because of a sterotype. It is cases such as this which makes the black man feel that the white woman is not racist towards black men.

Deep down the black men knows that the white woman is with him because of stereotypes. If he did not know, we would not have a thread such as this one where the black man is trying to convince his self. 

White chics love black guys because we know how to work that thang!!!(u know what i mean).Why do u think in pornos,u never see white guys on black girls,its always either white on white,black on black or black guy workin that white girl.Some do love us,others just regard us as sex slaves.

na wa oh

somebody made a comment about Eastern European girls liking blacks, i think that is normal considering the fact that the term "Slave" came from their ethnic background as "Slavs" because they suffered slavery a lot and we too

also, Romeo generally these so called slavs from all around eastern europe are waaaaaay more racist than the western european states!

you see oyibo with black girl all over town young, but when they 35 40 you don't see majority mix relationship of black white. in uncle ken or uncle sam land.