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Hot.Funmi (f)
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Why do most Nigerian men in the diaspora that are dating or married to western women kiss the ground they walk on but when they are faced with a fellow Nigerian sister, they pick their duties and brush others off as something they wouldnt do because of their culture? What happenes to their culture whenever they are with foreign women? Is it a simple case of a prophet not being honored at home?
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j-girl (f)
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Abi oooooo! They would grovel and do anything to please the foreign women. Once it's a naija girl - all nice morals go out they window and they behave like egomaniacs. I tire for them. I think it's just them trying to be understanding to other women but they expect us to fall into our primitive traditions once we are of the same culture.
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nwando
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Why do most Nigerian men in the diaspora that are dating or married to western women kiss the ground they walk on but when they are faced with a fellow Nigerian sister, they pick their duties and brush others off as something they wouldnt do because of their culture? What happenes to their culture whenever they are with foreign women? Is it a simple case of a prophet not being honored at home?
now you're talking! me I wan know that one too? I have an inlaw married to oyibo chai the man will wash pots scrub floor make her breakfast in bed I haven't spoken to her in a while but I'm sure by now he's mastered egusi and Ogbono soups and the art of making semoMy inlaw was formerly married to a naija man that treated her like garbage and threw her out so God come give her oyinbo man  wey she meet for Church so now she's really enjoying |
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adekanbicv (m)
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This becouse Nigeria girls are just after what u have
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adekanbicv (m)
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Nigeria girls should protect their pride before getting marry so men can value them like the oyinbos
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D-reloaded (f)
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what do you have sef? Is it your 250 naira credit that doesnt even equate to $1 or what? The answer is simple, a foreign woman will not hesitate in calling the cops if these guys act up (Leilah is an exception) however how many Nigerian women do you know that will charge their husbands even after being beaten up black and blue? Notice how despite dating these women, most of them at the end will definitely run and marry a Nigerian girl, slave for life  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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Nigeria girls should protect their pride before getting marry so men can value them like the oyinbos
I think you should just go to the corner jeje and be quiet because seriously you're embarrassing yourself right now  |
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nwando
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what do you have sef? Is it your 250 naira credit that doesnt even equate to $1 or what? The answer is simple, a foreign woman will not hesitate in calling the cops if these guys act up (Leilah is an exception) however how many Nigerian women do you know that will charge their husbands even after being beaten up black and blue? Notice how despite dating these women , most of them at the end will definitely run and marry a Nigerian girl, slave for life don't mind them. One sorry Congolese man married his towns girl and abandoned her for Oyinbo after she's suffered to help put him through med school. The day oyinbo woman take broom sweep am out,come claim I'm mercedez benz and mansion in Philly,the man come sabi say harmattan dey cold. Most Nigerian women would happily leave and start life anew. They worship oyibo woman now because they know the cops coming whan she calls 911 na her brother. What time do the Nigerian wives have to call 911 have they finished working 80 hrs/week ? |
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rjimid (m)
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OK, i'm new here so don't trample me. I've been married twice to LAZY americans. I don't mind giving, but don't always be taking either. It's time for some culture and REAL women in my life. That is why I made a friend in Nigeria, and we are making plans.
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D-reloaded (f)
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or maybe you just attract trash in general you'd probably end up with a "lazy" trifling Nigerian if you don't fix your magnet  |
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spoilt (f)
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OK, i'm new here so don't trample me. I've been married twice to LAZY americans. I don't mind giving, but don't always be taking either. It's time for some culture and REAL women in my life. That is why I made a friend in Nigeria, and we are making plans.
another one comes to his senses. the prodigal returns. |
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4 Play (m)
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Nigerian men are a reflection of Nigerian women.
Talk about throwing one's self at the feet of foreigners,you only have to see how Nigerian women will throw themselves at the feet of a Nigerian with a UK/US passport, ditto for the menfolk.
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D-reloaded (f)
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return wetin? Who the hell wants a twice divorced loony
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spoilt (f)
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don't 'we' always take them back after 'oyibo' or 'akata' don show them pepper ? come crawling back like water drenched nkapi.  |
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rjimid (m)
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that's right - twice divorced. but, because i married a couple looneys!! what do you know about it. don't blame me until you know the story!!  |
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spoilt (f)
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this is nairaland. we are judge, jury and executioner all rolled in one. |
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almondjoy (f)
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My hand no dey this thread at all! I think this one is going to be the worst of all! Bailing out while I still have a chance.  In read only mode! |
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rjimid (m)
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well, guess i been trampled, judged, and executed. but, most good juries collect evidence. you don't know me YET!
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Uche2nna (m)
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don't 'we' always take them back after 'oyibo' or 'akata' don show them pepper ? come crawling back like water drenched nkapi. Now I am seriously confused. Thought I had stumbled into a thread that insinuates that Naija girls in diaspora do not like dating Naija men because they are so unromantic. Now u dey take them back after oyibo don show them pepper  |
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D-reloaded (f)
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A looney attracts a looney, like I said before, fix your magnet.
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rjimid (m)
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and you posted a reply!! you loon! i've had enough, i'm going to go find almondjoy who has some sense.
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spoilt (f)
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Now I am seriously confused. Thought I had stumbled into a thread that insinuates that Naija girls in diaspora do not like dating Naija men because they are so unromantic. Now u dey take them back after oyibo don show them pepper insinuates ke? are there still women who expect romance from nigerian men? stop playing. we just take them. uncouth and abrasive as they come. well, guess i been trampled, judged, and executed. but, most good juries collect evidence. you don't know me YET!
can i know you? |
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rjimid (m)
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any who want to know can shoot me an email or look me up on messenger.
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spoilt (f)
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are you american rijmid? did you join nairaland to find out more about nigerians? |
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Uche2nna (m)
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any who want to know can shoot me an email or look me up on messenger.
LMAO |
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muchbabe (f)
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i like this thread,
the oyinbo they even chase are not all that. I was at some place with friends when some Naija man like that was telling a guy that he would never advice anyone to be with a naija chic and to think the wangsta is married to an oyinbo who threw him and his little kid out of the house. As if a naija chic will ever do that, I just let him rant on because i knew the fool is illiterate, he had the effrontery to disrespect naija chics in front of me when his so called oyinbo wife threw his broke ass out.
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rjimid (m)
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yes and yes. does that make me a bad person? you won't kno until you know me. |
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spoilt (f)
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@rjimidi was just curious. Welcome to nairaland, where you will make a lot of friends and enemies. Hopefully you don't draw your conclusions about us from some psychos you meet here. |
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