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Angelgal (f)
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So guys, does it really matter to you how tight we ladies are down there? I ask this cause women tend to go out of their way to please their spouses with regard to tightening themselves up and with consequencies!  While some use alum, lime or some soap in the market that promises tightness and end up with with nasty reactions that turn out to be bacterial infections, some even opt for doing it surgically! Is the tightness really that important??? |
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tcherokee (m)
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Of course it matters, for both parties not only the guy this time.
But as for going through all that hmm I'm not really sure. What I think is that when you get the person meant for you, you'll both fit perfectly and you won't have to go through extreme measures. Besides there is no guarantee that after going through all that, the guy will eventually stay.
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Seun (m)
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Instead of using alum, why not try Kegel Exercises?
A Kegel exercise, named after Dr. Arnold Kegel, is one designed to exercise the pubococcygeal muscles, sometimes called the " Kegel muscles" in reference to the exercise. Life's events, especially pregnancy, childbirth, and being overweight can weaken pelvic muscles. Luckily, when these muscles get weak, you can help make them strong again. Kegel exercise can also increase sexual pleasure for females and their partners. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exerciseThe pubococcygeus muscle or PC muscle ... controls urine flow and contracts during orgasm. It surrounds the rectum, the vagina (in women) and bladder openings. It aids in urinary control, and childbirth. A well-toned pubococcygeus muscle can enhance sex and orgasm in both sexes. Kegel exercises are a set of exercises designed to strengthen and give voluntary control over the pubococcygeus muscles. These exercises are often referred to simply as "kegels." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pubococcygeus
Hope this helps! |
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Bibi (m)
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Tightness is not the ultimate thing, but the rythm the the couple can develop and enjoy together...
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Fox (m)
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A girl should naturally be able to expand and contract depending on the situation at hand. However if you cannot do so anymore naturally then listen to what Seun posted (nice post Mr Admin) and do some kegels. I really don't like the idea of using the alum or soap or whatever because you'll end up with 3 problems at the end of the day - looseness, infection and not so pleasant odor. Kegels in my opinion should be used as a maintenance not remedy so u don't have to wait till u've had your 3rd kid to start doing those exercises.
If all else fails there are many sex positions where you can enjoy a lot more friction regardless of how tight or not tight you are.
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dalington (m)
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Tightness in a woman is a good thing for both parties to enjoy themselves. Even if you use soap, alum or anything that will make it tight, it is just for some seconds everything will come back to its normal shape. I hard Fox made mention of having three kids before you start Kegels ( good talk), but there are some people that are not married but their …… is nothing to write home about. I think the best way or solution for girls is for them to know the percussion of meeting so many boys or men because there some that there own is outrageous and by the time you meet somebody with normal one, he will not enjoy you and you may found it difficult to get a man that your [canal] will fit.
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dablessed (f)
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Kegel exercise? Thanks for the enlightenment Mr Admin.
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layi (m)
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Of course tightness matters. Sex is about feeling isnt it? "The tighter ..the feelier"
Kegel exercise is mainly needed by married women to help in labor. It just gives u control over the pubic and coccyx muscles. It indirectly affects the vagina muscles ( but not directly which is what the ladies need). Its not bad anyway. But i strongly advise against using alum etc. Any girl who can't contract her vagina no matter how loose need surgery fast.
Just be active in bed..Dont stay like a finely-sculpted-statue and expect only your thin to 'represent'.
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Greatpeter (m)
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Tightness is an essential ingredients of sex.
But if your "thing" is not tight you can make it tight during sex.
How? by logic positioning.
The problem with Niger ladies is that majority of them are acquitted with monkey style positioning.
Buy books on sex and see killing positions that turn man real crazy.
litotomy position is ancient as for me.
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gina34 (f)
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nsogbu(trouble)  |
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bioye (m)
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tightness is good.
but let's apply the law of relativity here. what is actually important here is comparative friction. a big guy and a wide girl will fit. a small guy and a tight girl will fit. On the other hand, size is of less importance if the relative skills of the partners is high. For example, a woman's organ goes through different periods of lubrication and texture during lovemaking that by applying the right timing, a guy can keep the friction high. Also, like someone mentioned earlier, the position also matters.
and wether we like it or not, some girls are born wide, they just have to get used to it, and obtain skills like the one our dear admin shared earlier!
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hot-angel (f)
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I think it's good for a woman to be tight. It shows she's erm...not a sex-maniac. And besides...try it, if u make a hole with your thumb and second finger, Try the tight one and the lose one, which one feels better.  |
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Latoya (f)
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Tightness in a woman matters alot.especially when that woman isnt a mother. I guess no man will want to sleep with a girl that is as wide as a bucket. Tightness is the pleasure of the whole thing called sex. Its not just getting in there and the guy's organ will be flabbing around, it needs to be tight to accomodate and hold tight so the guy can move in and out, feel it and will be able to hit the G spot.
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nddy (m)
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Tightness, ummmmmmmmmmm, there is notin like tight or wide, all of them gives the same feeling. the wider the smoother, the more enjoyable the sex is., you wouldnt understand my terms unless you have tried it.
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layi (m)
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Tightness, ummmmmmmmmmm, there is notin like tight or wide, all of them gives the same feeling. the wider the smoother, ...................
Na wa o. Bet sum guys r realllyyyyyyyy biggggggg! The problem with Niger ladies is that majority of them are acquitted with monkey style positioning.
Hmmm. How u take know?  Many dey shele o!Just bein mischievous!! |
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Greatpeter (m)
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Tightness in a woman matters alot.especially when that woman isnt a mother. I guess no man will want to sleep with a girl that is as wide as a bucket. Tightness is the pleasure of the whole thing called sex. Its not just getting in there and the guy's organ will be flabbing around, it needs to be tight to accomodate and hold tight so the guy can move in and out, feel it and will be able to hit the G spot.
Please what is the G-spot? Tell us. |
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Latoya (f)
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I told u that if u really want to know what the G spot is lets meet privately |
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layi (m)
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I told u that if u really want to know what the G spot is lets meet privately I want to know too.But err.... How private is that privately? |
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sade (f)
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Tightness is good but it depends on how you as a lady maintain yourself.People go for surgery these days to make it tight especially after birth,but as a lady who hasnt got a kid I think it is important you maintain it..how would you enjoy it if u can't feel the ups/down movement!
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Greatpeter (m)
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Sade baby that's it but even though you have issues you can still regain or retain your tightness.
I have posted how on this thread.
If you want expository of this pm me because of the rules won't allow me do it here.
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sade (f)
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@Greapeter
there are ways u can still be tight even after birth but to say the fact for ladies who are not yet married I think the best option is abstinence....
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Greatpeter (m)
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Abstinience you said? Yes you are correct but for those who can not hold body nko?
I have a solution for them. They can be tight if only they want it.
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terry (m)
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what is tightness in men ?
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Bibi (m)
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tightness in men...I'm expecting this thread to help define it.
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terry (m)
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@pintos thanks , nddy already told them the wider the smoother
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layi (m)
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@Bibi
I'm lost here. Tightness in Men? A man is always tight if u must know. Its only gets better.
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Latoya (f)
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tightness in men is totally different from that of a woman,i guess it will be a different topic all together.
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