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SIBLI_06 (m)
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@ SIBLI Easier said than done.  I know it is not easy but all the indicators are flashing up a problem in the replationship. Serves him right, next time, he wont venture into reading your text messages again. Meanwhile, you yourself don't help matters, you should have deleted such kind of message. I have said it times without number that human will cheat on each other at any slightest opportunity, irrespective of the gender nature. The above case is a pointer to the fact that, both gender can cheat on each other. Having said this, do keep begging your guy, and I hope he listen, afterall, he is only being clever that you have not catch him with such messages too. People should learn to live their life believing that their loved ones will cheat on them rather than believing that, their trusted loved ones will never cheat on them. If your boyfriend had lived with such notions, he would have forgiven you and seeking our opinion would not even have arise.
Sory I totally disagree, "People should learn to live their life believing that their loved ones will cheat on them rather than believing that, their trusted loved ones will never cheat on them" What a way to live your life!! You must have had bad experiances to say such a thing?? So you have to be smart to survive in a relationship!!! delete texts etc!! that is no relationship in my book. When you meet the right person you will know!! The right person will trust you no matter what! Do not expect anything more than the truth and upmost respect from your partner. Good luck anyway! what ever makes you happy |
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walemuse (m)
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How do you expect him to believe you don't have anything to do with the guy in question?  |
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babymine (f)
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Sometimes I wonder at twinstaiye.  |
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africanboy (m)
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some points i noticed:
- she refused to state the name of the two guys (how similar are there names?)
- she did not define how "explicit" the message was
- after a while, she stopped replying posts
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twinstaiye (m)
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@ SIBLI whether you disagree or not, that is my own view, the perspectives that we look at issues differs from one person to another.
@ Babymine. Wonder less about me, I am just being real considering what human being behaviour are, they like to pretend as if they don't indulge in a bad situation you find yourself, whereas, they have gone or still going through the same scenarios.
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tbagging (m)
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i guess it was time for him 2find out, if u still like him then plead with him , oda wise bust it  |
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lovely_S (m)
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HEY BABE!, PLEASE CAN You TELL ME THE CONTENT OF THE TEXT MESSAGE, AFTER THAT,I WILL KNOW WHAT 2 SAY'BOUT THAT,
I'm sorry for that LOL ~
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nwaigbo-annoying
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If the message you sent to that other guy was an honest mistake, then relax your boyfriend will find out the truth, If you try too hard to get him to see the truth that might make him think you have something going on and you are trying hard to make him see otherwise |
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shockreaction (m)
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LOL.
Another reason why you shouldn't convey potentially incriminating messages via your phone.
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beyonce1 (f)
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Time heals just be patient if he truly loves u he'll forgive u even if he catches u stark naked with another guy! True love is  |
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IBB Fan (m)
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@beyunce
for you, i wouldn't mind even if i caught you in bed with my grandfather's father.
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beyonce1 (f)
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@beyunce
for you, i wouldn't mind even if i caught you in bed with my grandfather's father.
@IBB ,,,,,, Reallyyyyyyyyyyyyyy ? see , daz what I call TRUE LOOOOOOOVE  |
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Anabib (f)
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@beyunce for you, i wouldn't mind even if i caught you in bed with my grandfather's father. EASIER SAID THAN DONE!!!  My advise, Beg him and give him time, if after a set period of time and he is still adamant, baby girl move on. Love forgives and forgets, so if he loves you, he shld be able to forgive you. its not as if he caught you making out with the guy ojare |
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babymine (f)
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Na wa oh! |
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beyunce (f)
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@beyunce
for you, i wouldn't mind even if i caught you in bed with my grandfather's father.
Haba. Anyways I gat no time for u yet. |
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IBB Fan (m)
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beyonce, just went through your profile now and i saw 3 girls. whish of them be u? anyway, i can still forgive 3 of you, no matter how much you wrong me. |
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beyunce (f)
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beyonce, just went through your profile now and i saw 3 girls. whish of them be u? anyway, i can still forgive 3 of you, no matter how much you wrong me. What wrong are u talking about now. Anyways Am beyunce and not beyonce. |
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beyunce (f)
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Wats making u confuse. Were u blind before to see that it was beyunce that was written not Beyonce. Anyways its a free world i can choose or should i say we can choose to use the name we want. |
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IBB Fan (m)
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alright ms. beyun, no turn am to quarrel na!! after all, all d name na d same n i could've just had the thought of beyonce (like i know it) in my head without looking out for the "u".
*sits on the floor with right hand on the head*
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olutomiwa (m)
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you are being ECONOMICAL WITH THE TRUTH,you have not really told us what happened,say the truth and it shall SET YOU FREE.
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tainzo (m)
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Well i saw somtin like that on my girls phone and i immediatly lost my trust for her. I called of the relationship because i don't want to hurt her out of anger. |
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naija4life (f)
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the girl's should explain. If her explanation is not real or true, then she should kiss the relationship goodbye
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Uche2nna (m)
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I think she had already done that!
Come to think of itshe came to Nairaland to get advice on how to saveher sinking r/ship. What a laugh. Nairaland don turn into "Hitch"
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contactuzo (m)
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Sorry ,but i don't believe u.that is a real cock and bull story u got there
You HAD SOMETHING WITH DAT GUY You SENT THE TEXT TO.
Y DIIDNT You DELETE IT FROM YOUR SENT ITEMS IMMEDIATELY?
OR EVEN RESEND IT TO THE CORRECT PERSON IMMEDIATELY?
You PLAYED WITH FIRE You GOT BURNT
SERVES You RIGHT
You GIRLS WILL NEVER STOP CHEATING!
You FRIGGING TWO TIMING WH, RE!!!
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Busta (f)
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girl, unless u ain't feelin him no more.
what was he supposed to do? pat u on the back and tell u what a good job u're doing breaking his heart?
if u love him, keeo beggin and send as much apology text as u possibly can.
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boladonas (m)
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Say the truth and nothing but d truth
Methink you are double dealing with the guy u sent d text to
make a choice now and abide by it
all the best
The truth will set u free always
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jaybaby (f)
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My Boyfriend Saw A Nasty Text Message On My Phone & so what? When he is not my husband,he dsnt have a say in my Private life @ all
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BillGatesFan (m)
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@the poster takethat: YOU SHOULD TELL US THE CONTENT OF THIS YOUR ROMANTIC TEXT MESSAGE SO WE CAN REALLY ADVICE YOU . DID YOU TEXT A GUY THAT YOU NEED A QUICKYYYYYYYY ? or did you text a guy that he is better than your man? Tell us the content of this text or Shot up your mouth right now. |
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