Is It My Fault?

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Hi all,am really worried.ihave an issue i'll like to discuss with the serious minded people in the house.
I had a burial ceremony in Ogun state on saturday,and i informed my girl earlier letting her know i'll be delighted if she could make it.really she promised coming.Something happened on tuesday,she called me that she needed a certain amount of money,and i promised giving her when we see.On friday,around 345pm,she called me that she was in the bank that i should send it now,sincerely speaking,i love her very much,so i shouldn't hesitate to do her wish,but the truth is that i was too busy that i didn't have time to heat myself.My intention was to give her when we see.I tried calling her later that day to inform her i'll be leaving lagos for ogun state on saturday morning,but she refused to answer my call.On saturday at the party,i called her more then fifty time[not blushing],it got to a time she switched off her phone.i called her hall mate because i assumed she didn't switch off her phone,may she had a flat battery.all my effort to see her that day proved abortive.
Finally on sunday morning,i was able to speak with her on phone,i asked for a reason why she acted that way,she said i shoudn'd mind her.Maybe she knows i love her very much[and really i do], she'n now taking me for a ride.please i don't know what to do.And do u know he funny thing,i have so many female friends,some do say it to my face that i they wish the could see a guy like me[the truth is that i try to satisfy my friends,both male and female if i have], so i see no reson why she should e acting like this,or is it a crime to have a true love for someone.I'm going through emotional pain,and it is too much for me to bear.if any body could give me an advice on what to do,i'm really hurt.I'm cock-sure of one thing,i believe she loves me,but the queston now is,could it be the money she asked for or what.she's a very nice girl,she's been of assistance to me on occassions.Please what should i do plsssssssssssss.

Gd bless u all
anticipating your replies

First of all, i understand u love her very much,

But it's essential u do not let your emotions get the best of u.

It's also time for u to have a serious talk with her,

To better understand where the relationship is headed.

Best of Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thanx,but really the issue is not about money.yeah,it's not as if i dodn't have the money,but she doesn't want to undertand d fact that i was too busy on friday.am confuse

@arienna
so tell me friend,what should i do.don't u get something here,i mean i love her very much.Okay,she made me love.I'm an easy going guy,i know that and i don't just ask anygal out.i can't just say d reason why she acted like that.but really if she says goobbye,i can't die,but i'm really not praying for that because anything might happen.

ok. . . u love her so much and what if she doesn't love you as much? what if she's only out for ur money? what if she is only messing with u? get over it and stand ur grounds. if u love her so much and she doesn't love u back, then move on with ur life.

is she a member of NL?

@busta
 she's not, my sister thank u very much.just that it's going to be hard.Let me tell u aw much i love her,i'm the last boy in my family and we are seven.i make sure every member of my family called her on her b.day.even my that whose base in abuja,i disturbed him on phone to not only call her,but to aswell send her a gift through dhl,which he did.same with my mum.i don't really spend that much for her,so i believe she's not after the money.maybe she feels i don't care because she said she needed it urgently.On a normal day i give my male friends more that what she requested,so it's not that i didn't want to give her.One of my prayer request in church yesterday is that God should touch her[hope God would answer me].

Guy e be like say You self don ANAYO. _{You don fall in love abi.} 

The girl needs only your dough and you're too blind to know that because you have Anayod!

If I were you, I would coax her, phuck her hard and dump her. Look for someone that appreciates you better. _{There are lotsa girls with love to share} 

I'll still say that you talk it over with her first.
it might even help u understand whats bothering her and where u stand.

all the best!