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Free (f)
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okay
heres what am sick of ladies
why is it that when a men cheats we get angry at the lady
he messed around with more!!!
am not speaking from experience but is what i have seeen!!!
one of my friends did just that last weekend
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Hotstepper (f)
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right, u gotta be mad at ur man, period  |
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Free (f)
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lol am glad you feel me on this!!!!  |
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hot-angel (f)
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Most ladies r mumu's.
They get so mad at the lady and it's like, "I'm going to kill that bitch if i set my eyes on her". I'm thinking, Girl, KIll ur man!!
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nikitareal (f)
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d fact is d same sweet tin ur man told u was d same sweet tin he told d girl,so he deceivd both of u.it ll be very idiotic 2 attack d girl.ve u 4gotten d girl sees u as u c her,probably she has intentions of attackin you to.  |
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Z4M4eva (f)
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Oh Seriously !!! He's not going to do that to me !! but if he does. I'll be mad at him of course.
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nikitareal (f)
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who is nt going to b mad wit her boyfriend wn he cheats,definetly everybody ll
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modpluz (m)
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be mad at ur man of course, fighting the lady is a waste of time and what makes it worse is that the man can even comeback and pick up a fight with you(for fighting his lady).so i say fight him face2face(but not kill! haba!!!)  |
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modpluz (m)
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@nikita who is nt going to b mad wit her boyfriend wn he cheats,definetly everybody ll
yes ur right every lady is going to be mad at her boyfriend for cheating but, some ladies have a way of hiding it from him and fights the lady(without his knowledge)why?because she doesn't wan-na lose him. |
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Seun (m)
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It all boils down to ladies hating their own. Which is why men will continue to rule, yay!
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bluenubian (f)
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my boyfriend of 3 years have cheated on me twice that i know of, and we still together, am not happy about that, i was mad, but not mad at him, 95% of guys will always cheat. all am saying as long as u treat me right, and i better not find out about it, as for my boyfriend, the 3rd time, he cheats, i promised him i'll cut his D*ck off.
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nikitareal (f)
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It all boils down to ladies hating their own. Which is why men will continue to rule, yay!
break it down,r u sayin u r in full support of species like u cheatin.  |
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fresheva (f)
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you get mad at your man not the lady in question, because some mrried men never let go young girls
i av a personal experience to proof
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DOYI
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ITS NICE TO KNOW that THERE ARE people WHO THINK LIKE I DO. I HAVE ALWAYS THOT ABOUT THIS ISSUE, AND HAVE ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT I HAVE NO BIZ WITH THE ONE HES CHEATING WITH
JES THE ONE I KNOW, AND TRUSTED, HES THE ONE WHO WILL GET THE BRUNT OF MY ANGER
I HAVE NO BUSINESS WILL WILL NOT HAVE ANY WIT THE ONE HES CHEATING WIT
ANYBOBY FEELS ME?
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Vanessa B (f)
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No one, I'll just walk away and find someone who's happy with me,
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whitelexi (m)
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When a good man cheats, the lady should blame herself because its as a result of her failures, if the man is a bad man then she ought to look for someone else, u don't blame the bad man because u chose him in the first place! |
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dominobaby (f)
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Getn mad @ d lady is like chassing shadows when da real substance is right there. Talk things out with him.
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yemstar (f)
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When a good man cheats, the lady should blame herself because its as a result of her failures, if the man is a bad man then she ought to look for someone else, u don't blame the bad man because u chose him in the first place! What do you mean good man bad man if they cheat then that's bad period. No lady intentionally goes and picks a bad man to date it doesn't even make sense  If you claim a man is good then he is supposed to be faithful to his partner if things are not working out then he should call it quits instead of cheating.  Personally, I won't even waste my time being angry disappointed yes, mad naah, If my man decides to cheat on me then thats it, we are done, over, finito, sefini, any other word to describe THE END to whatever relationship we had |
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eveseh (f)
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surely i will get mad
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curiousNja (f)
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Of course you should get mad at him. Whoever he is cheating with doesn't owe you anything. Unless it is a friend or something and even then, you shoudl still get mad at him mostly.
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whitelexi (m)
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For the Ladies: Whats his problem? sit him down and talk with him, Guys hardly tell u everything bothering them but they let it out in bits and pieces or jokes, u have to be extra attentive to know all about ur man. Its not always easy to end a relationship especially when love's involved, but u can always work things out For the Men: I'm a man and i can tell u, sometimes its just so frustrating to stay with a particular woman because she brings u nothing but stress, she nags, she's rude, she's demanding, she's materialistic, she gets so annoying that u wonder what u were looking at when u started dating her in the first place! But still, the women are humans and can change if they know what's hurting u, All it takes is some quiet time together, good dialogue and everything starts resolving slowly. For Everyone: Take it or leave it, u were attracted to each other in the first place and if u're already married, then u're left wit each other for life! the best way is not to fight a stranger or call it quits and expect to not be hurt, if u think u got ur revenge by leaving a man or woman who cheated, then u r wrong, all u did was give him/her his freedom to continue with the other person. Everyone deserves a second chance but not many give it |
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mamaput (f)
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When a good man cheats, the lady should blame herself because its as a result of her failures, if the man is a bad man then she ought to look for someone else, u don't blame the bad man because u chose him in the first place! So i will blame my hair style or my sex talent.Maybe the way i cook. I may also blame my kids because my body is no more what it was before i had them. Or my age. A man that cheats is not worth my love , i will do nothing just nothing and i will start living my life the way i want. I will go were i want when i want and also sleep with who i want. The best part i will not even try to hide it. I will tell him about it. |
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Anabib (f)
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HIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM! BLAME HIM! I HAVE NO BIZ WITH THE OTHER LADY. For the Men: I'm a man and i can tell u, sometimes its just so frustrating to stay with a particular woman because she brings u nothing but stress, she nags, she's rude, she's demanding, she's materialistic, she gets so annoying that u wonder what u were looking at when u started dating her in the first place! But still, the women are humans and can change if they know what's hurting u, All it takes is some quiet time together, good dialogue and everything starts resolving slowly. For Everyone: Take it or leave it, u were attracted to each other in the first place and if u're already married, then u're left wit each other for life! the best way is not to fight a stranger or call it quits and expect to not be hurt, if u think u got your revenge by leaving a man or woman who cheated, then you're wrong, all u did was give him/her his freedom to continue with the other person. Everyone deserves a second chance but not many give it A MAN THAT CANNOT RESPECT YOU AND ZIP UP HIS D*CK WERE OTHER LADIES ARE CONCERNED IS NOT WORTH IT. MEN SHLD ASK THEMSELVES: CAN I ACCEPT IT IF THE CIRCUMSTANCES IS TURNED? |
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kimba (m)
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you can pick a fight with the other lady if "He" isnt your true Man!!
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whitelexi (m)
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HIMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM!
BLAME HIM!
I HAVE NO BIZ WITH THE OTHER LADY.
A MAN THAT CANNOT RESPECT YOU AND ZIP UP HIS D*CK WERE OTHER LADIES ARE CONCERNED IS NOT WORTH IT.
MEN SHLD ASK THEMSELVES: CAN I ACCEPT IT IF THE CIRCUMSTANCES IS TURNED?
Thats totally out of it, a man has no justification for cheating but i tell u, in most cases it is actually the women who drive them out to cheat. When a man cannot get home and rest in peace, when she's always picking a fight, when he dreads the thought of going home after work, slowly you're losing him. Believe it or not, u may speak it easy because ur not in the situation yet or u don't want to be realistic, but thats the truth. |
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kiki (f)
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y u want to be mad at d gurl its not her fault if ur man had put is ding-a-ling where he suppose t she ain't gon be on I'm and the man shiit just put him in the cabage he ain't worth it
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GNature (m)
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The thing is, most of the ladies on this thread are saying they would
be mad at their man, not the lady he cheated with.
But the truth of the matter is that, 9 times out of 10, women tend to
pick fights with the lady as opposed to their man. That is really how
it is practically or "in real life".
To me, it's like women carry more weight on the lady not respecting her
relationship than her man not respecting her enough not to cheat on her.
No one has really explained why this is the case.
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GNature (m)
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@whitelexi
Kai, you have a lot of wisdom o. Thanks for sharing it with us.
I definately agree with you wholeheartedly.
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