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wirinet
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #128 on: March 05, 2008, 11:13 AM »

Sex Ignorance is huge problem while sex educaion can be power. now if you conduct of societies comparing their  level of sexual education and awareness with problems associated with sex and marriage, you will find out that countries that are open to sex (not pornography) and accept sex as part of normal development are usually free of most of the problems associated with sex. Eg scandinavian countries where sex is taught and shown it its true form and women (and men too) are allowed to express their sexuality have few cases of sexual deseases, divorces and teen age pregnancy. but countries that claim religious piety like Nigeria where girls are expected to dress like nuns and hajiya(moslem nuns) have huge problems like AIDS, Teen age pregnancy, Abortions ( over 75,000 per yr).

As i have been trying to explain Sex is a part of existence (outside or inside marriage) and in modern society where people do not marry until their 30s, abstaining from sex all together is against nature.

Your sexual desire follows hormonal cycle(assuming you have normal balanced hormones). For a man the level of testetorone is highest in the early morning when your bladder is full ( morning urine contains high levels of hormones), And whether you think of sex or not your privates would be as hard as rock and you may even bed wet until you piss before it comes down.

For women the level of hormones is highest when she is ovulating ( that is when the level of estrogen is highest), and her breast whould be fullest and see is most easily turned on, until ovulation I'm jobless.

I am explaining all these for all the people is this thread to understand sex and sexuality better and deal with it more effectively, instead of living in a state of self denial (hyprocrisy)
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #129 on: March 05, 2008, 11:18 AM »

Quote from: almondjoy on March 05, 2008, 11:07 AM
Yes, what do you have to show for your life except hepatic blisters on you tomatoe lips!  From too much "oko mala" sucking?  Your thighs have everything to do with it because guys on Nairaland are complaining you want to suffocate them with elephantisis! Cheesy

My failure shows and very glaring too.  Tell us what you have accomplish in your sooo sooooo young life besides dancing naked on Nairaland!  Idiot.  I say tell me more--Oloda Rabata! Kiss

This ma marriage dey pain you I swear.  I say I get band not ring!  You are busy having religious "promise and frienship" rings to match your zodiac sign as a token of your customers' love.  Sorry darling, I am not in your league.  Kpele OooooooooooooH! Cheesy

Ermmm. . I hate lies. Which "guys" complained? Grin You are sick.lol

Dancing naked on Nairaland? Why you behaving like those jealous prostitutes in Nigeria? I have a life outside Nairaland unlike you. Grin

Your marriage ain't paining me. I just pity your kids for having such a failure as a mother. Your hubby shouldn't be far from what you are. Otherwise, you wouldn't be together.

Forget me and marriage. I'll let you know when I'm ready. Idiot  Grin
almondjoy (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #130 on: March 05, 2008, 11:24 AM »

@R-Dynamite,

Are you tired? Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin

Cheap "phock on credit" slut!

I am at work while I get paid to type all these love letters to you.  Please see you when you guys have something interesting for me.  IDIOTS!

Quote from: R-Dynamite on March 05, 2008, 11:18 AM
Ermmm. . I hate lies. Which "guys" complained? Grin You are sick.lol

Dancing naked on Nairaland? Why you behaving like those jealous prostitues in Nigeria? I have a life outside Nairaland unlike you. Grin
our marriage ain't paining me. I just pity your kids for having such a failure as a mother. Your hubby shouldn't be far from what you are. Otherwise, you wouldn't be together.

Forget me and marriage. I'll let you know when I'm ready. Idiot Grin

Oh there you are! Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy

Please check the latest YIM revelations for your story. It will be circulated soon. I just got a "sneak preview" of all your activities here. You know you belong to [b]the amebo group of tribes.   I do mine in the open here so no secret. I am a married woman with privileges ok? Freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to do as a please.  Who is worried about you? Are you not a "madam de madam" Nairaland?  You are a very resourceful "spring chicken"!  You old layer shitting all over Naiaraland with your PID!  Please go and cure yourself before you smear "Pussy Pus" all over Nairaland!   You stinking piece of cow dung!

When are you going to be ready?  When your breast exist only in "spiritual" forms. The kinds you can only have faith in but cannot touch? Grin Cheesy Grin Cheesy Grin Mine are still in the "seeing is believing" stages.  Yours. . . . . ."if only you believe". . . they are there! Cheesy

Off to do my "phockin" last round jare.  Let me give you time to recollect your thoughts on this thread.  To prove I have a very cosy job. You nko?  Drop out!  Later, bitch! Kiss
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #131 on: March 05, 2008, 11:27 AM »

Quote from: almondjoy on March 05, 2008, 11:24 AM
Please check the latest YIM revelations for you story.  It will be circulated soon.  I just got a "sneak preview" of all your activities here. 

Forget this topic now. We have a new topic to discuss. Please post all my YIM convos you've got. I'm waiting.
aisha2 (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #132 on: March 05, 2008, 11:28 AM »

Ducking to aviod any missile. This is the war of all wars, abeg make una kiss and make up, this one na forum, no need to hate and quarel, one love.
almondjoy (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #133 on: March 05, 2008, 11:31 AM »

Quote from: R-Dynamite on March 05, 2008, 11:27 AM
Forget this topic now. We have a new topic to discuss. Please post all my YIM convos you've got. I'm waiting.

Which new topic?  Seat here and gossip!  Let me thrash that your PID infected uterus full of abortion scars! Cheesy Ashewo dustbin!!!! Cheesy

Are you tired I ask?  BLOCK HEAD!!!!! Cheesy

At least I have posted ma pics and family pics here.  You cannot even boast of a phocking potted plant to call your own.  You lonely, miserable spiritual harlot! Kiss
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #134 on: March 05, 2008, 11:35 AM »

Quote from: almondjoy on March 05, 2008, 11:31 AM
Which new topic.  Seat here and gossip!  Let me thrash that your PID infected uterus full of abortion scars! Cheesy Ashewo dustbin!!!! Cheesy

Are you tired I say!  BLOCK HEAD!!!!!

Forget abortion and prostitution. Where's the YIM convo? Yes I'm tired of the 'old' topic. I'm very interested in this new one by you. Please, let's discuss it. Don't 'shame' away. You bloody animal. I hate lies so, please I begging for the convo.
efuah (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #135 on: March 05, 2008, 11:39 AM »

dynamite n AJ. . . argggggggggg Angry Angry Angry i need a horse whip now! Angry
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #136 on: March 05, 2008, 11:39 AM »

Quote from: almondjoy on March 05, 2008, 11:31 AM
At least I have posted ma pics and family pics here.  You cannot even boast of a phocking potted plant to call your own.  You lonely, miserable spiritual harlot! Kiss

Good for you. I'm sure that's all you've managed to achieve in your sorry life. Don't worry about me. Fix your head.

You think shouting about means you're sane? You got it all wrong. Keep ranting. The more you misyarn the more I step on your carotids.

sperrysun (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #137 on: March 05, 2008, 11:41 AM »

@Almondjoy.

I was really impressed with the first response you posted on this thread.But now I must say I am a bit disturbed.I always say God's greatest gift to mankind the gift of freewill,and so we are all entitled to ours,don't you think so?I am disturbed because you say you have kids(4),I wonder what any of them would think if they see any of your numerous scathing posts replete with all known (and unknown )swear words .I think parents are supposed to teach children how to deal with issues and not persons and in a civil way.And as the saying goes,'you cannot give what you don't have'

Its just an observation from a 'new' member of Nairaland.
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #138 on: March 05, 2008, 11:43 AM »

Efuah, please don't stress yourself. This woman thinks she can just shut anyone up with all her nonsense posts. I got her drugs. Ain't one of them cats on Nairaland.

Still waiting for the convo, you twat.
Ziggy_mama
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #139 on: March 05, 2008, 11:59 AM »

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. . . . . . Undecided
Ujujoan (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #140 on: March 05, 2008, 12:08 PM »

Beware Nairalanders, there’s a Rabid Dog on the loose by the name ‘AlmondJay’. She eats her shit for breakfast and takes crap for dinner. She also accomplished a very great mission in Nairaland – displaying herself as the jobless-no good-slut. Her followers are dried up retired prostitutes like herself. She displays her ‘intelligence’ by posting garbage she picked up from the ghetto. Rumour has it that she has a really wide vagina which she claims is from childbirth but we Nairalanders know better. And oh, did I mention she’s miserably unhappy in her ‘supposed’ marriage? Yea!! That’s why she’s busy ‘phocking’ around instead of tending to her husband and kids.

Quote from: almondjoy on March 05, 2008, 11:06 AM
Ooooooooooooooooooooh! Baby Ujujoan.  Please where is the wedding invitation?  Have you been jilted again.  You will soon set a record on Nairaland. Most eligible Nairaland religious "phock and repent" spinster! Cheesy

he he he he he he he!  I don close you matter you here.  Go and phock all you want without repenting. It won't kill you.  You are just doing the only thing you know how to do and you are so gooooooooooooooooooooood at it. The reason your lover jilted you, after dumpin' all that mileage on your filthy arse!

Next!  I say! Cheesy

I can see you are obsessed with me any my upcoming wedding, get a hold of yourself girl, if you are good, I just might send you that invitation. Wink



chrisoml (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #141 on: March 05, 2008, 12:15 PM »

I just learned one more thing here today on this very thread, that is  things to look out 4 while making choice for an ideal life partner  which will sure give u real peace at home as man and listens to u when advised.
Am out of here. i mean this very thread. the only thing that will make me to return is to make sure no obituary will be announced.
Peace.
somze (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #142 on: March 05, 2008, 12:17 PM »

Gosh you guys, I would have been fired just now,

My manager, HOD and Director of Operations just came in. Thank God some one came in and informed me of their presence.

They would have caught me browsing this shit on Nairaland.

I for kill all of una o - Almondjoy, Rdynamite - I swear  Grin

Abeg I don't comot, I hear say CTO go soon come too.

Angry Angry Angry Angry
aisha2 (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #143 on: March 05, 2008, 12:22 PM »

@Somze, ah be careful oh. But the fight was really interesting. I reserve further comments sha.
Abeg, no dey look omen fight oh, it could be really dangerous
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #144 on: March 05, 2008, 12:22 PM »

Lol. . Somze, don't loose your job. There's time for everything  Tongue Grin
PLC
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #145 on: March 05, 2008, 12:24 PM »

But PLC is asking - where is that idiot, shameless bastard smelling ass D-reloaded?  I want 2 drop one missile o!  It will soon land. Cheesy  Where is that stupid?  I want that stupid D-reloaded.  So, you guys should stop fighting.  It's my turn to fight that smelling ashewo ass. Cheesy  As a well known born again Christian - my bible is kept behind for now.
holythug (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #146 on: March 05, 2008, 12:25 PM »

*rolls eyes* comments reserved
mikkyphp (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #147 on: March 05, 2008, 12:27 PM »

PLease stop the Ranting!!!!!

@almondjoy
i understand your position but which one consain u with the hypocrites???
leave them alone
david slept with Uriah's wife and she became pregnant. he put her husband in d frontline so he'd be killled. david wore sack cloth and repented of his sins,  and God forgave him
God refers to david as "a man after his heart"   David wasn't perfect!
so there's nothing wrong in falling and repenting;its just a step towards perfection just like David
holythug (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #148 on: March 05, 2008, 12:29 PM »

*changes mind* decides to stay as a war journalist, av to learn ow to duck missiles, bullets, grenades etc, etc, etc
Ujujoan (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #149 on: March 05, 2008, 12:33 PM »

Quote from: mikkyphp on March 05, 2008, 12:27 PM
PLease stop the Ranting!!!!!

@almondjoy
i understand your position but which one consain u with the hypocrites???
leave them alone
david slept with Uriah's wife and she became pregnant. he put her husband in d frontline so he'd be killled. david wore sack cloth and repented of his sins, and God forgave him
God refers to david as "a man after his heart"   David wasn't perfect!
so there's nothing wrong in falling and repenting;its just a step towards perfection just like David

You know what they say about only a witch knowing a witch, she's just displaying her hypocritical skills. Chill, Mik, she'll stop her ranting when she's tired, or when one of those her imaginary kids start having a siezure from eating her shit.
Chigotex (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #150 on: March 05, 2008, 01:01 PM »


 @Poster's post is not bad at all. It only admonishes us on what we can do to help ourselves out of this sweet devil that is capable of robbing us God's Kingdom.

AJ, I just want to drop this for u: There er those who really want to please God but because of the weak body they keep falling. But if one falls and gets up, there is hope. But the tragedy is when u fall and remain at the pit claiming its right.

May God have mercy on us all. Amen
holythug (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #151 on: March 05, 2008, 01:09 PM »

reportin for Nairaland news. . .live frm wherever. . .d news in details. . . to be continued
kola oloye (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #152 on: March 05, 2008, 01:14 PM »

  @chigotex,              
      amen and amen, thanks a lot.

@holythug,
     please let your news be of peace because we are tired of all these bomb shells.
efuah (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #153 on: March 05, 2008, 01:17 PM »

Chigotex, Amen! to that prayer.
R-Dynamite (f)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #154 on: March 05, 2008, 01:19 PM »

The funny thing is that, the poster didn't even say we should stop. He freaking wanted to tell us how we can stop premarital sex (from the biblical point of view) and still enjoy our relationship till marriage. Only for this dirt of AJ to turn it into a "phockers" club. Who cares how much you f*uck? Save the details for your sorry self. You're married so u can f*uck as much as u want but allow those who are not practice what is right but wrong in your world. Bloody looser of a mother.

Reason before you post. Don't be voracious with words/replies. You don't have to prove anything to us. We already know you as AJ, what else d'u want? You want my "unintelligent bitch" title? OK! have it as long as you don't give up your life while craving for it.

Even those weh get mouth for Nairaland deh do am with style and class. The humour sef you go trip.

Keep barking. I see you've gone to get some rest. You need it after staying up all night replying me. Animal. What else are you good at?
mikkyphp (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #155 on: March 05, 2008, 01:29 PM »

BREAKING NEWS!!!!

The tussle between AJ and RD ravages on,
mikkyphp (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #156 on: March 05, 2008, 01:34 PM »

BREAKING NEWS!!!
oh! sorry, the war between AJ and everybody tears nairalanders apart
olulu
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #157 on: March 05, 2008, 01:37 PM »

Quote from: R-Dynamite on March 05, 2008, 01:19 PM
The funny thing is that, the poster didn't even say we should stop. He freaking wanted to tell us how we can stop premarital sex (from the biblical point of view) and still enjoy our relationship till marriage. Only for this dirt of AJ to turn it into a "phockers" club. Who cares how much you f*uck? Save the details for your sorry self. You're married so u can f*uck as much as u want but allow those who are not practice what is right but wrong in your world. Bloody looser of a mother.

Reason before you post. Don't be voracious with words/replies. You don't have to prove anything to us. We already know you as AJ, what else d'u want? You want my "unintelligent bitch" title? OK! have it as long as you don't give up your life while craving for it.

Even those weh get mouth for Nairaland deh do am with style and class. The humour sef you go trip.

Keep barking. I see you've gone to get some rest. You need it after staying up all night replying me. Animal. What else are you good at?


wow, what a woman
i love it when talk angry, makes them sound  sexy  sensible

 Grin
holythug (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #158 on: March 05, 2008, 01:46 PM »

 even CNN no dey  report peace 88% of dia news is based on disasters & war
Quote from: kola oloye on March 05, 2008, 01:14 PM
  @chigotex,             
 amen and amen, thanks a lot.

@holythug,
 please let your news be of peace because we are tired of all these bomb shells.

that is d end of daiz mon
holythug (m)
Re: How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage
« #159 on: March 05, 2008, 01:52 PM »

Quote from: mikkyphp on March 05, 2008, 01:34 PM
BREAKING NEWS!!!
oh! sorry, the war between AJ and everybody tears nairalanders apart
yea. . .that is my co-journalist . . .for Nairaland news
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