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LadyT (f)
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@Lady T
Who told you assumption is DANGEROUS?
Assumption = guess, estimate, reason, no consequence/no proof--- no matter it is wrong or right!
But lying is worse, DANGEROUS! Lie = Dishonesty, distrust, deceit, fool, sly as a fox, slick, goes on listing===it has consequence---GUILTY AS CHARGE! !
My darling Uspry1 if you assume a gun is not loaded and you fire your making a dangerous decision on dangerous assumption |
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nutinikole
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@ spoilt LOL GOOD ONE!  |
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Scarlett (f)
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Nutinikole
You ahvent told us what you are going to do afterall
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olrotimi (m)
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why play dumb, tell the mumu dude the truth.he.ll love you more.
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spoilt (f)
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Would you like for me to post the MANY MANY threads showing otherwise
between since when does assumption equate "trusting", You people are ridiculous. @TOH i thought i imagined all those other threads! Thank goodness you saw them threads where guys are whining about the absence of hymens. |
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spoilt (f)
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since when did it become a crime to assume? @4him it is a crime punishable by suprise! |
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spoilt (f)
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Who died and make him King Disvirginer? @ ladyt apparently he crowned himself. |
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4Him (m)
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no wahala . . . the guy will simply reward the surprise with a sack letter. |
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spoilt (f)
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no wahala . . . the guy will simply reward the surprise with a sack letter. now why would that not suprise me?  non virgins are looking for virgins. wonders. |
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4Him (m)
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for the upteenth time it is not the virginity status of the chic that is in question but her trust.
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spoilt (f)
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and for the upteenth time, yeah right!  |
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4 Play (m)
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While not overly concerned with virginity,in this case,the woman made virginity an issue by creating the impression she was one.
Having done so,she then proceeds,unprompted,to convey a false image of the issue she created.Well,it shows bad judgment and dishonesty on her part.Certainly not something you sweep under the carpet.
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D-reloaded (f)
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how did she create this impression, 4Play spoilt, you're insane lol  |
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somze (m)
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how did she create this impression, 4Play spoilt, you're insane lol She accepted when he suggested she was a virgin Now we know how one-sided a woman's narration of happenings can be, why not think of the guy's version. She created the mentality that virginity was important unless she would have set it straight in the first place, instead she made the relationship a lie. She lied continuously and now she wants sex, she finds herself in a fix. No disrespect intended |
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nutinikole
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@scarlett I'm looking at my options!!!
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spoilt (f)
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While not overly concerned with virginity,in this case,the woman made virginity an issue by creating the impression she was one.
Having done so,she then proceeds,unprompted,to convey a false image of the issue she created.Well,it shows bad judgment and dishonesty on her part.Certainly not something you sweep under the carpet.
how exactly did she create this impression? didnt she say he assumed she was one because she had high morals and was innocent or something like that? wasnt she just being herself? Guys are so used to girls falling all over them like hot sticky honey that if a girl doesnt immediately fall into their beds within days naked, with legs wide open they assume she must be a virgin. for all you know, he has not even asked her outright about her virginal status but she's probably able to read what he's thinking. I don't see her crime. really i don't. the part i find confusing is why she thinks he has a right to be upset when he finds out that what he had assumed isn't correct. |
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D-reloaded (f)
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There's no where in that first postb where she said she "suggested" anything.
Anyway somze, My question was posted TO 4Play. Not you.
Thanks.
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Scarlett (f)
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Nutinikole,
The only option you should look at is the option of telling the truth
Trust is the important thing here, he would probably be hurt for a while if
you tell him now, but the longer you allow this to take hold, the more dangerous it could be
and it would transcend from being just about your virginity into something bigger, talk about an
Everest out of a handful of sand!
And you don't want him hearing from someone else, trust me!
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LadyT (f)
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I'm getting confused with 4him and 4play its making me angry!
You know her not being a virgin is the real issue,
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morenike09 (f)
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hmmmmmmmmmm!!  confusion---> anger |
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stillwater (f)
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@poster,just give him the bombshell "I'm not a virgin". I would like to know if his jaw dropped . Do come back and tell us on nairaland what happened. |
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annboga (f)
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Hey gurlfy,that's a very silly n childish thing to do.
U dnt av to lie to keep ur relationship working,
so,babe try n make amends n let the whole u're
innocent thing be real.
Quit faking yourself, n be real, safe.
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yemivictor (m)
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Hmmm . . . orisirisi! 
Here's a babe who was first of all phock'd & disvirgined by her ex, with her full consent, i might add!!
She turns around immediately to lament that ehn! . . . the ex's kini was small!!!
IN THE SAME VEIN!!!
She wants to be discharged & acquitted for having DELIBERATELY & MALICIOUSLY led another innocent bloke to WRONGLY assume/believe that she's a virgin! 
ALL OF THIS CRAP IN JUST ONE POST!?!?!
At times . . . i just wonder . . . i mean . . .it really beats me . . . what actually do babes of nowadays want from their men!? 
I just wonder . . .
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yemivictor (m)
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almondjoy!
Isn't this the height of hypocrisy!? 
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nutinikole
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well its about time we had some air headed replys i was beginning to think id only get insightful responses!
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Gamine (f)
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Oh well maám
Why don't you just keep pretending huh
maybe when you are old you can tell your kids that you are still a Virgin at 66
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yemivictor (m)
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well its about time we had some air headed replys i was beginning to think id only get insightful responses!
And by "insightful responses" you mean patting you on the back and saying well done for being a bloody hypocrite & the biggest joke of 2008 yet!?
Check your head . . . i think a screw might be loose!!! |
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nutinikole
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oh hunni this is nairaland!! its freedom of speech if i wanted a pat on the back (trust me) i wouldn be here!!!
so FINE! drop your criticism {I'm indifferent anyways} and drop an answer! its how you keep the thread going!
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nutinikole
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@ gamine clever pik!
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olulu
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Tell the guy jo and i can predict the next thing he will want to do is jump into your pants, i once went out with a girl for 2 years thinking she was a virgin, i thought it was only my 3rd leg that wouldn't go in, but that fingers can. boy, was i mad when i got to know my naivity. made me turn her into a play thing.  But the truth is better said, than kept, makes it easy to deal with things. But, if he don't want u again, hmm, well, i can still help your condition |
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nossycheek (f)
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hmmmm. much ado about nothing
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