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seyy-k
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #128 on: March 04, 2008, 02:32 PM »

I think siena's advice and somze worthwhile.is either you take her  for what she is OR let her GO. Shocked
Nautillus (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #129 on: March 04, 2008, 02:37 PM »

Why are you making an issue out of nithing?? afterall, you wouldn't have known
Nada if you didnt go seaching.

Besides, everything happened before you guys hooked up so??dude, i once went steady 4 a year+ with a girl that had slept with 21 guys before me she's on my "top 2" best sex list till date Grin
mama orga (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #130 on: March 04, 2008, 03:39 PM »

 Pope if u love her please 4 get about all this
u hav a lot to look forward to in future
don't worry your head over this
stag (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #131 on: March 04, 2008, 03:41 PM »

Quote from: Nautillus on March 04, 2008, 02:37 PM
Besides, everything happened before you guys hooked up so

EXACTLY! SO WHY THE LIES

Quote from: Nautillus on March 04, 2008, 02:37 PM
sub]dude, i once went steady 4 a year+ with a girl that had slept with 21 guys before me[/sub] she's on my "top 2" best sex list till date Grin

 Shocked  Shocked  Grin
dosituga
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #132 on: March 04, 2008, 04:36 PM »

, well,just know that a scar can never be as smooth as a body again.Sorry to say,continuation in that union wont last for long and psycologically,you will wont be balanced as long as you are 2gether.
dosituga
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #133 on: March 04, 2008, 04:39 PM »

, well,just know that a scar can never be as smooth as a body again.Sorry to say,continuation in that union wont last for long and psycologically,you wont be balanced as long as you are 2gether.
KDB (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #134 on: March 05, 2008, 12:14 AM »

my brother let her go, she should have come out clean right from the start, as she didnt, what stops her from tellin another one?? maannn, let her go,
Raimond (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #135 on: March 05, 2008, 09:23 AM »

It is said ``Let sleeping dogs lie``.Trying to find out about your partner`s past wont boost your relationship,but in most cases will bring resentment and bad-blood.If you really love her, then let the past slide and think of ways of making your relationship better, especially if you have the intention of marrying her.

There are people that are not so comfortable talking about their past squeezes, especially if they were messy and hurting.
Dalby (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #136 on: March 05, 2008, 10:31 AM »

Quote from: Ambber on March 04, 2008, 02:20 PM
oh shut up! just shut the hell up and get a grip on yourself, is she the only one you have ever dated? who is counting for you? why should you count for her, what should matter to you now is going forward, if she is not cheating on you now. then why blow your fuse? would you ever date a girl and not sleep with her? how many have you dated and how many have you rolled in the hay with?


stop being hyprocritical because she didnt marry the 1st guy who declared undying love for her. deal with it or leave it

The difference is that he is not lying about his past Wink

Why do girls do that anyway Undecided
rof-lmao
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #137 on: March 05, 2008, 03:46 PM »

Well if you were so worried you should've applied number 3 to what she told you. To remind you it's multiplication for girls and division for guys! And in general the average girl will have more sexual partners in her life time than a guy so the odds of you landing a bird whose done fewer numbers than yourself are pretty slim my friend.

I reiterate what's been said already: if you're really bothered then don't ask and don't go investigating because you won't like what you'll find. Just enjoy yourself kid and next time don't be naive.
Shokoloko (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #138 on: March 05, 2008, 11:14 PM »

We've all done stuff but we let go. Ladies lie because we have been brought up by our mothers to be chaste until marriage while formen it's an accepted thing. i don't blame her. a lot of girls do it and will do it.
@ poster leave her, your mind is already affected and things will never be the way they used to be. i know that for a fact. tell her and take a bow.
olamidayo (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #139 on: March 06, 2008, 08:13 AM »

Honestly u should av known that, everybody has his/her past,  infact I personally like to tell my lover my past at the initial stage just because what others outside d relationship will say might scartter d beautiful plan all just because they can't find someone that love them. Anyway if i may ask those your cousins are they virgin? av they not mesed up their lives as well?or maybe they are yet to find the right digger that can dig it 4 them? in as much theyare too are not virgins,what d hell are they talkin of,  please if u truly love your girl just forget what others say in as much they can't marry and u can't marry them,  and another point remember that marriage is an enternal contract, if u think that what ohers say will not make u to give her all joy of marriage just leave her for i'm sure her hubby that will take her 4 anything '''she was,she is and she will be ''.
tRoOE (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #140 on: March 06, 2008, 08:23 AM »

If we start judging each other by their pasts then everyone will stay single.

I dislike people that talk too freaking much or those talk, he/she said things, that’s why I don't have friends or people around me, busy body people.

And why are you listening to what people told you, why can't you trust your girl.

If you are not interested in her anymore just come out and tell her straight up, so she doesn't think the relationship is leading any where

bedese
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #141 on: March 06, 2008, 12:34 PM »

o boy,2 me i advise u leave your cousins n face your girl because from wot we see these days n with wot girls do,person no fit near them at all.just catch your fun b good guy unless u found something otherwise,then change NETWORK!
onyeka_ng (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #142 on: March 06, 2008, 01:31 PM »

i think Siena is right.besides u ave 2 stop listening to people when it comes to your relationship, and put the past behind and move on if u truely love her, let it all go.
Bazz1905
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #143 on: March 06, 2008, 06:01 PM »

Bros, which one be your own. You be oyibo abi Naija. Whats your own if your sleeps with a black guy. As much as you are criticising your girl i think you are worse off.
1. You are most likely a racist if you are white.
2. You are a hypocrite. I can bet my life you have slept with other girls and ended up not marrying them.

Guy you need to check yourself. Maybe you fit visit Yaba by left. Tongue
pope732901 (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #144 on: March 07, 2008, 03:34 PM »

Quote from: Bazz1905 on March 06, 2008, 06:01 PM
Bros, which one be your own. You be oyibo abi Naija. Whats your own if your sleeps with a black guy. As much as you are criticising your girl i think you are worse off.
1. You are most likely a racist if you are white.
2. You are a hypocrite. I can bet my life you have slept with other girls and ended up not marrying them.

Guy you need to check yourself. Maybe you fit visit Yaba by left. Tongue

Bazz honestly speaking, you're mentally disable. You lack manners, and I suspect you must have been brought up in a polluted environment.  Nairaland ought to scan ppls IQ before registration.

Oloshi
Marketiva
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #145 on: March 07, 2008, 05:47 PM »

the problem is not with your girl, as the saying whatever the eye looks out for is what it gets. so stop being selfish and move on with your girl, who knows if your replacement may turn out worse than this.
\
takia
Marketiva
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #146 on: March 07, 2008, 05:51 PM »

the problem is not with your girl but you, as a yoruba proverb goes,
whatever the eye looks out for is what it sees.
so stop searching for the past because it is always full of shit, and move on with your girl,
who knows if your replacement may turn out worse than her.

Big up
\
takia
pope732901 (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #147 on: March 07, 2008, 06:14 PM »

Quote from: Marketiva on March 07, 2008, 05:51 PM
the problem is not with your girl but you, as a yoruba proverb goes,
whatever the eye looks out for is what it sees.
so stop searching for the past because it is always full of shit, and move on with your girl,
who knows if your replacement may turn out worse than her.

Big up
\
takia

Thanks for that.
PurestBoy (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #148 on: March 07, 2008, 08:09 PM »

Pope please leave Bazz alone, you are the one who is mentally deranged. Landers should please shun this attention-seeker.
TOYOSI20 (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #149 on: March 07, 2008, 10:33 PM »

@ Post

Quit whining.  Tongue
Dalby (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #150 on: March 08, 2008, 11:13 AM »

Quote from: tRoOE on March 06, 2008, 08:23 AM
If we start judging each other by their pasts then everyone will stay single.

I dislike people that talk too freaking much or those talk, he/she said things, that’s why I don't have friends or people around me, busy body people.

And why are you listening to what people told you, why can't you trust your girl.

If you are not interested in her anymore just come out and tell her straight up, so she doesn't think the relationship is leading any where



His girl told him something which later turned out not to be true Undecided

Quote from: Marketiva on March 07, 2008, 05:51 PM
the problem is not with your girl but you, as a yoruba proverb goes,
whatever the eye looks out for is what it sees.
so stop searching for the past because it is always full of shit
, and move on with your girl,
who knows if your replacement may turn out worse than her.

Big up
\
takia

Dont you also think that the shit of the past will tell you the kind of shit to expect in the future Undecided

If someone who has been in a mental institution for say 4 years, 2 year before being discharged and given a clean bill of health, comes to your door to ask your daughters hand in marriage, will you follow your yoruba saying that it's the future that counts as such he can have her hand Huh
katherinae (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #151 on: March 08, 2008, 10:23 PM »

lol funny, well here is something for u, do u know how many men slept with your cousins?  Peace of advice, as long as your girlfriend, boyfriend, or spouse to be doesnt have any stds, their sexual past is none of your business.  I went out on a date with a guy who slept wtih so many girls.  Biggest mistake he made was telling me, because after that i couldnt even go out on a second date with the dude.  it goes both ways, me as a girl i don't like guys who sleep aroiund and vice versa.
oyiliagu
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #152 on: March 10, 2008, 05:40 PM »

is better you pick your own and pick race. this advice from sacn well, or if you fell that you can change her go on .
iykedee
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #153 on: March 12, 2008, 09:34 AM »

what do u mean by "black guy". u shld learn how to be respectful. I guess your girlfriend is wuz a whore. the question is whether she is still one
deekseen (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #154 on: March 12, 2008, 11:13 AM »

My brother, what i really think you should be concerned about is how to move the relationship forward.

She did those things in the past and probably didn't like them and wanted them to remain there - in the past. You liked her and you confessed to still feeling so much for her. If you really do, then i don't think this case should still be lingering.

Everyone has a past, i can't start bringing up every 'bad' thing in my past to the future just because i want to be in a relationship.

Go home to her if she's a good girl now. The probability of finding a girl whose story is different from hers is very minimal, thanks to guys.
DivaDivine
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #155 on: March 12, 2008, 05:15 PM »

Some things are best left in the dark. What is most important is now and the future. of what use would it be to u if she actually told u they were a 100? its wrong to be judgemental, i mean in our lives most of us have had course to do things we are not proud of so let it rest man.
Kemjisuper (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #156 on: March 12, 2008, 05:55 PM »

Sorry Bro, the count may go up to 10 if you persist in finding out.

If you can't handle it, go find a virgin!
randy (m)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #157 on: March 12, 2008, 08:45 PM »

QUOTE: SIENA
Besides, how many guys truthfully tell their girlfriends, all about their previous sexual partners? Have you told your girlfriend all about yours, and does she deserve to know?

guys don't lie about their past when they are down with u


pope,
if she can lie after asking her, then she still lying about alot of other things. and for your own good sha, follow your heart, if u cannot live with the revelations, bid the relationship goodbye, and if u think u can live with a liar, a WOMAN liar for that matter then this should be your last report about further revelations.

b warned
FactorChic (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #158 on: March 13, 2008, 11:29 PM »

The simple truth is, GUYS THINK THEY WANT TO KNOW THESE THINGS, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T!
I'VE SEEN LOTS OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS, THE RELATIONSHIP IS FINE TILL THEY START TALKING ABOUT THEIR PASTS! A LADY WILL NOT GET MAD IF A GUY TELLS HER HOW MANY LADIES HE HAS SLEPT WITH, BTU LET THE LADY TELL THE GUY HER OWN PART. HE WILL GET MAD, AND START LOOKING AT HER LIKE SHE'S SOME KINDA HOE! SO, LADIES LIE ABOUT IT! GUYS THINK THEY WANNA KNOW, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T!

@ POSTER, IF You DEY LOOK FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIP, You GO FORGET DIS RUBBISH ABOUT UR GIRL SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLE, IT WAS IND PAST, RIGHT?
OPARI
Sara1981 (f)
Re: Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners
« #159 on: March 14, 2008, 08:06 AM »

Quote
The simple truth is, GUYS THINK THEY WANT TO KNOW THESE THINGS, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T!
I'VE SEEN LOTS OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS, THE RELATIONSHIP IS FINE TILL THEY START TALKING ABOUT THEIR PASTS! A LADY WILL NOT GET MAD IF A GUY TELLS HER HOW MANY LADIES HE HAS SLEPT WITH, BTU LET THE LADY TELL THE GUY HER OWN PART. HE WILL GET MAD, AND START LOOKING AT HER LIKE SHE'S SOME KINDA HOE! SO, LADIES LIE ABOUT IT! GUYS THINK THEY WANNA KNOW, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T!

@ POSTER, IF You DEY LOOK FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIP, You GO FORGET DIS RUBBISH ABOUT UR GIRL SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLE, IT WAS IND PAST, RIGHT?
OPARI


Dats why i'm saving myself till i get married.  Even if it means not ever having sex at all. Keeps your legs closed ladies! Guys are dogs!
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