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seyy-k
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I think siena's advice and somze worthwhile.is either you take her for what she is OR let her GO. 
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Nautillus (m)
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Why are you making an issue out of nithing?? afterall, you wouldn't have known Nada if you didnt go seaching. Besides, everything happened before you guys hooked up so?? dude, i once went steady 4 a year+ with a girl that had slept with 21 guys before me she's on my "top 2" best sex list till date 
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mama orga (f)
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Pope if u love her please 4 get about all this u hav a lot to look forward to in future don't worry your head over this
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stag (m)
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Besides, everything happened before you guys hooked up so EXACTLY! SO WHY THE LIES sub]dude, i once went steady 4 a year+ with a girl that had slept with 21 guys before me[/sub] she's on my "top 2" best sex list till date  
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dosituga
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, well,just know that a scar can never be as smooth as a body again.Sorry to say,continuation in that union wont last for long and psycologically,you will wont be balanced as long as you are 2gether.
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dosituga
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, well,just know that a scar can never be as smooth as a body again.Sorry to say,continuation in that union wont last for long and psycologically,you wont be balanced as long as you are 2gether.
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KDB (m)
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my brother let her go, she should have come out clean right from the start, as she didnt, what stops her from tellin another one?? maannn, let her go,
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Raimond (m)
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It is said ``Let sleeping dogs lie``.Trying to find out about your partner`s past wont boost your relationship,but in most cases will bring resentment and bad-blood.If you really love her, then let the past slide and think of ways of making your relationship better, especially if you have the intention of marrying her.
There are people that are not so comfortable talking about their past squeezes, especially if they were messy and hurting.
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Dalby (m)
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oh shut up! just shut the hell up and get a grip on yourself, is she the only one you have ever dated? who is counting for you? why should you count for her, what should matter to you now is going forward, if she is not cheating on you now. then why blow your fuse? would you ever date a girl and not sleep with her? how many have you dated and how many have you rolled in the hay with?
stop being hyprocritical because she didnt marry the 1st guy who declared undying love for her. deal with it or leave it
The difference is that he is not lying about his past  Why do girls do that anyway 
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rof-lmao
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Well if you were so worried you should've applied number 3 to what she told you. To remind you it's multiplication for girls and division for guys! And in general the average girl will have more sexual partners in her life time than a guy so the odds of you landing a bird whose done fewer numbers than yourself are pretty slim my friend.
I reiterate what's been said already: if you're really bothered then don't ask and don't go investigating because you won't like what you'll find. Just enjoy yourself kid and next time don't be naive.
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Shokoloko (f)
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We've all done stuff but we let go. Ladies lie because we have been brought up by our mothers to be chaste until marriage while formen it's an accepted thing. i don't blame her. a lot of girls do it and will do it. @ poster leave her, your mind is already affected and things will never be the way they used to be. i know that for a fact. tell her and take a bow.
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olamidayo (f)
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Honestly u should av known that, everybody has his/her past, infact I personally like to tell my lover my past at the initial stage just because what others outside d relationship will say might scartter d beautiful plan all just because they can't find someone that love them. Anyway if i may ask those your cousins are they virgin? av they not mesed up their lives as well?or maybe they are yet to find the right digger that can dig it 4 them? in as much theyare too are not virgins,what d hell are they talkin of, please if u truly love your girl just forget what others say in as much they can't marry and u can't marry them, and another point remember that marriage is an enternal contract, if u think that what ohers say will not make u to give her all joy of marriage just leave her for i'm sure her hubby that will take her 4 anything '''she was,she is and she will be ''.
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tRoOE (f)
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If we start judging each other by their pasts then everyone will stay single.
I dislike people that talk too freaking much or those talk, he/she said things, that’s why I don't have friends or people around me, busy body people.
And why are you listening to what people told you, why can't you trust your girl.
If you are not interested in her anymore just come out and tell her straight up, so she doesn't think the relationship is leading any where
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bedese
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o boy,2 me i advise u leave your cousins n face your girl because from wot we see these days n with wot girls do,person no fit near them at all.just catch your fun b good guy unless u found something otherwise,then change NETWORK!
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onyeka_ng (f)
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i think Siena is right.besides u ave 2 stop listening to people when it comes to your relationship, and put the past behind and move on if u truely love her, let it all go.
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Bazz1905
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Bros, which one be your own. You be oyibo abi Naija. Whats your own if your sleeps with a black guy. As much as you are criticising your girl i think you are worse off. 1. You are most likely a racist if you are white. 2. You are a hypocrite. I can bet my life you have slept with other girls and ended up not marrying them. Guy you need to check yourself. Maybe you fit visit Yaba by left. 
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pope732901 (m)
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Bros, which one be your own. You be oyibo abi Naija. Whats your own if your sleeps with a black guy. As much as you are criticising your girl i think you are worse off. 1. You are most likely a racist if you are white. 2. You are a hypocrite. I can bet my life you have slept with other girls and ended up not marrying them. Guy you need to check yourself. Maybe you fit visit Yaba by left.  Bazz honestly speaking, you're mentally disable. You lack manners, and I suspect you must have been brought up in a polluted environment. Nairaland ought to scan ppls IQ before registration. Oloshi
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Marketiva
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the problem is not with your girl, as the saying whatever the eye looks out for is what it gets. so stop being selfish and move on with your girl, who knows if your replacement may turn out worse than this. \ takia
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Marketiva
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the problem is not with your girl but you, as a yoruba proverb goes, whatever the eye looks out for is what it sees. so stop searching for the past because it is always full of shit, and move on with your girl, who knows if your replacement may turn out worse than her.
Big up \ takia
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pope732901 (m)
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the problem is not with your girl but you, as a yoruba proverb goes, whatever the eye looks out for is what it sees. so stop searching for the past because it is always full of shit, and move on with your girl, who knows if your replacement may turn out worse than her.
Big up \ takia
Thanks for that.
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PurestBoy (m)
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Pope please leave Bazz alone, you are the one who is mentally deranged. Landers should please shun this attention-seeker.
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TOYOSI20 (f)
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@ Post Quit whining. 
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Dalby (m)
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If we start judging each other by their pasts then everyone will stay single.
I dislike people that talk too freaking much or those talk, he/she said things, that’s why I don't have friends or people around me, busy body people.
And why are you listening to what people told you, why can't you trust your girl.
If you are not interested in her anymore just come out and tell her straight up, so she doesn't think the relationship is leading any where
His girl told him something which later turned out not to be true  the problem is not with your girl but you, as a yoruba proverb goes, whatever the eye looks out for is what it sees. so stop searching for the past because it is always full of shit, and move on with your girl, who knows if your replacement may turn out worse than her.
Big up \ takia
Dont you also think that the shit of the past will tell you the kind of shit to expect in the future  If someone who has been in a mental institution for say 4 years, 2 year before being discharged and given a clean bill of health, comes to your door to ask your daughters hand in marriage, will you follow your yoruba saying that it's the future that counts as such he can have her hand 
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katherinae (f)
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lol funny, well here is something for u, do u know how many men slept with your cousins? Peace of advice, as long as your girlfriend, boyfriend, or spouse to be doesnt have any stds, their sexual past is none of your business. I went out on a date with a guy who slept wtih so many girls. Biggest mistake he made was telling me, because after that i couldnt even go out on a second date with the dude. it goes both ways, me as a girl i don't like guys who sleep aroiund and vice versa.
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oyiliagu
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is better you pick your own and pick race. this advice from sacn well, or if you fell that you can change her go on .
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iykedee
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what do u mean by "black guy". u shld learn how to be respectful. I guess your girlfriend is wuz a whore. the question is whether she is still one
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deekseen (m)
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My brother, what i really think you should be concerned about is how to move the relationship forward.
She did those things in the past and probably didn't like them and wanted them to remain there - in the past. You liked her and you confessed to still feeling so much for her. If you really do, then i don't think this case should still be lingering.
Everyone has a past, i can't start bringing up every 'bad' thing in my past to the future just because i want to be in a relationship.
Go home to her if she's a good girl now. The probability of finding a girl whose story is different from hers is very minimal, thanks to guys.
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DivaDivine
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Some things are best left in the dark. What is most important is now and the future. of what use would it be to u if she actually told u they were a 100? its wrong to be judgemental, i mean in our lives most of us have had course to do things we are not proud of so let it rest man.
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Kemjisuper (m)
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Sorry Bro, the count may go up to 10 if you persist in finding out.
If you can't handle it, go find a virgin!
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randy (m)
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QUOTE: SIENA Besides, how many guys truthfully tell their girlfriends, all about their previous sexual partners? Have you told your girlfriend all about yours, and does she deserve to know?
guys don't lie about their past when they are down with u
pope, if she can lie after asking her, then she still lying about alot of other things. and for your own good sha, follow your heart, if u cannot live with the revelations, bid the relationship goodbye, and if u think u can live with a liar, a WOMAN liar for that matter then this should be your last report about further revelations.
b warned
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FactorChic (f)
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The simple truth is, GUYS THINK THEY WANT TO KNOW THESE THINGS, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T! I'VE SEEN LOTS OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS, THE RELATIONSHIP IS FINE TILL THEY START TALKING ABOUT THEIR PASTS! A LADY WILL NOT GET MAD IF A GUY TELLS HER HOW MANY LADIES HE HAS SLEPT WITH, BTU LET THE LADY TELL THE GUY HER OWN PART. HE WILL GET MAD, AND START LOOKING AT HER LIKE SHE'S SOME KINDA HOE! SO, LADIES LIE ABOUT IT! GUYS THINK THEY WANNA KNOW, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T!
@ POSTER, IF You DEY LOOK FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIP, You GO FORGET DIS RUBBISH ABOUT UR GIRL SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLE, IT WAS IND PAST, RIGHT? OPARI
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Sara1981 (f)
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The simple truth is, GUYS THINK THEY WANT TO KNOW THESE THINGS, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T! I'VE SEEN LOTS OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS, THE RELATIONSHIP IS FINE TILL THEY START TALKING ABOUT THEIR PASTS! A LADY WILL NOT GET MAD IF A GUY TELLS HER HOW MANY LADIES HE HAS SLEPT WITH, BTU LET THE LADY TELL THE GUY HER OWN PART. HE WILL GET MAD, AND START LOOKING AT HER LIKE SHE'S SOME KINDA HOE! SO, LADIES LIE ABOUT IT! GUYS THINK THEY WANNA KNOW, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T!
@ POSTER, IF You DEY LOOK FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIP, You GO FORGET DIS RUBBISH ABOUT UR GIRL SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLE, IT WAS IND PAST, RIGHT? OPARI Dats why i'm saving myself till i get married. Even if it means not ever having sex at all. Keeps your legs closed ladies! Guys are dogs!
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