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real_demi (f)
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@ Poster I think you should leave the babe alone because it's so obvious that you are already biased and disillusioned from the things you've heard and that were eventually confirmed through various happenings. Your mind is finding it HARD to accept that she's been with any body before you. Trust is already lacking and virtually you do not have a relationship anymore, It' s obvious u can't deal with it so just let her go. The simple truth is, GUYS THINK THEY WANT TO KNOW THESE THINGS, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T!
I'VE SEEN LOTS OF PEOPLE IN RELATIONSHIPS, THE RELATIONSHIP IS FINE TILL THEY START TALKING ABOUT THEIR PASTS! A LADY WILL NOT GET MAD IF A GUY TELLS HER HOW MANY LADIES HE HAS SLEPT WITH, BTU LET THE LADY TELL THE GUY HER OWN PART. HE WILL GET MAD, AND START LOOKING AT HER LIKE SHE'S SOME KINDA HOE! SO, LADIES LIE ABOUT IT! GUYS THINK THEY WANNA KNOW, BUT THEY REALLY DON'T!
@ POSTER, IF You DEY LOOK FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIP, You GO FORGET DIS RUBBISH ABOUT UR GIRL SLEEPING WITH OTHER PEOPLE, IT WAS IND PAST, RIGHT?
OPARI
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babadee (m)
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@ Poster
I think you should leave the babe alone because it's so obvious that you are already biased and disillusioned from the things you've heard and that were eventually confirmed through various happenings. Your mind is finding it HARD to accept that she's been with any body before you. Trust is already lacking and virtually you do not have a relationship anymore,
It' s obvious u can't deal with it so just let her go.
Say that again, sis.
word!!!!! |
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samtoye
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Hello
at times I'm surprised at the type of responses i read from this posts, i hope you all familiar with the word called HIV and AIDS? If you were convinced that AIDS simply stands for - American Invention 2 Discourage Sex, then when you cross over to the next life,you would be convinced beyond reasonable doubt that you have been swerved.
A girl that had multiple sex partners in the past and you are here arguing on love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Better go for HIV test yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for people yet to enter such hullabaloo, one word is enough for the wise,
""Na housefly wey no dey hear word dey follow dead body enter grave!!!!!!!!!!!!""
Ladies,Live a Godly life,What goes round comes round,you would have yourself to blame!!!!!!!!!!!
Men,Live a Godly life,You will reap whatever you sow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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osadudu
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guys have nasty sexual pasts too but nobody gets to call him names based on that.i don't support your girlfreind having been with so many guys in her past.u'r lucky u know before u guys got any deeper.if u'r so bothered about the whole thing,find yourself a virgin abi? and stop bitchin for us to hear/read.
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koolboi (m)
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nutin like tear leather my dear poster
let me ask you sumpin, no be pesin tear d one wey u de die 4?
u can't love a fairly used beta dan the leather tearer
na so
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ninja (f)
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You guys r pissin me off with this self rightous talk please. Women and men do not grow on trees definately she must have bin with someone else. So pope grow up and stop whinning after all am sure u hav some of your own dirty laundry  |
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valralph (m)
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Weda your babe lied to you or not.Babe generally have dirty past don't say the truth any more.You chick may not want to let you know about this for fear of losing you.None of them is so good as to say the truth these days. You fit decide to chop,clean mouth and commot but i tell u,d day u c her wit another guy,u fit die of emotional trauma,so think well before u leap. have you ever wondered what your so called cousins do too? man,be considerate, because they are'nt perfet after all.  |
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PurestBoy (m)
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Abeg make una bone this pope of a guy jare,
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Hardballer (m)
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Pope how many girls u done huh  if she isnt boning nobody else don't see wht the big deal is u said it yourself u have strong feeling for her if u can't live wit it let her go and don't waste her time |
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ifuale (f)
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[size=8pt][/size]pope,
sorry this is happening to u.have u ever sat dwn with your girl friend to know the reasons behind her sleeping around?some time it could be she is looking for love from a guy , all for the guys to just have s, x with her and dump.
my dear ,have a re-think and do not listen to people,on what u need in a girl.
ask yourself questions,, after all a whore can be some one's wife,and she would change her ways.remember pretty woman {a film}?,people change ,u can change her.
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JAUNTAI85 (f)
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 i really think you should just dump her and move on with your life, she lied to you for a year, i guarantee she has more secrets that she is not telling you, if you take her back, she will think she has you, and she will ren over you, and you will end up getting hurt in the end, i know it is hard to get over a person that you have been with for a long time, but you have too, get out of it before you guys end up having kids.
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Bazz1905
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Bazz honestly speaking, you're mentally disable. You lack manners, and I suspect you must have been brought up in a polluted environment. Nairaland ought to scan ppls IQ before registration.
Oloshi
Pope or what is it you call yourself. You sure are one sick fellow. I just have two words for you. SEEK HELP.
Oniburuku
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Coldasiyce (m)
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@ifuale
pretty woman?! lol!!! picture your kid brother bringing a whore home to your mom, i rest my case.
as for her reasons for sleeping around, do u honestly think there's any reason she can give to make it okay?!
@JAUNTAI85
everyone has secrets, we keep them for different reasons, like protecting our rep just like pope's girlfriend did.
@pope
all u need to do is redefine your relationship. if u like being with her, stick around by all means, as long as u keep it at the back of your mind that your relationship can never be a serious one. i also suggest u get back to searching for that girl of your dreams with an "oh-so-clean" slate. good luck with that!
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folly69 (m)
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@ pope well to b honest with u man its not a nice experience to talk about your past relationships cus it will only lead to hurt and more hurt.Well urs is small if i tell u mine u'll grab the girl if u truly love her.I love mine to the bone even though it hurts to have heard what happened in her past i'still find her loving and i love her back.so the choice is urs. |
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Toonice
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Well u better open your eye and watch her if she have change else send here away b/4 all your friend sleep with her
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nedsly
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POPE u have proven beyond doubt say u dey craze
You NO DEY FUCK B4?
You FIT COUNT HOW MANY GIRLS You DON FUCK?
AS LONG AS SHE'E IN ONE PIECE, FORGET THE PAST AND CONCENTRATE ON THE FUTURE OR ALTERNATIVELY DUMP HER AND MARRY YOUR COUSIN
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Eliza704
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Well to me, that topic should have never been brought up in the first place. Thats private, and girls and guys talk. Who ever she has been with before u is none of your business. Is she a bad girlfriend? If not then it shouldnt even matter.
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sugabelly (f)
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hey, so your girlfriend lied about how many guys she's shagged. she prob did it because she loves you. i don't recall you telling her how many girls you banged before her, and besides, if you love her, then it shouldn't matter. She probably lied because of people like your sisters who judge everyone and act holier than thou.
Let it go. As long as she is healthy and free of disease, let it go. What matters is that she's with you now.
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sugabelly (f)
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To the Poster:
I have ONE question for you. Just ONE.
How would you feel if a girl that you REALLY wanted to marry, asked around, and called someone you'd slept with in the past, and BASED ON THE FACT THAT YOU SLEPT WITH OTHER PEOPLE BEFORE HER, REFUSED TO MARRY YOU?
Judge not, lest ye be judged.
You do not deserve your girlfriend. I hope she reads this somehow. Because you are biased, you are judgmental, and you are unnecessarily self-righteous, and so are your sisters and your cousins.
Good luck finding someone that loves you in spite of your *ahem* above mentioned FLAWS!!
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