Girlfriend Lied About Sexual Partners

@goal keeper tommy
what? o that?
someone is imposting me here o. .I dey jare

it is really encouraging that u move on with her but don't be foolish about it.yes no true love without trials, yes stand by her, yes nobody holy pass, yes we all have pasts but check this:   when i was in school, my girlfriend had this very sexy friend who had this really nasty habit of messing around.not far from her guy's paths but within his social circle -neighbours, classmates and general friends. people warned him. eventually he got to know about some of the story. and my dear lover boy forgave her (he was in love) but failed to wonder what manner of girl was this adventurous.little was he aware the onslaught just begun  as she confides in my girl. as at when i graduated she had gone on to sleeping with the guy's brother, bestfriend, bestfriend's brothers, even pastor sef (guess why? seduced him and slept with him just to tell him he isnt as holy ).
@ poster. this may be an extreme case oo but haba, it would've been nice u ddnt know at all than knowing and not being cautious.she should have been bold enough  to admit to you of all people knowing that it will hurt u most when u find out.i'd rather forgive someone bold enough to confess to me than lying about it and making me a grand fool. then i believe there are still alot more to come to light. 
beware bro.

                            hummmm! na wa o!
                               pope , u still b virgine??
                                    abi na wetin com b this robish
                                        wey u dey talk so
         

what if d bebe sef beging dey open your yansh sef
u go like am?
   





        u see my people in the house
         i hate it when any thing a lady
         dose is subject to general opinion
        where as if a guy dose the same thing
         he is exemted, its just not fair
       

       see this pope,he did not tell the house about his excapadies
       with wemen in tn past but he can't tell about his girlfriend conviniently
     
        i say to him, ''POPE WATS UR BIZ WITH HER PAST?"
                                               You NO GET?
                             


HOUSE, i rest my case

@poster i think you are in the wrong place, nairaland is for Nigerians and friends of Nigerians and we are BLACK. so if u cnnot stan black people then get the f**k of niaraland.

Everyone has a past.The ability to forget about the past and forgive our partners for their past mistakes is what make relationships stand._{your girlfriend is no exception so forgive her and ignore any sidetalks}.Shit happens

The story may be fake but the issue is very real. Come to think of it who the hell on earth will bring a real problem to nairaland? While some folks busy themselves addressing issues others are busy stripping the poster trying to see what he has underneath his garment.

Like they say, deal with the message and not the messenger.

On the whole i think the issue is about a guy having enough maturity to deal with a girl's past and the girl being sensible enough to manage info regarding her past. It doesnt matter how much love there is in a relationship if there is anything that should never be discussed, this is it.

Just a tiny little mystery about a person's past is good for any relationship. It is natural for the guy to probe. Eventually my friend the Pope who has committed no sin will get to live with his suspicions and maybe joke about it later. But trouble dey if everything is confirmed. Like a certain guy I know who loved this girl so much and was getting ready to take her home to his parents. But he just kept on probing and wouldnt let go. After 2 weeks he had discreetly counted 18 guys in her short life.Needless to say a promising relationship died prematurely.

Some dudes have to understand that the state of a babe's anatomy does not directly correlate with the number of relationships she has been into. A babe may have been out with 15 guys yet she will have a better anatomy than one who has been in one relationship and been quietly damaged by one fella.

This is a true life story,

A certain man had a wife who was very promiscuous.  His relations kept reporting the woman's escapades to him.  The man did nothing.  On a certain occasion, the man's elder brother brought same report and the man replied his brother:  "Please let nobody trouble me about my wife's promiscuous life.  Anyday I want to make love to her and discover that her pu**y is missing, then I will ask her questions.  For now, let me be."  The brother was disappointed and from that day no one reported the wife to him again.

Note, the story does not imply that the man backed his wife's action.  He observed that the woman had a problem of self-control, and hostility towards her would not change matters.  Besides, if he had allowed the problem get into him, he might die and the woman would go on with her life.

I therefore do not think it is wise to start investigating your girlfriend's past sexual escapades.  Listening to other people's opinion may not help matter either.  I believe in the bible injunction that says love covers multitude of sins.

Forgive her and move ahead if you really love her.

try and find out the kind of girl she is ,after that u can take any action u like ,cvos some ladies always have a date because of sexnot  REAL DATING.BUT BE CAREFUL AIDS IS REAL

Mortiple, there is great difference between wife and girlfriend.

What girlfriends get away with, most sensible men will never allow their wives to get away with them.
The Bible says do not divorce except for the sake of adultery, so no woman should think she an get away with adultery after marriage even if the man overlook her escapades before marriage.

Love covers multitude of sins but not all sins.

I don't think that you are correct. It means that Pope knowing will affect what she expects from this union!!!
Shine your eye, no more lies

Hmmm,

please if u find out all the men she slept with, what do u intend to do with it? Will u also want to know how they were in bed?

@ siena.

You are just wonderful with your response,all i wanted to say

@poster
why digging  into her past???,of what use will it be to u? what about u? or are u telling us here u are a virgin before u met her? what shld be important is d present and not d past, and don't u forget that sometimes people/friends help in bringing out the best in us. if her past has been terrible as u try to make it sound, u can change her and make her a better person, thats all what friendship is all about. I have seen a case where a man met a runs babe girl, u kwn what he said? na for d girl body him go die, today they are married, and what do u say about that? Trials/errors will never fail to abound, a relationship fails, leaving the guy/girl to try  again with the next person, what chance does it leave u with? Numbers huh? all in d past.

Well a word they say is enough for d wise,if u really love this girl, accept her, except she fails to change,and to make it work, stop listening to your so called cousins, we girls can be envyous, keep your relationship clean by keeping away from rumours and hear say, cus they wil always strive.

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Hello my brother. Thanks very much,  You're the sweetest!

TRUST just got thrown out the window

Before starting afresh, be sure that she has truly repented, else na heart break #2 go get you