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mjsroxs (f)
Why?
« on: March 02, 2008, 08:09 AM »

I'm just wondering why guys act different around there friends?
OMO IBO (m)
Re: Why?
« #1 on: March 02, 2008, 10:41 AM »

we act different around friends because u women take us seriously. my friends and i like talking rubbish when we're around each other. but i can't imagine talking rubbish when im with my girl friend. take note of the rubbish because what we talk about ranges from what we did back in the days to whatever our fanatsies are. trust me it is nasty.

when a guy is around his madam, he needs to check what he says because madam takes everything serious. i'd like believe thats the situation u find yourself in
eldee (m)
Re: Why?
« #2 on: March 02, 2008, 03:56 PM »

@poster
Is it not the same with ladies, because there is no way u can tell me that you don't have a clique where you try to present your man like u're in control and that your man cannot live without u in sight.
Encomium (m)
Re: Why?
« #3 on: March 02, 2008, 06:11 PM »

Its not only guys, the gals are equally guilty of the same so called offence. People takes things of life in their own way of understanding.
mjsroxs (f)
Re: Why?
« #4 on: March 02, 2008, 06:37 PM »

Well I have a guy who when im with him alone, he's pretty much the sweetest guy I know.
He doesn't even cuss around me.
But with his friends, lets say I text him, He'll reply with "asjnfdsjnfjsdnfjsdf" after like 2 texts.

I know he's not going to act how he does when were alone, but atleast talking to me.

So I was just wondering.
Thanks for the reply's Wink
Busta (f)
Re: Why?
« #5 on: March 02, 2008, 09:22 PM »

everyone acts different around their friends.
j-girl (f)
Re: Why?
« #6 on: March 02, 2008, 09:35 PM »

@ Busta - guys are special in this case

@ topic - because they are a bunch of knuckleheads who are ashamed of their romantic/soft sides in the presence of their friends.
almondjoy (f)
Re: Why?
« #7 on: March 02, 2008, 09:36 PM »

@Topic

Because they lack maturity and sense of character. Concerned with what others think of them instead of what they think about themselves.

A phase most never come out of as you can see around you. Kiss
mjsroxs (f)
Re: Why?
« #8 on: March 03, 2008, 02:27 AM »

@ almond joy
I agree, I know some guys that still do the whole mimic thing when someone turns around.
If you know what I mean  Cheesy

@ j-girl
If only they were more open Cheesy


  Grin
D-reloaded (f)
Re: Why?
« #9 on: March 03, 2008, 02:42 AM »

mjsrox, why did you suddenly change your age from 12 to 19?
mjsroxs (f)
Re: Why?
« #10 on: March 03, 2008, 02:44 AM »

I didn't?
I haven't even messed why my profile yet?
The Sly
Re: Why?
« #11 on: March 03, 2008, 02:49 AM »

Quote
I'm just wondering why guys act different around there friends?
Bcos thats how it'z supposed to be and thats how God has mandated it to be. . . . . .  Cool
iceblue (f)
Re: Why?
« #12 on: March 03, 2008, 09:09 AM »

because when they meet the girl, they're putting their best foot forward and forget to show the other foot after a while. so the girl only sees their 'front'. when he's with friends, there's no 'i gotta look good so she'll like me' plan or strategy. or as j-girl put it, ashamed to show their romantic side in front of their friends - but i seriously doubt that. nigerian guys do not have a romantic side - they only have romantic fronts, acquired since teenage years as a ploy for getting girls.

funny, i prefer to date a guy who has known and treated me like any of the other guys/friends. so i can cuss him to pieces if he starts forming infront of his/our friends  Grin
Easybaby (f)
Re: Why?
« #13 on: March 03, 2008, 12:33 PM »

Quote from: D-reloaded on March 03, 2008, 02:42 AM
mjsrox, why did you suddenly change your age from 12 to 19?

And this is one of the reasons guys act differently Cheesy Grin Tongue
iice (f)
Re: Why?
« #14 on: March 03, 2008, 04:59 PM »

All has been said

Quote from: iceblue on March 03, 2008, 09:09 AM
funny, i prefer to date a guy who has known and treated me like any of the other guys/friends. so i can cuss him to pieces if he starts forming infront of his/our friends  Grin

I feel you Wink
My male friends sha na wahno get censorship for mouthsometimes i just have to leave them because i don't want to be hearing their stories Grin
tommyex (m)
Re: Why?
« #15 on: March 03, 2008, 05:12 PM »

IICE
if i may ask,do u love colour purple that much that u type with it?
Jus curious if it aint prying that is>>>>
iice (f)
Re: Why?
« #16 on: March 03, 2008, 05:28 PM »

Tommy,
I like some shades of the color but i wouldn't say i love it. . .
tommyex (m)
Re: Why?
« #17 on: March 03, 2008, 05:30 PM »

Ok
u tend 2 become popular with d way u light up pages,like purple mean Iice is around.
Its ok though
easy
iice (f)
Re: Why?
« #18 on: March 03, 2008, 05:34 PM »

Well you haven't complained yet about your eyes Grin Grin
2dye4 (m)
Re: Why?
« #19 on: March 03, 2008, 05:36 PM »

thats right. me thinks the purple is kind of electrifying,

@iice: howdee, its bin awhile.
tommyex (m)
Re: Why?
« #20 on: March 03, 2008, 05:36 PM »

I have changed eye glasses every other week since u came to Nairaland Grin
*Kiddin*
Can i ask another Q?
iice (f)
Re: Why?
« #21 on: March 03, 2008, 05:41 PM »

2dye4, thank you Cheesy
Yeah it's been awhileyou have been scarce. . .
I think we always jam in 'friday is near' threads Tongue Grin Grin
How have you been?

@Tommy
Well you best be getting some good ol' sturdy shades Tongue
Errhhh ask aheadthough no guarantee am gon' answer suitably (for you maybe) Grin
tommyex (m)
Re: Why?
« #22 on: March 03, 2008, 05:45 PM »

 Grin

I will see d optician soon to that effect!
hmm.  . .
let me give it a shot,its very prim
whats your ID about?
iice (f)
Re: Why?
« #23 on: March 03, 2008, 05:51 PM »

You do thatmake sure they are not so dorkydon't want to end up looking like Erkel now would you? Tongue

Errhhh it describes me Undecided
tommyex (m)
Re: Why?
« #24 on: March 03, 2008, 05:53 PM »

I will prefer 2 start up looking like that and see how i end up Cheesy

I knew u ll avoid d Q systematically but its ok was jus curious
iice (f)
Re: Why?
« #25 on: March 03, 2008, 05:56 PM »

LMAO was that a hint? Grin Grin Good for you Cheesy
Yeahone of my finer qualities Tongue
But if you understand ityou'l know it sorta fits me Cheesy
tommyex (m)
Re: Why?
« #26 on: March 03, 2008, 05:59 PM »

HINT??i dnt get that 1,as in hint of how i look??

as per finer qualities,it can confuse me so i wont even think about it,
I know u cool bt not sure if its as 'Ice' Wink
iice (f)
Re: Why?
« #27 on: March 03, 2008, 06:02 PM »

Yes as in how you look
Well what is ice to you?
tommyex (m)
Re: Why?
« #28 on: March 03, 2008, 06:05 PM »

ok Cheesy

Ice block is ice 2 me
rigid,mean cold!! Cheesy
iice (f)
Re: Why?
« #29 on: March 03, 2008, 06:09 PM »

Well i wouldn't say a block of ice lol
More like a glacier Grin
But cold yeahyeah that is a part of me Tongue
tommyex (m)
Re: Why?
« #30 on: March 03, 2008, 06:11 PM »

Ohh
I now see why everyone is scared of u, Cheesy.
Glaciers r even more dangerous.
At least i know u beta nownice exchanging words widya,i ll be off 2 read my book soon,i don't want dad 2 beat me Cheesy
jkpretty (f)
Re: Why?
« #31 on: March 03, 2008, 06:22 PM »

@topic
Why because they don't want their friends to see them as not being in control. Some like to act like they don't care to their friends. But that's being immature. I've realized even to any age they do it, the gravity just differs.

Tell u something, my self & my boo recently just got back together after a little separation. His mum called me to ask me what happened. I explained to her. She called her son and asked him he said "she wasn't calling me so i decided not to call back". His mum called me back to confirm this & i told her straight that he has begged me & told me it was ego & pride. His mum just laughed. See how our men can be. Undecided
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