Funny Marriage Proposal

@OluluSo what happens if the man has a bad attitude, you bench him too, abi. Main point, there should be mutual respect, they are both team players.
I bet you fergie would not delibrately be rude to Evra because he feels he could field someone else. If he does that he has lost his respect as a coach. Respect is mutual, my dear Olulu and you seem very smart so you should know that. Believe me when you meet a good oman you know and you would not want to loose her, but when you meet a woman who feels she has to endure every trash you spring on her because she wan marry, i sure say u go run.
@ Chisco 82, I can't even answer you because you are stuck in another world.

I think the lady acted right.It might not be the best thing to say,but I guess she acted on the spur of the moment.Imagine being taken out and then told that.If she ends up marrying that guy,then I wish them luck in the union.A man like that would be an'OBASANJO' in the home,it would be run by strict military fiat,no 'honey,what do you think'.

But sha,husband scarce,so she can make do with that,but don't expect him to change tomorow and become the epitome of sensitivity,and love.Just know what you are getting into,and don't go running to your pastor tomorow when starts showing more of the same colours of his,abi?

^{Wife nko??}


@Poster - that proposal ain't funny atallllllllllllllllllllll. . .  ^{i hav finally decided 2 marry u indeed!!}

It all good thou,since they r bac 2gether again.

Husband scares husband scares. . . scares for where?

There is always a good man available for some good woman to hook up with.

Thanks Chigo,

I have no doubt that the lady is not yet ready or betterstill mature for marriage.  I am disappointed that almost immediately after the man proposed marriage to her, she wasted no time by informing her friend, and even asked her to post it on Nairaland. 

I wonder the kind of wife this lady will be - Information Minister, may be. 

Aisha2, even u sef?  Na wao! 

I aint available maself buddy. . .am hooked! nailed! and am content, if not, i wldn't type wht u quoted!

@poster

the guy is a bit daft, he should have been more complimentary and respectful.

the girl should be thanking her stars she got someone to propose to her

in this world where guys hardly want to marry, some girls/women even beg guys who ticks all for them, for marriage

let her wait for a better proposal then, since she wants someone who would whisk her away to Mt Kilimanjaro and propose before she develops butterflies in her tummy!!!

civilization has changed things a lot, i wish we were in the days of our forefathers!

Efuah dear who is taunting you, abi you never tell them

I respect u almondjoy.u re a true  Nigerian and you re being yourself and being real.Thumps up for u.
You see what ego leads women into, alot of them at 30 with out anybody to marry them.then afterwards,they pick up the placard of single parent.So far i can cater for child,what the heck wit a hubby they always quickly say that when the issue is mention anywhere (Thats themajor problem  and root cause of al american problem)

You see,truely ,economy is causing alot of Nigerian male think longer before jumping into wedlock.The guy must hav thought about it for long and finally decided to go all the way with her.afterall it takes two to tangle and honestly she needs his consent,

Conclusively,babe you ve made  a mistake .take good look around and see alot of better beautiful girls,ladies ,queens and princessess with out any hubby and would jump even at proposal worst than that.
If u will stick wit your decision, then u ve wasted all the 4 years with him, come to think of it what do u want from this relationship?, Isnt it this, because he didnt proposed to u on a loveboat and a mo polite way u think u should throw it at him.I bet u never knew what the guy went through before coming to that decision and saying it out to u .Most people are not what they say they are.so most often people lie about how they are proposed to, its a complex, and u re letting it ruin your future.
Any way its not over yet .just go back to him and show him love,

MANNER OF WEDDING PROPOSAL IS NOT A FUNCTION OF HOW HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL THE MARRIAGE WILL BE>SHIKENA

@ AlmondJoy

Am very surprise reading AlmondJoy replies here making some good sense, after reading all her replies to the post "How To Stop Sex And Enjoy Your Relationship Till Marriage?". I never know she still have some sense up there in her senses.

Well, maybe her sense are not as whore/phokaholic as her ass. Thank God there is still hope 4 AJ.

Almondjoy again? Anyway this is prime time network.  Let me save the yappies for work tonignht!

aisha2, you are missing a point here.  I blamed the lady for the simple reason that the man was only doing things the only way he knew how to.  No be Nigerian man?  There are somethings my husband will say to me even in public.  I go say "Yessir"! People go begin deey laff us.   When I get home, I will sit him down and tell him exactly I feel and what the hell he did, privately so his ego will not blow up in ma face in public.  In public I will be laughing with him, but deep down in me, I know that I need to cuss him out there and then.  But I say to myself. . . . . .what do I accomplish here now?  To entertain people or make a fools of ourselves here now?  I just walk, especially in public.  At  home alone, all bets are off. . . . . .anything goes. Even the walls will have no ears!

So my point is that she for kpele am small, since na bush man.   If he talks like this for a proposal, you can imagine what he does on a daily basis, and she has been dating him for so long.  The guy did not know any better.  Her womanly skills should have come out by being more civilized.  Instead what did she do. . . . acted worse than the man who is his natural habitat mentally. Hers was worse, because that is not her natural habitat. . . .she should be thinking not actin' on impulse. . . . .knowing the kind of man she has been dealing with.

She should have corrected him later and not spoil that moment.  The guy always thinks he is on top of the world doing something special. . . .all you can do is humor him. Then correct him later.  Nobody said men should treat women like trash.  This guy did not mean to.   This is a small matter ma dear.  Bigger battles are way ahead.  I like to save my energy for important battles not a simple marriage proposal gone bad.  Infact I find it funny, because I am used to such things from Nigerians, especially the men.  This was not an occasion to prove ma independence at all.  Anyway, people handle things differently.

That is why there are successful marriages and unsuccessful marriages.   People will learn the hard way hopefully when it is not too late.  Communication is the key and women do that better.  So women have a lot of work to do in that area.  Tell your friend to learn.  Next time, it might not go her way and only God knows what else! She need to learn to count her teeth with her tongue not her fingers. . . . .especially in public.

wow, it sounded like he was buying a car.  hmm the toyota or the nissan, well i guess i will buy the toyota.  of course i have finally decided to go with the toyota, nissan is too big anyway. 

when put in that context its a real insult.  but that is naija for u oh

every move u make in life is a decision.

She apparently has been 'working hard' to get the guy to propose, why would she reject it?
I mean if the guy actually said that to her as a marriage proposal it could only mean she's been making the guy feel like a superster she can't live without.

@poster
tell ya friend she spent four years making this guy feel he's doing her a favour,
now d guy don go a step further to do her 1 big favour of her life and the choice of words suppose show am.

If she must marry the guy she has to correct the wrong impression.